Qu's mother, 1900, is from Xiaoshan, Zhejiang. She is a famous local beauty and studied in Zhejiang Women's Normal School. At the age of 20, she fell in love with and married Shen, the son of a famous enlightened gentry in Zhejiang. Shen likes poetry and music, but after he and his friends arrived in Shanghai, they couldn't stand the temptation of ten miles of foreign markets and luxurious life and fell. At this point, Yang Zhihua has given birth to a daughter, Du Yi, which means that you are the only one, which shows the resentment in Yang Zhihua's heart. 1922, Yang Zhihua went to Shanghai alone to participate in the women's movement, met Xiang Jingyu, Wang Jianhong and others, and was admitted to the Department of Sociology of Shanghai University at the end of 1923.
Qu Qiubai was then the head of the Department of Sociology. He is personable and knowledgeable and enjoys a high reputation among teachers and students. Yang Zhihua listened to Qu Qiubai's class for the first time, which left an unforgettable impression on him.
Yang Zhihua studied hard and took an active part in social activities, and Qu Qiubai knew her very well. Qu Qiubai also served as her party introducer. However, when Yang Zhihua felt that they liked each other, his heart was full of contradictions. She chose to escape and ran back to her mother's house in Xiaoshan. Facing the great choice of life, Qu Qiubai also pondered hard: Since Shen betrayed, why can't I love? Since you really love her, why can't you show it! So during the summer vacation, Qu Qiubai boldly came to Xiaoshan Yang's house.
At that time, Shen was also in the Yang family. Unexpectedly, Shen and Qu Qiubai hit it off, and he had great respect and admiration for Qu Qiubai's character and talent. Faced with complicated emotional problems, the three of them started a strange "negotiation": they first talked at Yang's house for two days, then Shen took Qu Qiubai and him to his house to talk, and they talked for another two days. Finally, Qu Qiubai took Shen He to Changzhou to talk. At that time, the Qu family was in ruins and there were no chairs. Three people sat on a piece of broken cotton wool and chatted. As a result of the negotiations, three notices were published in the Republic of China Daily: one was Shen Yu's divorce notice, the other was Qu Qiubai's marriage notice, and the third was Qu Qiubai's friendship notice with Shen.
10 7, October Revolution Memorial Day, Qu and Yang held a wedding in Shanghai, and Shen personally attended the ceremony to congratulate them. Since then, Qu Qiubai and Shen have also become good friends, often writing letters, poems and singing together. More interestingly, Shen gave Qu Qiubai a six-inch photo-Shen shaved his head, wore a cassock and held a bunch of flowers. The words "Buddha offering flowers" are written on the photo, which means that he is not worthy of Yang Zhihua, and he dedicated her to Qu Qiubai.
On one occasion, Qu Qiubai said to Yang Zhihua, "I must carve' Autumn Flowers',' Autumn Flowers' and' Autumn Flowers' into three stamps to show that you have me and I have you, and we will never part." Qu said: "In order to commemorate their marriage, my father personally carved the words' to my life partner' on a gold pin and gave it to my mother. This token of love has been with her mother for decades. "
Someone once asked Yang Zhihua why Qu Qiubai didn't remarry after his death. She replied, "No one treats me better than Qiu Bai." 1955, after 20 years of hard searching, Yang Zhihua finally found Qu Qiubai's remains in Changting, Fujian, and transported them back to Beijing, where they were buried in Babaoshan Revolutionary Cemetery. Premier Zhou Enlai wrote an inscription for "Qu Qiubai's Tomb". Yang Zhihua's experience was comforted. She missed Qu Qiubai until the end of her life.