They share a basement of less than 10 square meter. They were squeezed into a small bed. When they turn over, they can touch the wall. Every day when they enter the door, it is the bed. There are six such small rooms on the floor of the basement where they rent together, and almost a dozen people share a bathroom and a shower.
? Every time a classmate complains about going to the toilet, he has to go to a shopping mall hundreds of meters away to solve it. Xiao Xin used his mobile phone to send his resume online, comforted his classmates and found a job. We moved out immediately.
? They've been looking for it for almost three months, and their ammunition is running out. Fortunately, God never shuts one door but he opens another. They entered a company as salesmen, with only commission and no basic salary. In the sales business, just like Liu Yun in "Don't Believe Tears in the North", if you want to get more commission, you must learn to drink and make those bosses happy before you can give you a list.
? At this time, they still live in the dark and narrow basement. In order to pull the list, they run until midnight every day. Sometimes, they just need to sign, wait for the boss in the company, wait all day, and still don't sign.
? Xiao Xin once had a high fever of 40 degrees. At that time, she ran a list and signed the contract in the afternoon. She was afraid it would be too late, so she pulled it out and ran away. The nurse called her in the back. You were desperate.
Just as she was desperately trying to pull the list, her classmates left. Before leaving, her classmates said that she didn't want to live this inhuman life any more. If necessary, she can introduce a boss to Xiao Xin.
Since then, Xiao Xin has been fighting in the workplace every day, fighting for his life and seizing every opportunity to sign the bill. After a year, her monthly salary finally rose from 800 to 4000, and her income began to stabilize. She shares a room with others and sleeps in the living room.
There are classmates who bask in her brand-name bags, new clothes and photos of countries she has been to in the circle of friends every day, which is simply insulting Xiao Xin! Sometimes, Xiao Xin also envies her classmates. She didn't blink when she bought all kinds of cards from buy buy. She always asks herself in her mind, is it worth it? A woman's youth is only a few years, how much can she get by working hard every day.
Envy to envy, Xiao Xin still dare not take that step.
Once, she went to a company and wanted to talk about signing a contract. Walking to the door of the boss's house, she heard a voice inside and had to stand at the door and wait.
"My mother will have tower bridge surgery in a couple of days. Can you give me100000 yuan? "
"You don't go outside to inquire about it. You are still worthless. I'll give you 10 thousand a month, which is too much. You are not satisfied. "
There was a woman's cry and a man's severe reprimand.
Xiao Xin stayed where he was in shock. This voice belongs to her classmate.
"If you really need money, kneel down and beg me." The boss said.
Xiao Xin ran away when he heard this. She is afraid of hearing that voice.
The next day, the students took photos of themselves going back to their hometown in the circle of friends, holding the latest Chanel in their hands.
I thought being a mistress could at least improve my life. In fact, when you decide to be a mistress, you will not only betray your body, your dignity and your soul, but also be trampled on in vain.
In a few years, your youth will be gone and you will be worthless. Men will throw you into the trash like old clothes.
Once I called outside KTV and heard voices in a box, which seemed to be men such as company bosses and entrepreneurs. They drank and chatted. This paper discusses the experience of using nightclubs, the experience of treating sexually transmitted diseases, and the price list of retaining women of various styles. A man is proud of having many lovers, and some men are still happily sharing the story of bargaining with a massage woman with their friends. The atmosphere is very tense.
In their eyes, women are just commodities, and after the shelf life, they have no value. We think it is very important in the eyes of others, but in fact, in their eyes, it is just an item that can be solved with money.
I was sleeping in the middle of the night when the phone rang and I answered it.
My best friend quarreled with her husband, and my best friend ran out.
When I was about to go out to look for her, my best friend came in crying.
Husband is a civil servant in a public institution. They have been married for seven years, and their lives are very sweet and happy. Have a lovely daughter. In order to take care of the children conveniently, the in-laws bought a small house in their community. Every day, I not only have to look after the children, but also clean, wash clothes and cook for the young couple.
Her boss, a man in his fifties, promoted her to department head. It can be said that she has a good harvest in her family and career.
After her job was promoted, she and her boss often went on business trips. Over time, they were together. She became a mistress, her boss had a wife and children, and her sons all graduated from college. She struggled in her marriage and thought she was unhappy, pitiful and pathetic.
