This probability is not surprising. Some people joked that the graduation season is also the "breakup season", and even some couples choose to break up "in advance" to avoid facing it when they graduate. What makes everyone believe that they will break up after graduation?
On the one hand, you may not be able to face the distance to be separated. In universities, students come from all corners of the country, which is different from the concentration of students in middle schools. After graduation, many people choose to go back to their hometown, and the distance makes it impossible for couples to get along as they did at school. Long-distance love is not only insecure, but also may make feelings fade away.
On the other hand, everyone has different plans for his future. First, the cities chosen for development are different, and everyone should go their separate ways. Secondly, it is very likely that one party will enter the society first and start employment, and the other party will choose to go to graduate school. Obviously, there is a big gap between school and work, and one party at work is likely to be very busy and unable to adapt to the other half with more free and sufficient time, thus creating contradictions.
Another very important aspect is the economic issue. Graduation from college is actually an embarrassing stage. Graduates who have passed the age of 65,438+08 should step into the society at this time, and it is time to "stand on their own feet". Of course, no one wants to be a "neet", but just walked out of the "ivory tower" but really didn't have enough economic ability. The meager salary is a bit tight for food and shelter. Why do they have to reach out to their parents for money to fall in love? This is not to say that falling in love is extravagant and wasteful, but it is inevitable that newly graduated students will experience a gap. They may have to think twice before going out for a big meal, and buying a holiday gift is not enough for their living expenses. ...