If you have a firm heart, a belief that you can stick to. You know, in fact, you are no worse than anyone else. Failure in the college entrance examination can't decide anything. In today's society, most people with low academic qualifications are capable. Do you believe it or not?
You said you wanted to suffer. I want to ask you, have you ever tasted bitterness? In fact, do you know that physical pain is often much less than mental pain? You like English and computers, but do you insist? No matter what others say about you, will you stick to your hobby?
You said you were confused, you couldn't find what you wanted to do, and your parents couldn't help you. Is that so?
I don't know what to call you, just call you a friend.
Friend! In this world, no one can help you, only you can help you, okay?
Friend! Change is painful, but it will hurt for a lifetime if you don't change!
I can see that your parents don't care enough about you. However, you have to love yourself, and you have to learn to love yourself. Of course, you have to extend your hand of love to the people around you.
Why are you confused? You have something you like! You know, many people your age don't even know what they like.
Society itself is a university that can experience people. You should know this very well after working for a few months. In society, you can learn a lot that you can't learn at school!
I once answered a person like this: whether you choose to study, go out to work, or do business, you must be clear about why you are here like this. If it means nothing to you, it can't bring you happiness, or you can't show your skills well. Then please don't choose first!
You can spend a little time to discover the meaning and value of your life. This will prevent you from making choices that you regret.
Same: I don't want to help you. Just want to prove that the world, and people who understand you, they don't. Just for a chance and encounter. ...............
Do what you like and are good at.
"Do what you like and are good at, and God will help you succeed." This is what Bill Gates, the richest man in the world, said. Bill Gates is a computer genius. Even before he became famous, he was obsessed with computers and was a typical workaholic. But this kind of "work" is entirely out of an instinctive hobby, which has been vividly demonstrated in his middle school days.
At that time, in order to study the computer playing poker program, he was almost hungry. Poker and computer consumed most of his time. Like other things he cares about, Gates plays poker very seriously. Although he didn't play well for the first time, he was not discouraged. Finally, he became a poker master and developed this computer program. During that time, as long as he didn't play poker at night, Gates would appear in Aiken Computer Center of Harvard University, because there were not many people using computers at that time. Sometimes, when he is exhausted, he falls asleep on the computer. Gates may not be the best student in mathematics at Harvard University, but his talent in computer is unparalleled. His tutor was surprised not only by his cleverness, but also by his exuberant and abundant energy.
In the early days, in addition to business and business trips, Gates worked all night in the company, often late into the night. Sometimes, the secretary will find him snoring loudly on the floor of the office. Genius, hobbies and diligence have made the world's richest man a brilliant and happy life.
Among all the happiness in life, there is a kind of happiness that people relish and envy. This kind of happiness is not available to most people, and only a few people can be very lucky. Most people have to do jobs they don't like in order to make a living, and true happiness is that what they do is consistent with their hobbies, as Shao Yibo, the founder of Yi Bei, said: "If a person wants to succeed, he must find what he wants to do most, which is of course his most capable thing, so that he can work passionately every day and succeed easily ..."
Shao Yibo is a very successful young man. As early as in high school, he made his mark in mathematics and went to Harvard University in the second year of high school. After graduating from Harvard University with an MBA, he declined the high-paying employment offered by major consulting companies and financial investment banks in the United States, and returned to Shanghai to establish Yi Bei Company as CEO. Today, Yi Bei has become the world's largest online trading platform for Chinese.
How to choose a job and determine the career direction?
1, in fact, it is difficult to determine your career direction before work. But before looking for a job, be sure to determine your career direction as much as possible, so as to distinguish the types of resumes (the second step of resumes). Then how to do it? I think the best way is to participate in social practice activities as much as possible during college and find your own interests and direction. Internship is a good method. Every summer vacation in my university, I practice, do things that interest me, and take an active part in social activities. The school also worked as a student cadre and participated in school activities. So I set myself two career development directions before looking for a job: 1, technical expert; 2. Professional managers; The field of work is determined in the fields of computer and communication.
2. Some students were admitted at the first interview, and then they didn't continue to look for a job, or they signed the contract after receiving the first OFFER. Compared with them, I can only say that my job search experience is rather bumpy. But what I want to say is, have they chosen their favorite jobs? Some people think that signing a good company is enough; Some say that the company has good treatment and good development prospects; Wait, give yourself a lot of excuses not to keep looking for a job. It's really tiring to find a job, but it's worth it for the first job. I worked as an intern in three companies before I decided on my present job. I have worked as a training lecturer, product assistant and stevedore in the operation department of Shenzhen Airlines, and learned the nature of work in different positions of different companies through internship. Basically, I have a basic understanding of each position, mainly to determine my career direction. Therefore, the internship before work is very important for determining your career direction.
3. Do what you like and do what you are good at! Big companies may not be suitable for you, and good treatment can't bring you a happy working mood. The work of a big company is divided into small parts, and everyone is responsible for a small part. You can't learn much, but it depends on your thoughts to learn what you are responsible for. For me, I hope to get in touch with more things and take on more responsibilities. Only by choosing what you like at work can you have the passion and motivation to work and promote your better development. Some companies offer generous salaries, but I don't like them. I can't stand working in depression every day. For example, in Shenzhen Airlines. In the future work, I also think it is right to give up Flextronics and sanmina-sci's technology research and development work, because I don't like boring research work, and I prefer to get in touch with people. Of course, according to everyone's personality.
I think the first job is very important. Choosing your first job correctly can shorten your time to success. Because the first job choice is not good, you have to jump ship, re-choose your favorite job, and then start over, wasting the most passionate and motivated time just after graduation. Why not choose before you start and do your best? Some students are like this. They finally found a job and wanted to sell themselves. But in my opinion, it doesn't suit her. Tell her my opinion and she will find a lot of reasons to convince herself that the company has good welfare and good development prospects. For example, one of my female classmates got a job in software testing in a big company, but she didn't do her own experiments at school and her report was copied. She knows little about computers and can even use WORD. I know that software testing is boring and difficult to develop, and it is not suitable for that girl, but I finally signed it, and then I stopped looking for a job and didn't go to the company for an internship. Some companies may say that you don't need to go to an internship or apply for an internship after graduation, but I still hope that students will apply for an internship. Generally, you will agree to practice with the company and leave a good impression.
When it comes to success, Shao Yibo said, "It was not my impulse to return to China to start a business, but I thought about it for a long time before I decided. Most importantly, I feel interested and willing to develop in this area. "
There are differences between people, everyone has advantages, and there are things that are good at and not good at. The key is to know yourself. I have a friend who runs a beauty salon. Previously, she opened a resin handicraft factory on impulse. As a result, she lost a lot because she didn't understand and didn't like this industry. When she later turned to her favorite beauty industry, she found it was her favorite. She said: "In this industry, you can take good care of your skin every day and spread beauty and make money at the same time. Do you think there is anything better than this? "
Friend!
Many times, only by proving your ability can you reassure your parents. This only depends on your firmness and perseverance in the later period. You want to convince your parents, but as an experienced person, I want to tell you that parents often think that their children are still studying and don't want their children to enter the society too early. Both parents want to protect their children. In fact, parents did not expect that the flowers in the greenhouse would not grow up. Only by going outside to experience the wind and rain can children really grow up. When you make up your mind. No matter who you are, don't be afraid to do what you want!