Freshman, we thought we were going to start a new life when we entered the school gate. When I graduated, I realized that life had just begun. From internship to thesis, everything was so busy, so fast, and I suddenly graduated.
I graduated for nearly a year and worked for half a year. When the aura of the university was all out of society, I found nothing.
The college entrance examination entered this school with the highest professional score, and was cheated by the elders that "it will be easy for you to go to college". With this mentality, I really spent a semester easily, and when the final grade of the semester came out, the grade counted down. When I saw the ranking, I woke myself up like a bolt from the blue.
It turns out that most people are working hard silently, just where you can't see it.
At that time, I set myself a small goal and tried to get a third-class scholarship first. Scholarships in our school are relatively easy to get, as long as there are basically 40% in the first grade, so we have gained the first goal step by step. By going up one flight of stairs every semester, until the first place. During this period, he ran for the class committee, was elected to party member, got all kinds of excellent jobs and three excellences, and also achieved excellent results when he graduated. In the eyes of my classmates, it was still a good example, but at the moment I walked out of society, all this was cleared up.
When I thought I was still excellent, I looked for a job for several months. Without a prestigious school background, the goal is unclear, and how many awards you have won is also invalid. Graduation is like a black hole for people without goals, which magnifies your confusion infinitely. Lolo, tell me why you are excellent and won so many awards. Why are you still like this? In the process of chatting with my tutor, I expressed my confusion, and the reply I received was "You are so excellent, you can definitely find a good job", and I began to doubt myself.
Maybe our definition of Excellence is wrong. Excellence is not determined by how many awards we win.
Why do we feel useless when we leave college? Is the university not studying hard or the university not living well, maybe both. Most people's universities are really mixed. Only when they go to college will they understand that if you work harder than high school, you won't regret it when you graduate.
When I was looking for a job, I found that the position I wanted to do didn't match the position. When no one responded to my resume, I went to a fake university. When you take up your post, you will feel that this job is so mechanical. Why do you want to do such meaningless work? It seems that anyone can do the work. What would you do?
What you are experiencing now may be the old road of your predecessors. A university is like a training center, where the master leads the door and the practice depends on the individual.
I hope all of you will have a clear and good result in the future, and don't follow the old path of senior sister.
Although I have been on the road of growth and exploration.