Is interpersonal communication in college really difficult to deal with? Yes, interpersonal relationship is a very serious problem and a headache. Speaking of "people", it is always so difficult to deal with. The following are the articles I collected for you. I hope I can help you!

1, dare to show yourself to everyone and attract friends.

In college, you may feel that you are a very small existence, and you have basically no friends except your roommates. I really envy seeing many friends around other students. Some people sit, some people bring meals, some people eat and go shopping together, play together and study together. But you are always alone and afraid of dealing with others. You always feel uncomfortable and lonely, and life is really boring.

Listen to Xiao Qin, in fact, you don't have to do this. You won friendship and love. You just stand still and feel sorry for yourself, which will only make others think that you are an inaccessible and closed person. Finally, you make yourself boring. Qin Xiao realized this when he went to the villa for the first class activity. At that time, I cooked by myself in my class. Unfortunately, not many people in the class can cook. Qin Xiao, who grew up in the countryside, just showed his hands. At that time, I seldom talked in class, but that day I washed the pot, washed the vegetables and chatted with my friends. Don't say how happy you are, the key is to be famous in the class.

No one would have thought that so many subtle things would happen just by cooking a dish. What Xiao Qin wants to say is that when you are talented and capable of showing yourself, you should seize the opportunity. You attract friends and show yourself boldly. When you try this for the first time, you will find that it is not so difficult to make friends. This is actually a natural thing. As long as everyone has the same interests, it is easy to become good friends.

Don't be afraid of losing money.

It is necessary to mention that China's good roommate is coming to teach. After graduating from freshman year, I have been helping my roommate boil water for four years. Maybe you'll call him stupid. When you need to borrow money from your roommate at the beginning of your business, few people pay attention to him, but when he says, "I helped you boil water for four years," the situation has completely changed. In the future, do one more thing in the dormitory, in the club and in the workplace, even if it is a cup of tea, taking out the garbage, cooking a meal and inviting a guest, you can show your concern and attention to your friends. Don't worry that you will suffer, and it's not that your mouth is soft and your hands are short. Just a few casual things, you will find that your popularity has become really good.

Similarly, if you have more friends and have been in contact for a long time, there will always be some small frictions. At this time, we should think about what we did wrong first, instead of gossiping first. Always keep a calm mind and take the initiative to find each other. Please drink milk tea and have dinner. If you have something to say, yes, it is * * *. It's no big deal after we talk.

3. Take the initiative to make friends and make real friends.

I don't envy those people who have many friends around me at all now. I don't know if those people are sincere or hypocritical. I am glad that I have these friends who never give up and are really good to me. They always encourage me with their little wisdom and make me better.

So I think it's better to make some friends with quality than those without quality. Just like a popular sentence on the internet a while ago: "Please give up your useless social interaction." Socialization will definitely take up a lot of your time, give up useless socialization and spend more time on improving yourself. It's good to make good friends, make yourself better, and then attract better friends.

When the years go by and youth is gone, maybe we will forget some of the past, but you have to believe that some friendships never change. Finally, I would like to thank those friends who have helped me and always accompanied me. Thank you for letting me grow and witnessing my growth.