June is the "graduation season", and there is an atmosphere of parting in colleges and universities. Couples are faced with the choice of where to go. According to a survey, more than 70% of college students' couples broke up as soon as they graduated. In the face of survival pressure such as employment and future, love is fragile and breaking up is inevitable. More than 70% of college students' couples broke up after graduation. 1 The future is very different. It is not sudden that Zhao Minggang broke up with his girlfriend at a university in Sichuan. "When we first fell in love, we were together almost every day, having classes together, eating together and taking a walk in the playground at night." Zhao Minggang's family is away from home, and his girlfriend is from Chengdu, with a good family. "I am facing graduation this year, writing a thesis, submitting a resume and looking for a job. I am so busy that I can't even see my girlfriend for a few minutes. " The salary given to her by her girlfriend's parents is very good and there is a lot of room for improvement. As a foreigner, it is not easy to find a good job in Chengdu. His resume either sank into the sea or was erased after the interview. Zhao Minggang is under increasing pressure. There is less time for the two to meet, but there are more and more contradictions. Sometimes it's hard to meet once, and some trivial things will always lead to a quarrel. Facing the uncertainty of the future, both of them feel at a loss. When his girlfriend said the word "breakup", Zhao Minggang accepted the result without even struggling. There are not a few "Bifen people" like Zhao Minggang. "Four people in our dormitory have had girlfriends, and now they have all broken up, leaving none." Liu Duan, a recent graduate, said, "As a student from the countryside like me, I don't know how many years I will go to school. There is no reason to ask others to be with you. " In real life, there can be neither love nor bread. "Many college students have heard a similar teaching: in college love," material conditions "are not the primary consideration, but once you enter the society, there are too many things to consider, and the economy is an important factor. The love story between Zhang Shu and his girlfriend, who are separated from each other, was once a beautiful talk on campus. They have been in love since freshman year, and they are recognized as golden lovers. Just before graduation, Zhang Shu was looking for a good unit, but his girlfriend insisted on going back to her hometown in Shanghai. " When we first fell in love, we agreed to be together after graduation. "After many nights of long talks, the two finally failed to reach an agreement. Just before graduation, my girlfriend sent a message to Zhang Shu: "Let's break up. I wish you happiness in the future. "In today's increasingly fierce employment competition, this' sense of distance' between the two places has accelerated campus love. In the eyes of college students today, their differences and contradictions are irreconcilable at this stage. Instead of struggling to maintain them, it is better to break off their relationship and start over. Before graduation, I suddenly fell in love without regrets. This summer, Xiaomei, who just got her diploma, became single. But in the face of breaking up, she didn't cry, but admitted that the experience of these months was wonderful. "I just want to experience the feeling of love, so I am ready to break up." It turns out that Xiaomei didn't fall in love until the third year of high school. This made her feel that something was missing, so she asked her roommate to introduce her boyfriend just after school started. "It wasn't long before I fell in love. He is a good boy, and he agrees with me. He thinks this kind of love is easy to be together. " Xiaomei counted this "tacit" love as the last lesson before graduation. Before graduation, I don't ask the result, but I suddenly have an affair, which is called "yellow romance" on campus. There are two mechanisms for its occurrence. First, the university is coming to an end, and it is a pity that I have never been in love. I must give it a try. Second, I have a secret love in my heart and have never dared to express it. At the last minute, I will throw caution to the wind. If I'm lucky, I may get something. Even if I am rejected, I have no regrets. Under the guidance of this mentality, a party may trigger several pairs of "yellow love", graduation is just around the corner, and it is also the time when love ends.