First, academic reasons.
Most urban families are children. If you have money at home, you can go to private schools, and if you have money at home, you can go to public schools. Wealthy families can find tutors for one-on-one tutoring, and ordinary families can go to cram schools for tutoring. Many parents in the city are senior intellectuals, and they also play a very important role in the inheritance and education of their children.
Most rural families have two or three children. Now most rural schools have merged, and the number of students in township schools has decreased and the quality has declined. Some parents want to transfer their children to county towns or cities, but there is no public school district account, so they can only send their children to private schools. One-year tuition is calculated at 20,000 yuan. /kloc-It costs 240,000 yuan to graduate from kindergarten to junior high school in 0/2 years, and 480,000 yuan for two children, not counting the expenses for children and adults to eat, get sick, rent a house and go to senior high school. How can a farmer have so much money, how can he find a tutor or attend a remedial class for his children?
Children's learning is not only an intellectual contest, but also a financial contest. Most of the parents of rural children have never been to college, and there is a big gap in intellectual inheritance and children's education. Most children lost to city children from the starting line.
Second, professional reasons.
Now, whether it is a central enterprise or a top 500 private enterprise, most of the recruitment only needs to graduate from a double-class university. If you want to find a good job, you must go to a good university. Although many rural children go to college, there are few famous universities.
According to the statistics of relevant departments, less than 20% of students in Tsinghua and Peking University come from rural areas, while 60% of private universities come from rural areas, and most families are not rich, so they can only complete their studies by loans and grants from students' places of origin.
Because most rural children go to ordinary universities, the jobs they find after graduation are also average. Except for a few well-off families or those admitted to famous universities, most rural children are under great pressure to graduate from college and have a hard career.
Third, the reason for getting married. There are three opportunities to change the fate of life, one is birth, the other is examination, and the third is marriage.
Most children in the city are rich, and many families have several suites. Many children enjoy love while going to school, and they can get married directly after graduating from college. A few children in rural areas are rich, but most of them are not, especially those who borrow money to go to school. Others fall in love, he dare not, even if he meets the right person, he can only sigh because he has no money. When I graduated from college and paid off my loan, I lost my chance early. Other people's careers have already started, and I started from scratch.
Nowadays, in rural areas, children from good universities are very good at finding jobs, while children from good families in ordinary universities are very good. Those with poor family circumstances who can't go to a good university are the worst. They can't go back to the countryside, enter the city, have no house, no car, no money, no daughter-in-law, or even get hundreds of thousands of bride price.
This is the situation of most students and most other people.
Ups and downs, difficulties and setbacks, ask yourself the meaning of living from time to time.
How many people are mixed together?
A very small part.
Most college graduates are new-type migrant workers.
Dressed as a college student, I am a migrant worker in the digital age, but I am stubborn and dare not admit it.
Looking at the building with a barely paid salary, sighing, admiring the lights, dreaming of giving orders, knowing that it is out of reach, but not wanting to give up.
I am busy every day, but unfortunately I have no brains, no talent, and I have not made much progress.
When I was young, I had no attachments. I have overtime pay when I work overtime, and my life is still moist.
Towards middle age, the body is gradually struggling, and the body has shown signs of wear and tear.
Under hard work, I barely got married and had children after marriage, and all the contradictions and conflicts came.
Mental stress, poor economy, getting older and older, people are eliminated by society in middle age, don't know the direction of progress, look at home and dare not give up.
High is not low. It seems that you are yourself.
Just like worker bees, they are ordinary and busy, and they will not rest until they die.
Don't be a migrant worker,
In fact, there is no need to over-interpret, or graduate students should not be divided into rural cities. The situation of many urban graduates may not be good. Taken together:
1, graduate school. I learned the degree of mastering useful knowledge at school.
2. mentality. Whether you can know yourself correctly and know the world.
3. the concept of career choice. Don't aim too high Pragmatic.
4. stick to it. Not afraid of a low starting point, the key is persistence.
The pedantic face mentality hurts them, and they have no face at all. How can they not lose face? Logical contradiction.
No way, the current national conditions determine that there are not so many jobs, so we can only roll in and reduce the size.
I. Graduates from urban and rural universities * * *
1, the serious oversupply of ordinary college students makes it difficult to find employment and develop;
2. The current education and training system is seriously out of touch with social needs;
3. There are two extreme trends in family education-over-doting and over-nurturing, which leads to the low comprehensive quality of children.
Second, the characteristics of rural graduates
1, the fine tradition of suffering is almost lost, and the whole is not as hard as the children in the city;
2. The cost of social development, or the victim: the success rate of left-behind children may be less than one in a thousand;
3. The closure of knowledge, vision and environment leads to the low overall quality of rural graduates;
Family resources are extremely limited, which not only directly affects the job hunting, work and life of college graduates, but also indirectly affects people's courage, way of thinking and innovation ability.
Third, suggestions for rural children
1, pragmatic vocational education is the top priority. The employment situation of most colleges and universities in the second batch of enrollment in Jiangxi is not comparable to that of Shenzhen Vocational College and Nanjing Industrial Vocational College.
2. Children with average family economic conditions only go to low-level schools. It is recommended not to study, and there is a high probability that you will become poorer and poorer. Private colleges with high tuition fees do not recommend rural children with ordinary conditions to study;
3. Rural family education ... is in urgent need of improvement. Family education in cities is "rising step by step", while family education in rural areas has been "sinking deeper and deeper", and there are many negative points below the horizon.
First of all, without good social relations, graduation depends on oneself, and it is very difficult to want a good work unit.
The expansion of enrollment has turned higher education into an industry. Rural children's schooling is an investment, not a consumption. When the supply of graduates exceeds demand and their studies are useless, it will inevitably lead to difficulties in job hunting, low pay and investment failure. On the contrary, those children who have passed vocational education or even taught themselves at work without attending ordinary colleges and universities are more popular with the society because of their early employment and low investment. In fact, it is a truth that children go to school to do business, and things are rare. Going to school is risky, so you need to be cautious in investing!
I think there are more and more college students at present, and the supply of jobs is not enough, which makes it difficult for college students to find jobs. Besides, some college students are really vulgar. This job is too hard, and the salary in that job is low. Too high is not low. Then there is no way out, and you will never find a job that suits you.
I think we should correct our mentality first. As a graduated college student, no matter how high or low, you must first have the ability to support yourself, and experience is gradually accumulated.
When I just graduated, I couldn't find a job for two months, but I didn't want to go into the factory to do assembly line. Do you think I will stay in the factory all my life after studying for so many years? But there's nothing I can do. Later, I compromised. Although I didn't enter the factory, I went to do telephone sales for several months and made two or three hundred calls every day. I am a very introverted person, and I am embarrassed to say hello to everyone. At the beginning of the phone call, my whole voice trembled and I couldn't speak clearly. When I was scolded, I hung up quickly and got a lot of sulks. But after doing it for several months, I gradually became less nervous and scared, and I also talked about some sincere customers coming to the company.
So I later concluded that no matter what industry I do, I can accumulate experience, which will definitely help my future growth.