There are thousands of kinds of love in this world.

There is love at first sight, there is no doubt that there is a long silence that protects people's hearts, a moth that is not afraid of the road ahead, and a secret love that is as hesitant as her.

How easy can it be to like someone? Sometimes it's really simple. For example, Xiao Min likes him just because when she first met him, he looked clean and relaxed in her favorite white shirt and immediately entered her heart.

Although from the appearance alone, in the eyes of many people, he didn't really shine. But sometimes beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Xiao Min likes him, so he looks good everywhere.

Sometimes liking is such an unreasonable thing. You have no control, you can't refuse, and you can't understand. Anyway, like is like. You try your best to be good with him and want to be with each other.

Xiao Min is not the kind of girl who will take the initiative in love. Even if someone chases her, she will be very picky. She always wants to find someone who can feel happy at the first sight.

So she hasn't been in love at the age of 24.

I used to think that her attitude towards love was too serious. This seriousness is a good thing, but it is too serious. As the saying goes, extremes meet, and I am worried that this seriousness will rebound one day and hurt myself.

Before I could say anything, she took the initiative to chase him. First, she started by chatting. She goes to see him every morning at noon and evening, and it doesn't matter if he doesn't come back.

After a long time, he seems to have moved his heart to Xiao Min. After all, Xiao Min is really a very likable girl.

However, it is not clear how tempted he is. Anyway, in the end, he was with Xiao Min.

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In the early days of love, those who try their best to be nice to each other must be those who pay more in love. To tell the truth, this kind of love is a bit bad, but it is really not rare.

They are together, which was put forward by Xiao Min in a joking way. Xiao Min chased him in a tentative way. What is the specific operation method?

For example, she sent him some coquettish expression packs first, but he didn't say anything; Later, sometimes he would ask her what she was doing. Xiao Min joked, "I miss you." He just made an embarrassed expression and didn't refuse.

Later, Xiao Min said directly, still joking: "Since I don't have a boyfriend and you don't have a girlfriend, let's be together." what do you think? "

After sending it, she felt a little inappropriate and immediately withdrew, but there was a message "OK". The next afternoon, Xiao Min went directly to the company downstairs to wait for him to get off work, and confirmed the truth of that sentence by the way.

He didn't deny it, so he got together.

Sometimes, when we enter a love, people who enter the role too quickly and seriously don't just move forward. You have to look back and see if he can keep up with you.

Because many times, you don't realize that you are a one-man show.

Xiao Min's imaginary love is that kind of sweet feeling. Compared with his imaginary love, he seems to be much colder.

He will find Xiao Min at a fixed time every day, between 9: 30 pm and 10: 00 pm, which is usually his off-duty time. They talked for about an hour, and he ended the topic first, saying that he was tired and wanted to sleep.

When we were not together before, he sometimes chatted with Xiao Min until one or two in the middle of the night, which was unprecedented since we were together. After a long time, Xiao Min couldn't stand this state, and no one around him was in love.

She asked him, "Do you think we are normal like this?"

03

She sent him a message after dinner in the afternoon, and he came back from work at night: "What's the matter? Very good. " He is always very busy. Xiao Min hardly goes to see him during the day, because if he does, he will come back with news every hour or two.

Xiao Min asked all his friends around him, is their love relationship really normal? Are there really couples like them, and everything is as plain as water at first?

The answer is the same: pervert.

Xiao Min began to ask him why he seldom looked for her during the day.

He said because he was too busy during the day. He's really busy at work. It's not like we guessed that he had another girlfriend. It was later confirmed that his girlfriend was only Xiao Min, so there was no need to find someone else during the day.

The day before we broke up, Xiao Min had a quarrel with him, and the reasons were nothing more than these. Xiao Min told him that all his friends around him loved each other through endless phone calls and endless messages, and they couldn't wait to stay together.

How can he be so cold to himself? He never said he missed himself and refused to chat with himself for a while. Even on Valentine's Day, he went to celebrate his aunt's one-year-old niece's birthday and never came back to accompany her all day.

Xiao Min asked him these things and said, otherwise, forget it, stop it. He disagreed, saying that he had done something wrong and was willing to change it. Xiao Min forgave him easily, but he didn't change later, just as before.

A week later, the two had another contradiction, or because of this matter. This time, he was also angry, saying that Xiao Min was clinging to this matter.

The first night, the two did not speak. The next afternoon, Xiao Min sent him a message with tears: "Forget it!" I haven't come back after waiting for an hour.

She added, "Let's break up!"

That night, Xiao Min didn't wait for his reply until midnight. She actually has hope: if he saves it, she is willing to give him another chance!

The next morning, his news came back: "Sorry, I was too busy yesterday. I went back to sleep and didn't see the news. Good! "

Xiao Min sent him a long short message, this time in the daytime, and he came back soon: "I am very tired. I saw the news that you broke up as soon as I woke up, and I was a little angry to say this. "

The two are now in a state of cold war and still have not broken up.

Xiao Min still likes him. No matter what we say, he only did it because he didn't like it, so she didn't really make up her mind to break up because of love.

Like, always can make people blind, especially like Xiao Min, who is too serious about love, is more stubborn and unwilling to let go.

In life, in fact, such love is not rare. We always do. We look at other people's bystanders and are fascinated by our own authorities, so there are so many unfair things in love.

But I still believe that the best love must be that two people have the same sense of giving to each other, because the most common situation in love is that the deeper one loves, the shallower the other loves.

If you feel that your efforts are wronged, then I advise you that it is better to have a long pain than a short pain, and break up. Don't try to impress each other by continuing to pay, which will only get you deeper and deeper.

Learn to stop loss in time and learn to put yourself in the center. This is the first secret of love.