In interpersonal communication, if you can introduce yourself correctly and appropriately, you can not only expand the scope of communication and make more friends, but also help to publicize and show yourself in communication, reduce troubles and eliminate misunderstandings. The following is my self-introduction about social etiquette. Welcome to read!
In a sense, self-introduction is a key to social interaction. If used well, it can help your social activities go smoothly, otherwise it may bring you all kinds of disadvantages. Therefore, it is very important to be good at selling yourself. Self-introduction is a method and means to publicize one's image and value.
There are usually several situations where you need to introduce yourself: when you meet someone you want to know in social situations, you can't find the right person to introduce you. At this time, self-introduction should be modest and concise, and sincerely express admiration for each other. Make an appointment with someone by phone. Never meet this person. At this time, you should introduce yourself to each other and briefly talk about the reason for meeting each other. Before giving a speech. At this time, it is best to introduce yourself to the audience simply and to the point, but also to be distinctive and useful? First cause effect? Give the audience a good first impression. Apply for a job or run for public office. At this time, it is even more necessary to introduce yourself. There may be more than one form of self-introduction. There should be both written introduction materials (personal resume) and oral, detailed or simple, serious or solemn, or humorous. This will directly affect the success of job hunting or applicants.
1. To master the language art of self-introduction, we should pay attention to the following aspects: (1) Say your name calmly and confidently (this is necessary), and be good at expressing your friendliness, concern, sincerity and desire with body language, which is a sign of self-confidence. If the self-introduction is vague and reveals shyness and inferiority, it will make people feel that you can't grasp yourself, and it will also affect further communication between them.
(2) According to the different purposes of communication, pay attention to the simplicity of introduction. Self-introduction generally includes name, native place, occupation, position, work unit or address, graduation school, experience, specialty or interest, etc. When introducing yourself, you should decide the complexity of the introduction according to the actual needs, and you don't have to say all the above. In front of elders or respected people, the tone should be modest; In front of peers and colleagues, the tone should be bright and straightforward.
(3) Self-evaluation should be measured. Self-evaluation is generally not suitable? Very? 、? Number one? Words expressing extreme praise, etc. , don't deliberately belittle. The key is to master proper limit.
Self-introduction is to introduce yourself to others in necessary social occasions and let others know yourself. Proper self-introduction can not only enhance others' understanding of themselves, but also create unexpected business opportunities.
Second, self-introduction can be divided into active self-introduction and passive self-introduction according to different introducers. (1) In social activities, if you want to meet someone or someone but no one introduces you, you can act as your own introducer and introduce yourself to the other party. This self-introduction is called active self-introduction.
(2) At the request of others, introduce yourself in some aspects. This self-introduction is called passive self-introduction.
Which way to introduce yourself in practice depends on the specific environment and conditions.
Third, seize the opportunity to introduce yourself. In business situations, it is necessary to introduce yourself if you encounter the following situations:
(1) sharing a room with strangers.
(2) Strangers are very interested in themselves.
(3) Others ask to introduce themselves.
(4) Get along with strangers around you at parties.
(5) long-term involvement in social circles composed of strangers.
(6) Help seekers know little or nothing about themselves.
(7) When going to a strange unit for business contact.
(8) meet unexpectedly during the journey.
(9) Visiting a stranger for the first time.
(10) If you meet a secretary, or ask someone you don't know to tell you.
(1 1) When you first introduce yourself to the public by using mass media, such as newspapers, magazines, radio, television, movies, slogans and leaflets.
(12) When using social media such as letters, telephones, telegrams, faxes and emails to communicate with other strangers.
Four, according to the needs of different occasions and environments, the ways of self-introduction are: (1) social self-introduction. This kind of self-introduction is the most concise, often including only the name. Like what? Hello! My name is Mike. ?
Suitable for some public places and general social occasions, such as meeting on the way, banquet scene, dance, telephone conversation and so on. Its object is mainly the general contact population.
(2) Introduce yourself at work. The contents of job self-introduction include my surname, the unit and department where I work, and the specific work I undertake or engage in.
1 name. You should report it immediately, and you can't have anonymous surnames and famous surnames.
Two units. If possible, it is best for all work units and departments to report, and specific work departments can sometimes temporarily not report.
3 position. Take a position or engage in specific work. If there is a position, it is best to apply for it. If there is a lower position or no position, you can report the specific work you are currently engaged in.
For example, you can say:? My name is Tang Guo, and I am the public relations manager of Daqin Advertising Company. ?
(3) Communicative self-introduction. Also known as social self-introduction or communicative self-introduction, it is a kind of self-introduction that deliberately seeks further communication with the communicative object, hoping that the other party can know themselves, understand themselves and establish contact with themselves. Suitable for social activities, generally including my name, work, place of origin, education, interests and the relationship with some acquaintances of my contacts. For example:? My name is Wang Guang, and I am the vice president of Li Run Company. 10 years ago, your husband and I went to college together. ?
(4) Etiquette-style self-introduction. This is a kind of self-introduction, showing friendship and respect for the people you communicate with. Suitable for speeches, reports, performances, celebrations, ceremonies and other formal occasions. The contents include name, unit, position, etc. When introducing yourself, you should also add some proper manners and honorifics to show your respect for the people you communicate with. For example:? Hello, ladies and gentlemen! My name is Song Yu, and I am the department manager of elite culture company. On behalf of our company, I would like to take this opportunity to warmly welcome all the guests to visit and guide us. Thanks for your support. ?
(5) Question and answer self-introduction. Give your own answers to the questions raised by the other party. This method is suitable for examination, application and official communication. It is also common in ordinary sexual communication and social occasions. For example, the other party asks:? This gentleman's surname is a:? Your surname is Zhang, and your bow is long. ?
