When it comes to home, our young friends are disgusted with this name, and think that classifying people into grades is disrespectful to people and a suppression of emotional freedom. Even we can easily see that many young friends will give up the "happy marriage" arranged by their parents and families and start a vigorous love affair with a heterosexual who is far away from their family status. Usually, the more family members object, the sweeter and more lasting love will be.

Cheng Xiao graduated from a famous university in Beijing, and her growth path was smooth. My father is a professor at a university in the south, and my mother is an artist who is proficient in painting. Their feelings are very harmonious. Cheng Xiao was born pure, beautiful and intelligent, loved by her family in her childhood, valued by her teachers in her study career, and her versatile intelligence made this girl grow into a flower in the greenhouse.

When Cheng Xiao was in senior three, she met her own love. The other party is Wu Xu, a company colleague I met in the internship unit. He looks tall and handsome, his small eyes reveal a trace of cynicism, and he speaks humorously, which is a bit like a movie star Sun. Wu Xu is also a Beijinger, but his parents were laid off long ago. Later, my father drove a taxi and my mother did some small business in a market.

When Cheng Xiao came out of the elevator with two piles of documents and another intern girl came out with a pile of documents, Wu Xu happened to pass by, and Wu Xu took the documents in the hand of another intern girl without hesitation. Cheng Xiao cried aggrieved: Why don't you help me? Don't you see that I have a lot more things in my hand than her! Wu Xu said with a bad smile: There will be many people to help you. I have more than one, and I am much less. Leave me to my colleagues who need me most!

From then on, this man named Wu Xu broke into Cheng Xiao's heart. In this emotional journey, Xiaoye is more active. What attracts Cheng Xiao in Wu Xu is his unique temperament. He has a "bad" smell peculiar to Beijing boys, a little pretentious, a little dismissive and a little cynical, which is also peculiar to some Beijing boys. What Wu Xu presented to Cheng Xiao was a state that she had never had in her previous life.

I have never seen a greenhouse flower with lightning and thunder, and suddenly I saw another kind of scenery in my life. This attraction can be imagined. Has always been the center of everyone, suddenly marginalized by others. Such a loss can be imagined. Has been in an uncompromising state, and now suddenly lost control. This kind of unwillingness can be imagined.

From a psychological point of view, many friends think that their ability to control the situation is absolute, because they have never experienced real setbacks and failures. When some problems in life are out of control, people will be more willing to test their charm and feel fresh content. Because he (she) believes that he (she) has the ability to control, if he (she) is making self-sacrifice, then he (she) should have the psychological advantage of controlling the situation.

Cheng Xiao's parents don't support their daughter's feelings. They have mapped out the future path for her daughter. Go abroad after graduating from college, and then choose a boy worthy of his daughter's family among his many family friends.

Of course, this kind of opposition is of no help. On the contrary, the greater the parents' opposition, the greater Cheng Xiaojian's determination to keep love. In fact, the reason is very simple, because parents' opposition has increased Cheng Xiao's subconscious self-sacrifice. When she has not had any failure experience, plus she has made such self-sacrifice to realize love, then she will think that she will be more confident to control such a romantic love.

Cheng Xiao is not so much in love as testing his personal value in the process of rebellion. Cheng Xiao is not so much sticking to love as sticking to his confidence to be a successful person.

In order to challenge his parents' correct remarks and prove to them that his choice was correct, Cheng Xiao began the process of Wu Xu's transformation. From words and deeds to dressing, Cheng Xiao is giving Wu Xu a very intimate guidance. Finally, Wu Xu broke out and he said:

If you need a man your parents admire, you can find someone they arrange for you. I'm not them. If I were them, you and I wouldn't start. I am who I am, and I've had enough!

Seemingly romantic love is against the right family, but in fact, a large part of it is a process of self-confirmation in rebellion and self-satisfaction in acquisition. Psychology calls this phenomenon: rebellion, Romeo and Juliet effect, and Madonna complex.

Of course, I'm not saying that all inappropriate emotions will have problems. This is just a concern for us to realize love and stabilize the relationship between the two sexes. Only when we enter such an emotional relationship, its stability coefficient will be higher. Moreover, I think that in the concept of suitable family, besides some external material measurement conditions, contemporary suitable family education should also be added.