Your daughter is 22 years old and a junior. She has a relationship with her boyfriend and needs a room. This kind of situation is very common in universities. Even now, the students of 985 University or 2 1 1 University usually open a room with their partners to entertain themselves in their sophomore year, not to mention those students of ordinary universities. Moreover, in college, most students will fall in love unless students with strong self-control ability don't fall in love.
Why do you love to fall in love so much in college? There are actually four reasons!
1, the pressure of college is not as great as that of high school.
Three years of study in high school can be described as the most bitter three years in the student stage, and the pressure is very great. Parents hope that their children can be admitted to key universities, and teachers have been urging students to study. Students also realize that watching the future life of universities is more exciting, so they turn pressure into motivation and keep moving forward!
When I get to college, many students will be confused, have no direction, no goal, or even no pressure, which is easy for students to comfort themselves, so students who have always wanted to fall in love in high school broke out in college, so more people will fall in love in college!
2. Curiosity
In fact, students have always been curious about falling in love. In junior high school and senior high school, in order to control their curiosity, they have been using learning to suppress it, and teachers and parents have been controlling it, so curiosity has not erupted. Leaving parents is different, so students are more curious about love. At this time, only some people pursue it, and most girls will agree to associate!
3. Affected by the environment
The learning atmosphere in key universities is better. When students are free, they all take the postgraduate entrance examination themselves, hoping to further improve their academic qualifications in the future. However, the learning atmosphere in ordinary universities will be almost gone, and more students will fall in love. Even six girls in a dormitory will fall in love, so classmates will fall in love under the influence of classmates. It is impossible to fall in love without having sex in college!
4. Poor self-control ability
Every college student should have heard a sentence, right Love in college is the purest? That's true, if the university doesn't meet? Love rat? In that university, dating is really pure. Two people eat together, travel together, study together, and of course occasionally stay together! But what if you encounter it? Love rat? That's another matter. Some boys just like chasing girls, just like it? Play? Girls broke up after playing for a few months, so girls should know how to love themselves when they are in love!
But to be honest, college girls are really easy to catch up with. As long as this boy has money and often buys food for girls, it is generally easy to catch up. Some girls have poor self-control ability and like to rely on others in other places. Falling in love at this time, she feels very helpful to herself, so girls with poor self-control ability are more likely to fall in love!
The above four reasons are the main reasons why college students fall in love. If they fall in love and don't have sex, it is definitely impossible. What should parents do if children have sex with boys? I can't help it After all, parents and children are not together, so when you find that your child has a relationship with your boyfriend, please tell her three words The first sentence: cherish the body.
Why should I tell my child the first sentence? Cherish your body? And then what? Because today's college students really don't love themselves, some people have more than one boyfriend, friend or girlfriend, so they often have sex, which leads to physical illness, or the unsanitary hotel they go to, which also leads to some skin diseases, really, so please tell your children to pay attention to their health!
The second sentence: take safety measures.
Once in love, they will do unexpected things, pregnancy and abortion are normal, so please tell your children to take safety measures and not to take risks easily!
I don't know if you have noticed that many college girls are infertile because they don't take good safety measures, which makes their future life very troublesome, so students should be careful!
The third sentence: don't be greedy for pleasure. Please tell your children that college is a place for struggle, not for pleasure. You can fall in love or have sex with your boyfriend, but don't do anything out of line, such as pregnancy and abortion, such as taking nude photos!
Personally, I think college students should focus on their studies, and the expenses of college are all given by their parents. It's really wrong for students to pursue pleasure, so girls must polish their eyes before falling in love? Don't be cheated by love rat, and you should know how to love yourself when you associate with your boyfriend! (If the image source is infringing on the Internet, please contact, thank you. )