There are several college students with peasant children around me who have graduated, so it is difficult to find jobs that they think are suitable in big cities. They always jump ship, and it is difficult to find a stable job after a few years. It's not that children in rural areas have high eyes, because they are afraid of poverty in rural areas, so college students who come out of rural areas always want to find a job that makes more money, reduce the burden of their parents' family life, and don't waste the years of providing books.
I don't have a suitable job, and I don't have enough venture capital because I just graduated and my parents are farmers. It's not easy to spend all my family's money on my own education, and I have to pay off some debts. This wastes time and youth, and the young man becomes an old man.
Marrying a daughter-in-law has become a worry for parents. The premise of marrying a wife is to buy a house in the city first. It is reasonable to say that you have to have a nest before you get married, but it is this money that rural families lack. Parents have worked hard for a year, and the money of the housekeeper is only enough to buy a square meter house in the city at most. Without a house, a car and an account, it is difficult to marry a daughter-in-law in the city.
The problems I mentioned about the graduation of rural college students are very common, and they are also things that many rural farmers feel very correct. I am diligent and diligent, saving money for my children to go to college, but there are still many things to worry about after going to college, but I am unable to do it. Correct the mind, correct the heart, really let the old people in rural areas have endless inner feelings.
1 What boys lack most is that they can't find a partner.
What girls lack most is that they can't find someone they really love, someone with money and salary!
We are faced with love, work, money, marriage and children, and a well-off life!
Viewpoint: What rural college students lack most is self-identity and self-confidence!
With my shallow experience and knowledge, I remind you that everyone is a unique existence and should bloom their own lives.
For me who was born in the countryside, what rural college students lack most is money.
All the disappointments are due to the poor economic level, which limits imagination!
Some people say that rural college students lack knowledge and courage. In fact, I think these are all caused by lack of money. If rural college students are not short of money, they will walk around and increase their experience. Will they be ignorant? If you have money at home, you are not afraid of failure, and you don't have to look forward to doing things. Anyway, you have family background.
Nowadays, college students, especially those from rural areas, are facing severe employment problems. Parents have suffered a lot and left the best to their children, which has led to a qualitative change in the concept of many children. My nephew's children, only 12 and 12 years old, have no motivation to struggle, claiming that they have a house and a car and don't struggle, and have no idea that the so-called RV is made by their parents! It has nothing to do with him! What will happen to such children after graduation? They lack the spirit of hard work! There are too many talents and too few skills to adapt to various positions after graduation, resulting in many large units recruiting college students administratively, working eight hours a day for five days, and being hired to do technical core operations, about thirty or forty.
In fact, as long as rural college students study hard at school, don't waste time, return to the countryside after graduation, learn something useful, and spread what they have learned, they will certainly break out of their own new world! Children who walk out of campus have worked hard! The future 6G era belongs to you!
I am Nabao, a farmer, and my opinion is purely personal. Welcome to leave a message for discussion!
What rural college students lack most now is money, and what they are most worried about is employment. Specifically, lack of faith, ideals, aspirations, experiences, opportunities, relationships, hardships, spirit, confidence, perseverance and so on. What worries me most is that I have no money, no job, no car, no house and no wife. We should face the reality, proceed from reality, be aggressive, dare to challenge, seize opportunities, forge ahead, be not afraid of risks and setbacks, and move towards success. As long as the spirit does not decline, the solution is always more difficult than it is. If you eat bitterness, you are a master, and there is sweetness in bitterness. Gold always shines, and success belongs to enterprising and talented people.
I studied hard in middle school and believed that "the college entrance examination can change my destiny". After years of hard work, I finally got into my favorite university, and finally stood on the same starting line with my peers who had good conditions since childhood.
But slowly, whether in college or after graduation, you will find that your stamina seems to be a little insufficient or even worse. Many people will ask: Why do most college students from rural areas get along badly? What do college students from rural areas lack?
One,
Seeing this topic, the author first thought of a work "Tu Personal Sorrow" written by the famous writer Fang Fang many years ago.
The work tells the life experience of Tu, a college student. He grew up in rural Hubei and was the only college student in his hometown.
When he was in college, he relied on the villagers to chip in all the way to work, just to pay the tuition for the first year.
Four years in college, working in the school cafeteria for four years, and finishing my studies through work-study program. In order to save money, he didn't go home for four years.
