However, usually only some old people around can achieve this state. Think about the reason. Most of them are happy old people, grandchildren. They want nothing, so everything around them will laugh it off, and there will be less trouble and worry.
Some things in these two days made me start to think about my present situation. "Self-construction, pursuing selflessness" is actually my most urgent need at present, especially self-construction. First, self-construction can better grasp what is the state of no self. I said not to care about other people's comments, but I still didn't do it. No matter what others say, I can always find the corresponding state from my past and feel that what others say is right.
When I began to worry about my own shortcomings, I was eager to know the answer and kept thinking about why others always knew me like that and why others always said my own shortcomings. Then, the answer is obvious when you see this sentence. I am me, but I have no self. I gradually entered the image of others. People said what he thought I was like, and then I became like that, intentionally or unintentionally. Because other people's comments are not good, they will be sad.
I know I have a problem, and I know that no one is perfect, but how can it be so difficult to accept my imperfection? Build yourself, but what is self? What is a self without self?