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When I was a child, many friends around me liked the vigorous feeling, only seeking the process without seeking the result. It doesn't matter if you have love today and die tomorrow. The reason is too simple, that is, coming into this world, I don't intend to go back alive, just come gently and love vigorously. This is the real life.
In the overlapping and war-torn years of the Republic of China, many celebrities also thought so, and they were especially entertaining and pursued desperate and vigorous love.
Who are they? What happened afterwards?
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Pursuing the First Couple: Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman
As a talented and neurotic poet, Xu Zhimo explained what vigorous love is with his short life.
Xu Zhimo pursues Lin. In order to show his determination, he strongly urged his pregnant wife to abort the child, and then the two divorced and returned to being single.
This is not madness, this is ruthlessness, plus a shameless.
Lin ignored him. He played with Lin and Liang Sicheng every day. Later, Liang Sicheng couldn't stand it. We young lovers are in love, and you are the third party. What a scandal. Because of face, Xu Zhimo gave up.
Soon, he took a fancy to Lu Xiaoman, a lonely young woman in a boudoir.
Lu Xiaoman's husbands, Wang Geng and Xu Zhimo, both studied under Liang Qichao and walked around with other disciples. This is one reason.
Xu Zhimo is an expert in love and has an open mind. He decided to vigorously break all the "secular" rules and regulations and save Lu Xiaoman who was "unhappy in marriage".
He thinks Lu Xiaoman is exquisite and lively, just like a little dragon, so he is called Lu Xiaoman Longlong for a while and Mei for a while.
1925 March 10 at 3 am, Xu zhimo wrote a long letter to Lu Xiaoman:
"If you want to die, you must be together. If you are drunk, you must be together. If you want to cry, you can put your tears together. The heartbeat will make you and my chest close together."
"You have aroused my infatuation. Don't be afraid when I say it. Sometimes I really want to drag you to die together, achieve complete love in the absolute silence of death, and seek the only light in the ordinary darkness. "
On August 9 1925, Xu zhimo advised Lu Xiaoman to learn from himself and divorce Wang Geng quickly:
"Eyebrow, are you afraid of death? May, are you afraid of living? Life is much more than death! To tell the truth, as long as your life doesn't change, I won't be at ease for a day. "
"I used to be bound by reason. I can't believe you won't use the same method. Everything as long as you make up your mind, the distance between determination and success is the shortest. "
In the face of Xu Zhimo's crazy pursuit, Lu Xiaoman was very excited, and she planned to have a vigorous one.
1926 On March 22nd, Lu Xiaoman wrote to Xu Zhimo, expressing his thoughts:
"Mo, I still work hard for you. I'm going to move on. No matter how many thorns there are in front of me, I will walk straight with my neck up. I will never look back until I am exhausted. "
"Why don't you do it vigorously? I am willing to fly high with you from now on, go to the light and never give up on myself. "
The vigorous love they wanted was finally obtained without blessing. 1On October 3rd, they got married. Liang Qichao said the words of marriage that he had never seen before. As an old man and a teacher, he said: You may not be happy.
Liang Qichao said to Lu Xiaoman: You should be serious in the future, do your duty as a woman, and don't interfere with Xu Zhimo's career, lest Xu Zhimo be exhausted in the future.
Liang Qichao said to Xu Zhimo: You are an impetuous person, because you have not achieved much in learning, divorced and remarried. I hope this is your last marriage.
Jianghu is Jianghu.
In order to marry Xu Zhimo, Lu Xiaoman aborted Wang Geng's child and left herself a gynecological disease. When you are old, you can only rely on opium to relieve pain.
However, after marriage, Xu Zhimo found that this was not the life he wanted, and Lu Xiaoman was no longer cute. He had to take a part-time job to satisfy Lu Xiaoman's desire.
193 1 year, Xu zhimo died in a plane crash, ending this painful life.
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Pursuing the Second Couple: Xiao Jun and Xiao Hong
I have always felt that Xiao Hong is an absolutely neurotic woman, who has tossed her chess game into a dead chess game all her life.
Xiao Hong's original name is Zhang Youying, and her vigorous object is Liu Honglin. When they were madly in love, she changed her name to Xiao Hong and Xiao Jun.
