This proverb is the motto of many mothers.

After giving birth to their daughters, mothers treat their daughters as little princesses and dare not melt at once. They can't wait to pack all the best things in the family for their daughter.

However, sometimes, the way a mother loves is wrong, but it will bring big trouble to her daughter.

"My daughter went to college, and I gave her 2,000 yuan a week for living expenses, but my daughter was isolated."

A treasure mother said: My daughter went to college and originally wanted her to live off campus and be alone. But because her daughter insisted on living in a dormitory, she said, "In order to experience life, not so many people have lived together." So, Ma Bao agreed.

But now, my daughter is isolated by the girls in the same dormitory and feels particularly wronged. As a mother, I really can't help you.

My daughter once complained to her mother that there were eight people in the dormitory and six girls didn't play with her.

The daughter said that when she was in kindergarten, she was picked up by a luxury car at home and a full-time nanny sent her lunch. She has always been a "little princess" and has a very good popularity.

After primary school, all the clothes my mother bought were above 500 yuan. Other children are only envious and have always praised her as "beautiful".

When she went to college, her mother gave her 2000 yuan a week, which was enough for her to spend.

However, no one cares about her anymore. The six female students in the dormitory always dislike her "spending money indiscriminately, knowing shopping every day, having no hierarchy and poor grades."

Two female classmates also advised her: don't always give money to others, just like demonstrations! If others ignore you, you will throw money, and you are not the only one with money.

As for the 1 girl who has a good relationship with her, it is also because she often invites people to dinner that the other party is willing to play with her.

After listening to her daughter's complaints, the mother was speechless.

At this time, my mother realized that the "rich girl" was raised wrong, which led to many problems for her daughter and would only "take money to make friends".

Indeed, some rich girls have a typical "princess disease". And all this may be caused by the mother's excessive "rich girl".

Children have too much pocket money, and parents "enrich their daughters". What are the consequences?

Daughter loves to show off and has a strong vanity.

Some girls live under the doting of their mothers, and have long formed the habit of taking money to talk about things. Girls are full of money, and they stuff money on others.

For example, after cleaning the dormitory, Xiaole, a rich girl, didn't do coolies at all, so she wanted to take 100 yuan to let other girls do coolies instead of herself.

Xiaole crossed her waist and shouted, Who will help me with my work? Who will get this 100! 100 is not enough, add 200 yuan!

Showing off wealth everywhere, vanity is so strong, but girls themselves don't realize their mistakes. They just love to show off more, which is particularly annoying.

2 daughters are too rich, have low emotional intelligence, and are easy to be unsociable.

Girls who are too rich and do not pay attention to cultural accomplishment will have low emotional intelligence and poor emotional ability. Then, it is easier to show extreme unsociable because of too much pocket money, and create an "alternative" painting style, which is eventually isolated.

For example, Xiao Qi, a girl, praised her 50-yuan socks many times in the dormitory, which are really more durable than the 2-yuan socks! In this way, several other girls wearing 2 yuan money socks will feel uncomfortable and be discriminated against.

More often, other girls will naturally reject Xiaoqi as a "rich girl" and hate her behavior.

3 daughters spend a lot of money.

The more money you give your daughter, the easier it is for her to spend money recklessly. In particular, some girls with strong vanity will take the money given by their mothers, invite other children to dinner, buy gifts for other children, ignore the money and be generous.

Around such children, most of them are friends with ulterior motives, and few are sincere friends. In the end, children are easily cheated of money and hurt their hearts.

As a mother, how to guide her daughter to spend rationally?

A You can spend money, but you can't be generous.

Some mothers are born in a famous family, married to a rich family, and their husbands are rich, so it is good to be only responsible for flowers. The more such a mother is, the less generous she should be when spending money on her daughter.

A mother should let her daughter know that money is hard to come by and she can only earn wealth by herself in the future.

A mother should tell her daughter which money to spend and which to save.

For example, buy expensive sanitary products to ensure personal hygiene and safety. Clothes don't have to pursue brands, don't have to compare, conform to personal style, and are comfortable to wear.

Otherwise, the mother has developed the habit of spending money lavishly for her daughter. Finally, after the daughter gets married, she may still reach out and ask her for money. The daughter may also take all this for granted, because it is a habit formed by her mother.

Encourage your daughter to make money before spending.

Mother gives money to her daughter, which is the way to raise her daughter. However, if a mother can encourage her daughter, she should first make money by strength and then spend it reasonably.

Then, this method of educating her daughter will shape her daughter's view of money and let her understand the meaning of money.

For example, Cher's mother is a female boss and her family is quite rich. But she asked Cher to do odd jobs in the unit during the summer vacation to earn her salary. Settle accounts by the day, and you get more for more work.

As a result, my daughter knew very early that it was not easy to make money. Even if her mother gave her a lot of pocket money, she wouldn't waste it.

Real rich girls don't give her a lot of pocket money. But we should teach our daughter a correct view of money, be self-reliant and not spend money indiscriminately, don't you think?