Actually, there are many such "hypocrites" in our life. They like moral kidnapping, always acting like good people, which is really disgusting. Just like the "homesickness" that Confucius hated, those so-called "good people" and the same social customs are actually hypocrites and the initiators of moral corruption.
The TV series "Love" 34 shows the audience a picture of parents and relatives' "moral kidnapping" of their children:
Wei is a world champion in shooting. She grew up in a poor family, and her biological parents gave her away because she could not support her. Many years later, Xiao Dan became the world champion. Her two sisters, brother and biological parents came to the TV station and tried to recognize Wei again through the mediation of the host.
However, Wei does not intend to recognize her relatives. She said: since she became famous, my parents' family have been sitting in the house every day and taking me away from my adoptive parents. But my adoptive parents are very kind and let me choose. Finally, I chose to stay.
So, with the cooperation of the host, the parents staged a drama of "moral kidnapping":
Wei's sister said, "Those sitting here are your parents, and we are your real relatives!" " "
Wei's mother cried and said, "son, we are all sorry for you!" I really couldn't afford you at that time! "
Wei's father also said at the top of his lungs, "I just want a family reunion."
The elder sister said, "My dad got pneumoconiosis while digging coal. The money my second sister and I earned was spent on treatment ... My brother dropped out of college because he had no money, and now he is working everywhere. "
Second sister added, "My dad won't last long!"
The audience lamented. On the one hand, Wei is unwilling to admit his relatives, which makes him look heartless. On the one hand, the experience of Wei's biological parents is pitiful.
As a result, public opinion was one-sided, and most of the audience in the audience felt that Wei's approach was inappropriate.
However, Wei still said firmly, "I don't want to recognize my relatives." I only have one pair of parents, that is, my adoptive parents. "
Suddenly, there was a sensational music in the venue. My mother stood up and went to Wei, ready to kneel and say, "Give us a chance!" " "One hand was wei took.
When you saw this scene, did you find that all this seemed to have been rehearsed and premeditated, just waiting for Wei to drill into it?
At this critical juncture, the mediator stepped forward, broke the "moral kidnapping" conspiracy in front of him and helped the helpless Wei solve the problem. Mediator learned from the dialogue with Wei:
It turns out that Wei's biological parents went to their adoptive parents twice to ask for money. In name, it is borrowing money, but in fact it is borrowed but not returned. When Wei was not famous, he didn't see his biological parents to recognize his relatives. Since Wei became famous, they remembered to recognize their relatives, apparently for fame and fortune.
Moreover, Wei's adoptive parents are also very poor. They all collect junk for Wei to learn and practice shooting. The parents' family also explained that the family was poor and did not recognize relatives before because Wei could not afford to go to school.
Finally, the mediator threw a sharp question: "Do you recognize this daughter (Wei) to go home, depending on whether she is a burden to you?"
The people who eat melons seem to understand when they see this. Shang Jin said to her biological parents' family: "If you care about her, you will respect her choice and will not kidnap her with affection and death." The audience was silent.
However, the parents are still unwilling. After all, Wei is not what he used to be. Maybe he is a "cash cow". It was not until the mediator told Wei's biological parents that he won less than 10 thousand world championship prize and suffered a shoulder and neck injury, which required high treatment fees, so he could not participate in the Olympic Games in the future.
The mediator also asked his parents and family if they were willing to recognize relatives. As a result, the family went backstage to negotiate and said that they no longer knew each other. Money is often the touchstone of human nature. If it is beneficial, it will gather, but if it is not, it will disperse.