Verb (verb's abbreviation) Master the discretion of self-introduction. If you want to introduce yourself properly without losing discretion, you must attach great importance to the following aspects:
(1) Pay attention to the time
(1) Self-introduction must be as concise as possible, and try to save time. Usually about half a minute is better, and if there are no special circumstances, it is best not to be longer than 1 minute. In order to improve efficiency, self-introduction can be assisted by business cards, letters of introduction and other materials.
② Introduce yourself in due course. It's best to introduce yourself when the other person is interested, free, in a good mood, less disturbed and demanding. If the other person is not interested, busy with work, disturbed, in a bad mood, has no requirements, has a rest for dinner or is busy with other exchanges, it is not suitable for self-introduction.
(2) Pay attention to attitude
① The attitude should be natural, friendly, cordial and easy-going, and the overall attitude should be generous and smiling.
② Full of confidence and courage. Taboo inferiority, cowardice. Dare to look directly into each other's eyes and appear confident and calm.
③ Natural intonation, normal speech speed and clear language. Hard and indifferent tone, too fast and too slow speech speed, or vague pronunciation will seriously affect the image of self-introduction
(3) the pursuit of truth. All the contents expressed in the self-introduction must be true, authentic and credible. Too modest, blindly belittling yourself to please others, or boasting and exaggerating are all unworthy.
Notes on intransitive verbs 1. Precautions:
When introducing yourself, you should nod to the other party first, and then introduce yourself to the other party after getting a response. It is considered impolite to introduce yourself if an introducer is present. You should be good at expressing your friendly, caring and communicative wishes with your eyes. If you want to know a person, you'd better know some information or materials about him in advance, such as personality, specialties, hobbies and so on. After introducing yourself in this way, it is easy to talk harmoniously. After you get the other person's name, you might as well repeat it verbally, because everyone is most willing to hear their own name.
2. Note:
The content of self-introduction includes three basic elements: my name, the unit and specific department where I work, the position I hold and the specific work I do. When introducing yourself, these three elements should be reported continuously, which will not only help to give a complete impression, but also save time and avoid nonsense. Be true and sincere, seek truth from facts, and don't brag or exaggerate.
Self-introduction skills in interview
1. Don't forget to greet at the opening ceremony.
Many interviewers will say at first, I am ..., but you should pay attention to who you want to explain the situation to and remember to say hello. Hello, teacher or? Interviewer, how are you? , loud spirit.
2、? Who am I?
Introduce yourself. The first step is to let the interviewer know who you are. In this step, you mainly introduce yourself, including personal basic information such as name and education. Introducing your name vividly, vividly and personally can not only attract the attention of the interviewer, but also make the interview atmosphere relaxed. There are many ways to introduce a single name, which can be interpreted from the sound, meaning and shape of the name, and also from the origin of the name.
For example, from the voice of the name: My name is Shao Fei, and I have fewer homophonic words. I hope my life can be less right and wrong. From the meaning of the name: my name is Yu Feiyu. There is an old saying: a child is not a fish, but he knows the happiness of fish. My parents want me to live as freely as a fish. Judging from the shape of the name: My name is Chen Yun. My father's name is Yun and Bin's baby's name is Yun. From the origin of the name: My name is Zhao Dan, Zhao from Zhao Benshan and Dan from Song Dandan. My parents hope that I can treat life with humor like them.
3, around the post competency requirements.
The interviewer pays attention to your job matching, which can best reflect your ability to relate to your job. Especially in the last three to five years, if it is related to job matching, you can also introduce what you did in the early days, that is, working in the same professional field. If the other thing you did five years ago has nothing to do with the professionalism of your work, don't introduce or briefly describe the background and motivation of the major changes at that time.
Miss Zhang and Miss Yang are both newly graduated students, majoring in English, with outstanding academic achievements. Both of them applied for the position of senior secretary in a company. After reading the resume, it is difficult for the personnel manager to decide. So they were informed of the interview, and the examiner asked them to introduce themselves briefly first. Miss Zhang introduced her age, graduation school, major, family situation and personality, and expressed her expectation for this position.
Miss Yang introduced herself like this: My resume is full of details about me. Here I want to focus on three points: My spoken English is very good. I used to be a tour guide in a travel agency during my holidays and took European and American tours. And the writing is good, and six articles have been published in newspapers and periodicals. Third, be able to skillfully use all kinds of office software. "Finally, the personnel manager hired Miss Yang.
3. Introduce yourself with arguments and arguments.
You can't just have arguments that don't support it. If necessary, speak with quantitative data.
For example, to show that you have strong willpower, you can express it as? Running 3000 meters in the morning and taking a cold bath in winter every day not only saves the living expenses, but also exercises the will? . It can be said that it introduces social practice and internship. I sell up to 60 TV sets a day, and I earn half of my tuition and living expenses during my college years? Wait a minute.
4. Prepare for many interviews to introduce yourself.
There are great differences among state-owned enterprises, foreign enterprises, famous enterprises and enterprises of different sizes, so at least three self-introduction templates should be prepared, which are one minute, two minutes and three minutes respectively. The content of self-introduction can be focused according to the time.
5. Self-introduction should be simulated first.
Ask your classmates or friends to be your interviewer, let them find fault with you, and make the self-introduction language concise, comprehensive, rich in content and prominent in highlights. Let them point out the advantages and disadvantages of the introduction to you and constantly revise and improve the template. They can comprehensively and objectively evaluate your manners, movements and expressions, which is conducive to correcting small moves. After several simulation exercises, I felt less nervous when I went to the interview.
Don't forget to say thank you after introducing yourself. Being decent will sometimes affect the examiner's impression of you. The interview process should not only show personality, but also express objectively. Finally, I wish the prospective newcomers a smooth job search.
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