Putting yourself in others' shoes is putting yourself in others' shoes. This is an idiom evolved from a historical story. This idiom comes from Wei Linggong, the Analects of Confucius: "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you." Zhu Note: "Push yourself and things." Later generations refined the idiom "Push yourself and others".

Self-criticism means: when things are unsuccessful and encounter setbacks and difficulties, we must reflect on ourselves and find the reasons from ourselves. The original words are "if you don't do what you want to do, do it for yourself." A sentence from Mencius. Mencius said, "If you love someone, you will be kind-hearted." : there is no cure for treating diseases and saving people, which is contrary to wisdom; Owners will not answer, they will respect them-they will not do whatever they want, they will ask for more happiness and return to the world. "

Idiom implication

Pushing yourself and others is a moral psychology-behavior mechanism and training method. It refers to the idea that moral actors infer that others have the same feelings and needs as themselves, and carry out inference as a code of conduct in actions related to others. In the process of moral cultivation, consciously using the method of putting yourself in the shoes can make people put themselves in the shoes.

In terms of moral cultivation, Mencius inherited and developed Confucius' thought of upward behavior and downward effect, closely linked moral cultivation with governing the country and safeguarding the country, emphasized upward behavior and downward effect, reflected on himself, and was strict and tolerant. When dealing with all kinds of interpersonal relationships, most of them need an attitude of "doing the opposite" to handle them well.