Secondly, the two sides can't reach an agreement on the future planning, and they can't compromise with each other. If the conflict intensifies, they can only break up. Because the school is still a place with a heavy academic atmosphere, most students still maintain a relatively simple temperament and pure love. In this big environment, few people will think about their future plans before graduation, and they all think that two people can always be together by love. This did not take into account many feelings about the final future from the beginning, and it was naturally fragile in the face of a series of pressures that had to be faced when graduating.
Maybe I just fell in love at school and never thought that love would eventually come down to life. In addition to spiritual satisfaction, there are practical problems such as housing, cars and tickets that need to be solved. Many couples face these practical problems and the pressure of their elders after graduation, and gradually have to be realistic, and reality overcomes love.
Universities gather people from all corners of the country in one place, but after graduation, everyone goes their separate ways; When you fall in love in college, you may think that the regional issue is not so important, but later it becomes very important. It's not easy to maintain a long-distance relationship. Those who didn't break up after graduation, many people also formed a more independent and perfect outlook on life and values through continuous work. Everyone's growth rate is different, and the changes after accepting social baptism are different; ?
When I was a student, everyone was not really mature, and few people could have mature values, love and life. Although these problems exist, it is also because many places as students are not mature enough that we choose some high-risk relationships, but we are unable to bear the consequences of this choice, so we will be more vulnerable in the face of pressure.