It is reported that the "Guangzhou Association of Psychological Counselors' Consultation and Complaint Platform for Love and Marriage Emotions" was officially launched on the same day. In the future, consumers who are dissatisfied with the services provided by marriage and love consulting institutions can complain to relevant platforms, and Guangzhou Psychological Counselors Association will intervene and coordinate as a third party.
Professor Li Xingmin from Guangzhou Association of Psychological Counselors released the Research Report on Marriage and Love Counseling in 2020.
Economic development is inversely proportional to the happiness index of family and marriage.
At the forum, Professor Li Xingmin of Guangzhou Psychological Counselors Association released the "Research Report on Marriage Counseling in 2020" on the spot. In 2020, the Marriage and Love Professional Committee of Guangzhou Psychological Counselors Association conducted a survey of 30,000 people facing emotional problems across the country, and made a comprehensive analysis from factors such as region, income and education, and obtained relevant data.
Judging from the statistical data of the sample, the high incidence of emotional problems in marriage and love is closely related to economic development, urban population and floating population. For example, there are 2 1 prefecture-level cities in Guangdong Province. Shenzhen, Guangzhou and Dongguan have the most emotional problems in love and marriage, while Yangjiang, Shanwei and Chaozhou have the least. Economic development is inversely proportional to the happiness index of family and marriage.
People with high school education or below account for 39.6 1%, college education accounts for 30.59%, undergraduate education accounts for 26.37%, master education accounts for 3.22%, and doctoral education accounts for 0.2 1%. It can be seen that the higher the education, the less emotional problems encountered, and the higher the education.
There are obvious gender differences in seeking emotional counseling, with women accounting for 95.34%, indicating that women need emotional help more; Consultants aged 20-40 are the main force, accounting for 87.17%; Counseling for married people accounted for 47.87%.
Among the top ten occupations with the most serious marital emotional problems, freelancing accounts for 25.63%, housewives account for 18.86%, teachers account for 14.76%, salespeople account for 10.32%, and doctors account for 7.45%.
Among the five reasons for seeking professional services to deal with cold violence, the first reason is cheating, accounting for 38.83%, followed by cold violence, accounting for 33.98%, and domestic violence, accounting for 9.7 1%. The proportion of reasons for disagreement between three views and personality is small.
Professor Li Xingmin analyzed that "cheating" and "domestic violence" as the main reasons for divorce are "expected", but "cold violence" ranks second beyond "imagination".
It is understood that, unlike visible physical domestic violence, cold domestic violence between husband and wife is more through implied threats, language attacks, economic and sexual control. , to achieve the purpose of mental torture to destroy each other.
Professor Li Xingmin said that the huge psychological pressure caused by cold violence will make the other party close to collapse, and at the same time, it will be accompanied by alienation and distrust of marriage, which will eventually lead to the end of marriage. "Strengthening the excellent traditional education of family style and paying attention to the harm of' cold violence' to marriage need to provide more professional marriage counseling services."
Guests attending the forum.
You can complain about emotional counseling services through this platform. According to Yan Ping, Secretary-General of Guangzhou Psychological Counselors Association, Guangzhou Psychological Counselors Association took the lead in opening the "Guangzhou Psychological Counselors Association's Marriage Consultation Complaint Platform" and the "Guangdong-Hong Kong-Macao Greater Bay Area Marriage Counselor Registration and Evaluation System".
He emphasized that since the development of marriage and love emotional counseling, the practitioners are mixed and the social evaluation is mixed. "The original intention of the association is to formulate unified rules for the industry. In a word, there must be rules, employees' requirements and training certificates for operating marriage and love counseling institutions. You can complain about poor service. "
For example, he said that if consumers are not satisfied with the services provided by marriage and love consulting agencies and feel cheated, it may be "reasonable and reasonable to find the agency, and the woman says that the woman is reasonable". The complaint platform can be used as a third party to intervene and coordinate, minimize the contradictions between the two parties, and urge the agency to provide higher quality services.
"Guangdong-Hong Kong-Macao Greater Bay Area Marriage Counseling Practitioners Registration Evaluation System" encourages marriage counseling practitioners to register through the platform, which will rate them every year and pass the annual review. For unqualified practitioners, the platform will provide continuing education opportunities.
If a consumer complains about the employee and gives him a bad review, it will be recorded on the platform. Yan Ping said, "With this kind of supervision, employees will be more careful when providing services."
It is understood that the establishment of the "Registration and Evaluation System for Marriage and Love Counseling Practitioners in Guangdong-Hong Kong-Macao Greater Bay Area" has solved the confusion of "solid foundation, technical practice and continuing education" for practitioners, with professional records to check and reliable professional supervision, creating a lifelong learning growth and promotion system for the industry and escorting the professional development of practitioners. The launch of "Guangzhou Psychological Counselors Association's platform for marriage and love consultation and complaint" has solved the problems of consumers' "rational choice, professional popularity and after-sales service" and safeguarded consumers' rights and interests.
The guests who participated in the forum said that the "platform for consulting and complaining about marriage and love" made the industry more self-disciplined. Pan Xingzhi, founder and CEO of Beijing's "Xingzhi Online" platform for women's psychological growth, said that the launch of "Guangzhou Association of Psychological Counselors' Complaint Platform for Love and Marriage Counseling" has promoted the professional standardized training, professional ability and service effect of the industry, made the psychological counseling practitioners in this field develop in a more professional, standardized and standardized direction, filled the gap of refined service in Guangdong-Hong Kong-Macao Greater Bay Area, and contributed to the overall healthy development of the industry.