What if I am dumb and can't talk? The first step is to improve my courage.
I don't know if you have noticed, there are very few courageous, extroverted and inarticulate people. Some people feel stupid, so they don't like to talk and feel inferior. After a long time, they dare not speak. Therefore, speech is still in its infancy. If you are afraid to speak and have no self-confidence, then you can't be a very good speaker. Dare not speak when starting a business. Later, I was forced to give a speech to my partners every day. After a long time, I am not afraid to speak.
The second step is to thicken the face.
A thick skin can definitely help you become a sweet mouth. Talking with people is often a battle of wits. Especially on the wine table, when someone tries to persuade you to drink, stupid people are often blushed. Be defeated. And those who win the final victory are often super-thick-skinned and careless.
One of the five ways to exercise eloquence is to read different types of books and master knowledge in different fields.
Just like cooking requires cooking first, without knowing and understanding the content and the development and changes in various fields, you will only have an empty mouth and still have nothing to say all the time.
Second, often read books and newspapers, improvise and accumulate, and practice the language.
For example, reading poems aloud, reading novels and newspapers with sound is a kind of language expression training.
Third, you can watch more talk shows.
Experience the adaptability, logical thinking ability and language organization ability of the host. During the talk show. Through this experience and understanding, he will practice his topic privately.
Fourth, participate in public activities.
College students can participate in speech contests and debate contests organized by the school; Or friendship competitions or exhibition competitions organized in the community; Annual meeting programs, cross talk, sketches, etc. Organized by the company. This can exercise your eloquence.
Fifth, persistence, self-confidence, action and perseverance.
In addition to the above methods of exercising eloquence, the most important thing is to have a confident heart and insist on practicing with practical actions. No matter how beautiful the expectation is, no action will always be there.