Xiaohong was pregnant with Wang Enjia's child, and the hospital refused to deliver Xiaohong on the grounds that she could not afford the cost. Jun Xiao held a knife to the doctor's neck and let the delivery go smoothly.
After giving birth to the child, Xiaohong gave her daughter directly to the doorman and never saw the child again.
She turned and lived in a hotel with Xiaojun, and they began to live together.
In her view, this Xiao Jun is the person she is looking for, just like a divine light to save her. She is madly in love with Xiaojun, expecting their magnificent love to be passed down from generation to generation.
At that time, this vigorous love made them have a wonderful time. They visited Lu Xun together and revised the manuscript together.
However, this vigorous marriage is not worthy of Jun Xiao's nature.
Xiao Jun not only asked Xiao Hong to do housework, but also hoped that Xiao Hong's literary attainments could not surpass her.
All kinds of setbacks in real life made Xiao Jun more and more irritable, not only cheating on her, but also punching and kicking Hong Xiao.
1938, she was pregnant with a second child, Xiaojun's, Xiaojun had several girlfriends.
Xiao Hong decided to leave Xiao Jun and married another man with Xiao Jun's children.
The love that you got without seeing clearly ended up in the grave.
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Pursuing the Third Pair: Yu Dafu and Wang Yingxia
Yu Dafu was a professional prostitute in the Republic of China, and Wang Yingxia was the terminator of her prostitute career.
1927 1 Yu Dafu first met Wang Yingxia in his hometown, Sun Baigang. This year, Wang Yingxia was 65,438+09 years old. She was beautiful and had a good temperament, which was amazing.
After seeing Wang Yingxia, all the passions in his body were aroused and he pursued Wang Yingxia crazily.
Shen Congwen wrote a letter for four years before pursuing Zhang Zhaohe, while Yu Dafu insisted on writing a love letter for four months and pursued it between Shanghai and Hangzhou for one month. After several struggles, Wang Yingxia agreed. I don't know whether Yu Dafu's ability is too strong or Wang Yingxia's resistance consciousness is too weak.
It's vigorous enough.
1March 4, 927, Yu Dafu wrote to Wang Yingxia:
"For two months, I forgot everything. For you, I would rather lose my family, reputation, status and even my life. My love for you is finally sincere. "
1March 8, 927, Yu Dafu wrote to Wang Yingxia:
"Don't doubt my inner sincerity because of my superficial attitude. If you really doubt me, then I have to die in front of you. "
1928 In April, Yu Dafu and Wang Yingxia officially got married. This year, Wang Yingxia was 20 years old and Yu Dafu was 32 years old.
1934, at the suggestion of Wang Yingxia, Yu Dafu decided to buy a small villa in Hangzhou and completed it in the spring of 1936. The name of this villa is Storm House.
Here, I spent money to buy a real estate, where Yu Dafu's ex-wife Sun Quan was hungry and miserable with three children.
After marriage, they spent some time in life is sweet, but soon there were cracks and frictions.
Yu Dafu is eccentric and wild, and suspects that his wife has run away with someone else. Once Wang Yingxia went to his girlfriend's house to play, Yu Dafu published "Looking for You" in the newspaper, suspecting that Wang Yingxia had gone to her lover's house.
Wang Yingxia is not happy either. She promised to live together after the divorce, but Yu Dafu lied to herself.
There are more and more contradictions. Finally, Wang Yingxia got pregnant and went to the hospital for an abortion. Without telling Yu Dafu, Yu Dafu also published an emotional dispute between Wang Yingxia and him in the newspaper, and decided that Wang Yingxia had betrayed him.
This vigorous love, so love to death, ended in tragedy.
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There were many such loves and stories in the Republic of China.
When I meet someone I like, I think this is love, and I start to pursue it-crazy pursuit, hoping to be together, regardless.
This is a vigorous love in the eyes of many people.
When in love, many people long for a soul, a vigorous love and a lover's ambiguity.
However, after the vigorous? Fragments of love and devastated bodies are everywhere. Calm down, how many people can persist until they are old?
In his later years, Master Hongyi wrote a poem: "A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water. It's a thousand miles away. "
It seems that this is the answer.
It used to be like this, and it still is.
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