People with children must know how difficult it is to educate children. Therefore, it is normal for parents to control their emotions when educating their children. Now people's thoughts are different from those in the past, such as "filial sons are born under sticks" and "conquering the enemy without fighting", which has also attracted some parents' doubts.

1. Children are often beaten, leaving a psychological shadow.

Ann's parents are very strict with Ann at ordinary times. If Ann doesn't listen, she will be beaten. So after a long time, An An also learned not to rebel against his parents in person, and he was very obedient. Wherever he goes, he is praised for being smart and sensible. But what Ann's parents don't know is that although Ann obeys her parents on the surface every time, she actually secretly has great opinions on her parents and often does some rebellious things, but these parents never know.

Seeing that 20 years have passed, An An has grown up and got a good job. Everyone around you praised Ann as excellent. But at this time, An An has actually suffered from serious mental illness, and he is very extreme and has a big temper. He usually has a bad attitude towards his parents.

2. Often beaten, children become talents.

Xiaoxiao's parents are very strict with Xiaoxiao, no matter what they do, they have to take care of it. Laughing without listening will inevitably lead to a fat beating. Twenty years later, due to the strict education of his parents, Mix stood out and found a good job. Xiaoxiao knows that his achievements today are due to the strict discipline of his parents, so Xiaoxiao is also very grateful to his parents and very filial.

3. Raising a "giant baby" has never been beaten

Mr. and Mrs. Li gave birth to children late, so since the birth of the child, the couple have been particularly fond of and obedient to the child. They thought that their children would be good to themselves in the future, but what they didn't expect was that after 20 years, although their children grew up, they could idle around all day and do nothing. Their lives depended on "gnawing at the old" and they didn't care about themselves and their wives at all, let alone "filial piety".

4. Never beaten, the child becomes successful.

Ms Cheng and her husband are both high flyers, and they are very good at educating children. Although the couple usually don't beat their children, the children are still well educated by them and are very good and filial when they grow up. The neighbors all expressed envy.

1. Children who have been beaten are prone to psychological shadows.

Ann in the incident, the reason why she ended up like that, actually has a lot to do with her parents' usual education methods. In fact, some children are not suitable for "beating and cursing" education. Educating them in this way will only make them more and more extreme and leave a deep psychological shadow.

2. The children who have been beaten are excellent in some aspects.

As the saying goes, defeat the enemy without fighting. This sentence actually has some truth. Some children, if their parents never call, are likely to go the wrong way. Beating and scolding a child may leave a psychological shadow on the child, but if you grasp the degree, the child will become very good.

3. Children who "never get beaten" are likely to become "neets" and "unfilial sons".

Now many parents are very fond of their children. They naturally don't want to hit their children. If you overindulge your children, they may become "old people" and "unfilial sons". Therefore, it is necessary to have a certain measure to spoil children.

4. Children who have never been beaten can also be excellent.

Children who have never played may also be excellent in all aspects. Of course, the prerequisite must be that parents have good educational methods, otherwise, children who have never played will easily be spoiled.

In fact, whether you hit a child or not, the most important thing is to master the degree. Beating children should not be too blind, and children should not be used as a tool to vent their emotions. As a parent, after finding a problem, we should first guide our children, so we can stop hitting them if we don't. Not hitting children does not mean doting on them. If the child never repents, it is necessary for us to punish the child.

Parenting tips:

Educating children is a university. Many people are parents for the first time, so we still have to keep learning. There is some truth in the words "defeat the enemy without fighting" and "filial son comes out under the stick" We can't completely deny it, and we can't be completely sure. How to grasp the "degree" is the most important thing for us.

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