Li Da's wife, Zhang Naiyi, was originally a famous lady in the Central Plains. Influenced by the revolutionary progressive thought, she moved to Yan 'an after graduating from girls' middle school and devoted herself to the revolutionary cause. Li Da and Zhang Naiyi, the revolutionary couple, have been together for life from acquaintance to acquaintance, and they have been in the same boat through thick and thin. The true feelings of caring for each other are really regrettable.
"I won't get married until socialism"
In Zhang Naiyi's life, she got a lot of comments. "The girl with brains" was the first comment, which was given by her brother.
Zhang Naiyi is the youngest of the three sons and six daughters of the Zhang family. When she was born, her eldest brother also gave birth to a girl. Zhang Naiyi's father Zhang is an enlightened gentleman. Zhang Naiyi was sent to a private school at the age of seven. It is this enlightened decision that makes Zhang Naiyi a unique woman. At the age of 1 1, Zhang Naiyi entered the county where new education was implemented.
After graduating from high school, Zhang Naiyi was admitted to the new department of Kaifeng Girls' Middle School, the provincial capital. The following year, Zhang Naiyi's father died of illness. She stayed at home for two years at her brother's request. When she learned that her niece about her age was secretly sent to Kaifeng to study by her eldest brother, who often said that it was useless for girls to study, she wrote a letter to her three brothers: today's society is a law of the jungle. If a person doesn't make progress, doesn't study, and has no knowledge and skills, he will inevitably become a poor and poor law of the jungle. My sister has no other wish, just want my brothers to read brotherhood and let me go to Kaifeng to study.
Seeing this sincere and unique letter, the three brothers were really taken aback. They commented: "Liu Mei is a person with brains. She is the material for reading and doing things. It's a pity that my sister, I wish I were a younger brother. " Nevertheless, the three brothers sent her to Kaifeng to continue her studies.
When Zhang Naiyi was a sophomore in a girls' middle school, she borrowed the book Women and Society written by German socialist activist Baerbel. The book analyzes the social roots of women's oppression, and her views deeply touched Zhang Naiyi. She began to look at women's liberation in China from a new angle. Just then, my eldest brother came to Kaifeng as a parent to introduce her, and Zhang Naiyi immediately opposed it. She said, "I won't get married until socialism is realized. I didn't get married until socialism. "
1At the end of 938, Zhang Nai arrived in Yan 'an to study in the training class of the Central Organization Department. On one occasion, Chen Yun gave a talk to everyone. In the report, Chen Yun cited many examples to illustrate the necessity of women's self-esteem, self-reliance and self-improvement. I hope lesbians will strengthen their enterprising spirit and not rush to find someone to marry as soon as they get to a stable place. Zhang Naiyi thinks that Chen Yun's words are very reasonable, considering the viewpoint of women and society. She is even more reluctant to act rashly. If she doesn't see a true soul mate and a reliable "Prince Charming", she would rather not marry. It is this "two unmarried" that keeps Zhang Nai single until she is in her thirties, but the goddess of love still patronizes her from time to time.
Break the "maginot line" with true feelings
In Yan 'an, Zhang Naiyi's attitude towards love and marriage gave her a nickname: "maginot line".
At that time, there were more gay men than lesbians in Yan 'an, and women like Zhang Naiyi attracted much attention. In the meantime, many enthusiastic people "matched the bridge" for her, and many people volunteered to write letters, offer poems, and even some people took the initiative to come to the door, but Zhang Naiyi never moved.
Once, Chen Geng, who was studying at the Party School, met Zhang Naiyi. Seeing no one around, he said in English, "I can introduce you." Zhang Naiyi pretended not to understand. Another time, a gay man who was labeled as a "spy" with Zhang Nai found Zhang Naiyi and frankly expressed his feelings: "I think we are both" spies "and no one needs to abandon anyone." But Zhang Naiyi replied: "I am not a spy." Gradually, Zhang Naiyi got a nickname "maginot line". She understood the meaning of the nickname, but she didn't mind, just laughed it off.
1In August, 945, after Japan surrendered, Zhang Naiyi was assigned to work in the Taihang base area in the liberated area. As soon as Zhang Naiyi arrived in Shexian, he sent a message to Li Datong, then the chief of staff of the military region, from Yan 'an to Pingjiesan in North China via Taihang. It turned out that Li Da's chief of staff divorced his ex-wife Qi Ke for more than a year and lived a bachelor's life with their children. Many comrades think that it is not the right way for Li Da to go on like this, and they are all helping him find the right person.
Ping Jiesan met Zhang Naiyi while studying at Yan 'an Party School. He told Li Da that there were two lesbians from Yan 'an, and neither of them was married. One is beautiful, the other is of medium height, but honest. He asked Li Da, "Tell me yourself, which one shall I introduce to you?" Li Da said without hesitation, "I want to be honest." So Ping Jiesan introduced many things about Zhang Naiyi to Li Da. Li Xuefeng, then political commissar of Taihang Military Region, was also very concerned about Li Da's marriage. After knowing Li Da's intentions, he wrote a letter to Li Da: "Comrade Zhang Naiyi is very good in all aspects." Liu Bocheng and * * * also read the letter and * * said, "I think so." That's settled, but did Li Can Da break through the "maginot line"?
A few days after Zhang Nai arrived at the base, he was specially assigned to the headquarters. After more than 20 days, Li Da was busy with work during the day and talked extensively with Zhang Naiyi at night, covering everything from life experience to work and study. Zhang Nai knew Li Da's mind from the beginning. Through these days of heart-to-heart, she got a preliminary understanding of Li Da. Li Da left a deep impression on her, and she was moved. She realized that a real man had opened her defenses. One day, Li Da began to talk about the family changes: after more than a year of divorce, she wanted to find a lesbian as a partner. Zhang Naiyi listened, burying his head and not talking. Li Da began to tentatively ask: "There are more gay men than lesbians in Yan 'an. Why don't you get married? " Zhang Naiyi looked up and said loudly, "I swore in my early years that I would not get married until socialism. I rejected many people in Yan' an, so I got the nickname' maginot line'. "
Li Da looked at Zhang Naiyi and said sincerely, "Now the Japanese have surrendered and won the Anti-Japanese War. Besides, maginot line is not invulnerable. When the Second World War broke out, weren't they captured? You can consider starting a family now. " This straightforward answer made Zhang Naiyi blush. After a moment of silence, Zhang Naiyi spoke his mind: "I can consider getting married now, but I am 32 years old. I want to find a real person, someone I can rely on, someone who won't leave me. " Li da nodded understandingly.
The next night, Li Da came to Zhang Naiyi's room as usual, blushed as soon as she entered the door, and said, "I've thought twice, let's get married!" Zhang Naiyi hesitated and said, "We have only known each other for more than 20 days, so let's get to know more." Hearing this, Li Da said urgently, "Haven't we known each other every day for more than twenty days? I think I already know you very well. You are a good lesbian, and you are my ideal partner. What else do you want to know about me? Bring it up and I'll tell you everything. "
Looking at Li Da's simple face and recalling the days when he got along, Zhang Naiyi suddenly felt that he was the "Prince Charming" he was looking for and would never leave her no matter what happened. Zhang Naiyi finally nodded and said forcefully, "OK, I agree, let's get married!" "
The wedding date was set at194565438+February 14, which was chosen by Li Daxuan. When Zhang Naiyi asked Li Daxuan the reason for this day, Li Da said, "I joined the Red Army on1931214, which is a memorable day for me to change from an old army soldier to a Red Army soldier."
Dear lady, founding general