Men want to hook up with women, there are often three steps. First, he always shows his charm and shows concern for his wife. For example, when a woman is sick, she will be caring and attentive, and sometimes even when her "big aunt" comes, she will be given brown sugar water; The second is to tell the misfortune of your family. His wife doesn't understand herself. She always quarrels with herself when she comes home every day. Her son doesn't think of himself as a father, and always shows how hurt he is. His marriage is full of loopholes. If the children had not had a complete family, they would have divorced. Third, when the woman is sympathetic to herself, she gives herself famous brand bags and watches and other gifts, including money.
? Men want to hook up with women, especially to find a lover, which is nothing more than these three steps.
? His friends stayed with him for half a year and he bought three Chanel bags. In addition, he gave her 300,000 yuan for stock trading. My friend once thought that they really loved each other, and hoped that he would go home and show his cards to his wife, who would go home and divorce himself.
? But when she asked her husband for a divorce, he disagreed, thinking that after so many years, they still had deep feelings. She just skated for a while, and her husband and children will continue to accept her as long as she turns back.
? I asked my friend, how do you know that man will divorce his wife? Don't be silly, he won't mention it at all. Maybe his wife already knows about your relationship, but she thinks men like to play outside, and she has already acquiesced. There is no way to take your own man for the sake of your family, but turn a blind eye. When she is over 50, she won't have any bones.
? Friends don't talk.
? I continued to ask her, the brand-name bag he bought for you, probably A, gave you that 300 thousand, how much do you have left?
? My friend said that I lost150,000 in stock trading.
? So have you decided to divorce resolutely? What if that person is not sincere? What about the baby? I asked some angrily.
? My friend didn't speak. As soon as I saw that there was still room for redemption, I advised her: "Now that you have raised 300,000 yuan, her wife will ask you for it when she knows. Even if she goes to court, it is the joint property of husband and wife. People have the right to get your money back and sell the three guarantees he gave you. Out of sight, out of mind. "
When we went to sell bags, it wasn't even a product, so our friend resigned sadly.
In reality, there is a man who can stand his wife cuckolding himself, but fortunately, her husband forgave him.
Some things that happen to others are stories, and things that happen to yourself are accidents.
2. Banqiao is a beautiful young college student in the Korean drama "Gold Coming Out", who falls in love with an entrepreneur ten years older than himself. At first, it was sweet talk, and they loved each other every day, but after a long time, men also wanted to return to their families.
Banqiao gave birth to a son to get a seat. Unexpectedly, as soon as his son was born, he was taken away by a man and raised by his wife. With the support of his wife, his son is walking on thin ice every day, and his academic performance has improved slightly. His wife began to improve her son, who didn't even go to high school.
She takes the living expenses from her wife every month. If she annoys his wife a little, she will be sent to America, leaving her alone to die abroad.
? 4. According to a survey data, among thousands of extramarital affairs, few men really want to marry a mistress after divorce, less than 1%.
In men's hearts, they know very well that their relationship with mistress is always mixed with "interests", and they all want what they want, although some mistresses keep saying that men are their true love, not for money. But men understand, "Will you love me without money?"
? Mistress also has risks. If a man's wife finds out one day, she will probably beat you up in the street. When your charm is gone, men will continue to find younger people to replace you, and they will be more ruthless and thorough when they dump you. What men want is a large vibrant forest, and old cows always like to eat young grass.
Writer Yang Xiwen said: "I love money, I love that kind of clean money. With a slightly harder taste, I can grab the order and say that I will pay for dating a man. " It allows me to go to the most expensive restaurant for a big meal when I am sad, without bargaining on the menu; It also allows me to live in a two-bedroom and one-bedroom house when I am lovelorn.
Many times, money is a person's dignity and freedom.
Xiao Xin knew this for a long time, so she will work harder to make money. Now, she has paid a down payment for a small two-bedroom apartment, and she has a boyfriend who is the manager of a bank. He was attracted by the charm of Xiao Xin who dared to work hard and make money.
Women, if they want to be strong enough, have to prove themselves with money. First of all, you should have the ability to make money. When you get to a certain position, you will find that your money is worthless, and your time and your youth are the most valuable. Those who please a person and sell themselves at a good price purely for money worship and pleasure, those who are cheap and dirty, those who abandon their families for vanity and do not know how to repent will not come to a good end.
Instead of obsessing about how to get men to spend money for you, think about how to make money yourself. It is better to make a living by yourself than to wait for a man to give alms. Even if you live in a dirty and small basement, you can at least live in peace of mind.