Times are changing, so is the concept of marriage. Ancient people attached great importance to marriage, so did the older generation.
Nowadays, young people advocate free love, which makes people wonder, is "fit" really that important? With the continuous development of society, this concept has gradually faded. Although some families still choose the right partner, some families advocate free love.
It is external. Marriage is between you and him, and it is internal. In this world, the happiness of you two depends on your own efforts. Relatives, friends and family are all others. You are the dearest one. Because only you can feel your closest feelings, and it is difficult for others to observe them.
Some people say, I don't care if it's right. It is most important for two people to have a common topic. If we can't talk together, it's no use being right. I care more about each other's quality. Because some people look like golden branches and jade leaves, but they can't bear to look straight inside. The most important thing is that two people love each other. People who love each other have no obstacles. Love is the best match.
I once heard a story that a girl from an ordinary family found a boyfriend from a poor family, but the boyfriend wanted to find a girl with a house and a car and finally broke up. From then on, the girl figured it out, not only because of money, but also because of three views, two people who are not suitable for family may not get along. So sometimes not only women care about conditions, but men also care.
But whether marriage is suitable or not depends on feelings. If marriage is suitable, it is icing on the cake, but if your other half is a capable and hardworking person, I believe your life will get better and better. If that's the case, I believe many other half can work with them. However, in many families, parents still care about each other's families. Therefore, whether marriage is suitable or not should be carefully considered and parents' opinions should be sought.
Although we advocate free love now, we should also consider each other's family background. We don't have to be suitable for each other, but we must have the right conditions. The economic conditions of the two families don't match, and even the deepest feelings will be slowly killed by the trivial things in life.
I wish everyone can find a suitable partner.