1) has a weak learning ability and is used to being a hand-holding party.
This is really a headache for countless people. For example, the new girl in the company has been trained for 1 month. When I really started working, I still didn't know. The key point is that she doesn't think it's her problem at all, as if she thinks "white in the workplace" is a very useful label. It is especially convenient to ask for help. The way of school education has made these young people accustomed to passive acceptance, thinking that learning is what you tell me how to do. Not what I should do.
2) I think there is a lot of time and the years are endless.
Young people with this idea feel young, as if they have not yet taken off their adolescence. I think I have endless time to wait for myself, so I'm not in a hurry.
My friend's younger brother, who just graduated from college, has no enthusiasm for finding a job. Let him prepare his resume and interview, but he is always frustrated. What's the hurry? I will graduate in more than half a year, and there is still time. But at this time, many colleagues with goals and directions have found internship companies and are working in full swing. It is conceivable that after half a year, people with certain internship experience will be much more competitive than their inexperienced brothers.
3) I think love is beautiful, and fantasy is greater than reality.
Nowadays, too many love novels, movies and TV plays depict a beautiful kingdom of love dreams for young people. The overbearing president prefers Cinderella and is tempted by poor boys for nothing. In this dream, there is no need to consider the source of life, as long as love can occupy the world.
Many young people don't have a correct view of love, or think that love is everything, but they are often devastated when they are hit; Either at the age of actual love, fantasizing about unrealistic objects and missing the best marriage period.
Indeed, experience can grow. But I also sincerely hope that more young people will see these pits, avoid into the pit and become mature young people who can get rid of childish diseases as soon as possible.