I have a friend who is such a person. However, what clothes she wears must not be colorful, just simple. It is absolutely impossible to see her at a glance when she is thrown in the crowd, even if she looks at it a few times, she may not be remembered. And I never wear makeup, and I have long hair all day. Like what hats, earrings, necklaces, these things, she will definitely not bring, nor will she buy.

Later, we found it strange that twenty years old is the time when youth is flourishing. Shouldn't we dress up beautifully, not to mention making others feel pleasing to the eye, at least we feel that we have failed our youth.

As a result, she told me that she felt inferior and she was afraid of other people's eyes. She always feels particularly uncomfortable walking in the crowd. If she dresses up beautifully and feels that everyone is paying attention to her every move, she will feel extremely embarrassed.

When she was at school, whenever the teacher asked her, no matter whether she answered correctly or not, she felt very embarrassed, and she was deeply conflicted and unsure. Even after class, I won't walk around at will. Even if I want to go to the bathroom, I must go to the bathroom after class. I was afraid of being late for the next class, so I had to walk back to the classroom in the eyes of everyone.

She is not ugly, but she is not confident at all. This is related to a person's personality. She is the kind of "dog meat is not allowed to sit" temper.

I once told her clearly that people in life are really busy, and really not so many people notice you. You don't have to feel stiff at all. You can come at will, but it's useless. She is still the simple person who can't be simpler.

It doesn't matter, society is an inclusive circle. Whether you are a self-abased person who just wants to feel comfortable inside, or a publicity person, it is a worthwhile lifestyle to let go of your own style.