Faced with all kinds of difficulties, Tu Qiangzi was born optimistic.
However, just as he was preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination, his father died in a hurry because of a dispute in the village; Mother crushed her leg because the old house collapsed in the snowstorm.
After graduating from college, Tu took his mother to Wuhan, which provoked the burden of life. He has no connections, no background and struggles for a living.
Tu Qiangzi finally broke down from overwork and learned that his life was in the late stage of lung cancer-he settled his mother in an elderly temple, walked back along the way he came, and disappeared silently.
At the end of the article, I asked such a question: "Is this really just your personal sadness?"
Second,
Today, when I saw the discussion about rural college students on the Internet, I naturally remembered the above story, as well as a reportage "Tears are Gold" in the late 1990s, which also talked about the campus life of poor college students.
Over the years, social progress, economic development and the study and life of rural college students are no longer problems, but natural disadvantages may be the shortcomings of many people's lives.
No matter how the rabbit doesn't sleep, the tortoise will never have the hope of success.
In fact, the same is true after graduation. Rich students don't have to consider too many external factors, such as continuing to study as graduate students, doctors, postdocs and visiting abroad. But for students who have no money, they should also consider their own income, how to reduce the burden on their families, and how to earn money as soon as possible to be filial to their parents.
For them, the fault tolerance rate is too low, and they are afraid of making a wrong step. Even if the day after tomorrow is beautiful, they may degenerate to tomorrow. Everything is risky. For graduates, the twenties are the rising period of life, but the fault tolerance rate is too low. They have to make safer choices, such as going back to a small county to take an examination of a civil servant, and then live a life step by step.
What rural college students lack most is learning ability, which needs to be supplemented.
In the process of industrialization, urbanization and modernization, the biggest influence on rural children is self-identity. Many parents and even grandparents have left their homes to work and do business in cities, the countryside has been hollowed out step by step, and rural education has gradually declined. Most rural children lost at the starting line from the beginning, and the lack of education accompanied by their parents often accompanies them all their lives, which is manifested in the lack of good living habits and study habits and the general lack of learning ability.
Long-term observation of children in their hometown in Hubei shows that children in rural areas have little good academic performance. Even if most children are admitted to universities, they will go to ordinary universities. Few students have been admitted to 985,211,and even fewer rural students plan to go abroad for further study. They often lack clear life planning and career planning, don't know what they want, what they can do, spend a few years in the university in a daze, and only when they step into the society do they find that what they have learned in the university is basically useless, exposing the shortcomings in their ability, which is difficult to make up for at the moment, so they frequently jump ship and find their second and third positions, wasting precious youth.
Some rural college students contacted by the author have no internship experience after four years, and they don't agree that they only have internship experience because they have nothing. Some rural college students still count on their parents and relatives to help them find a job unit after graduation, and they don't have the courage to go out and sell themselves. This shows their confidence.
Some people sum up the problem of rural college students as "poverty limits their imagination", but I don't think so, because many rural college students are not poorer than urban college students, but the quality of their parents really limits their horizons, making them slow to accept new things and giving people the impression of lack of ability.
In this regard, rural college students should pay more than urban college students, make use of precious college time and every opportunity to enrich and improve themselves, make up for the shortcomings of learning ability brought by congenital deficiency, and prepare for their careers in advance.
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Lack of entrepreneurial projects and funds
After graduation, college students don't have their own opinions. They have to take postgraduate entrance examinations, take exams, enter factories and start businesses.
What rural college students lack most is recognition, which comes from classmates and teachers. After graduation, you will face the problem of difficult employment.
Why do rural college students lack the most recognition?
Rural college students are most afraid of being looked down upon by students and teachers because of food and clothing. Rural college students have been thrifty since childhood, and they will not spend money indiscriminately when they go to college. They choose the lowest price for eating and wearing clothes, and girls don't dress up. These have become the questions that rich college students at home laugh at.
If thrift and hard work are also shortcomings, what are the advantages? But because of this, teachers and classmates laugh at them. College students in rural areas go their own way and don't care what others say. The goal of your coming to college is to learn professional knowledge and skills, and learn to be a man and do things. The more they laugh, the harder you work. Look who laughs last!
The recruitment of the work unit after graduation depends on whether you have learned professional knowledge and skills, learned to be a man and do things, and are excellent!
Therefore, rural college students should not feel inferior, but should study hard and strive for a good job!