In Qingdao at the end of last century, He Luo and his family were friends for many years. At that time, He Fu drowned to save Luo Fu. He's mother supported her two sons and Chunsheng by selling steamed buns. Lao Luo's official career is prosperous, and the official is the commander of the navy. Lao Luo, who is in the ascendant, kept his promise and insisted on fulfilling his agreement with Lao He to marry his daughter Luo Xiaobei to He Chunsheng. Luo Shengli, the son of Lao Luo, has a successful career. On the one hand, he looked down on any family, on the other hand, he felt his failed marriage and strongly opposed the marriage between Luo Xiaobei and He Chunsheng. Honest and frank kind Chunsheng has to respect Beckham's ideas and work hard for a better future.
family status
There are families not only in cities and rural areas, but also in cities.
Luo Xiaobei, an urban white-collar worker from a general's family, and He Chunsheng, who grew up in an ordinary family, have no difference in appearance. My parents are both soldiers, and their positions are equal. However, the unexpected death of He's father gradually widened the gap between their family situation. But we must believe that the family composed of two parents has brought several children who seem to be at the same starting line into different development situations.
As my mother said, even if CSI is alive, his family can't be as successful as Luo Jia in the end. Their two families are essentially separate families. The impression of Lao Luo and Dr. Zhang created by the plot, compared with Lao Hehe, can be seen the difference between the two decades later.
Lao Luo has the characteristics of a soldier, honest, frank and generous, but smart and capable. At first glance, Dr. Zhang is a mother who is used to living an exquisite life. In addition to the bloodiness of soldiers, CSI is also a person who does everything for his friends. Tang Lihua is very enthusiastic and can help others at all costs. They never think of themselves.
The gap of family status needs the rational understanding of both husband and wife to build a bridge, and it needs the road of more and more synthesis after the mountains and rivers in the emotional world fall apart under the influence of family affection. Husband and wife should appreciate each other, get rid of the shackles of family and face a new life. Exquisite urban white-collar life and poor civilian life have their own fun. If they complement each other, it will be a paradise on earth.
marry
At the beginning of marriage, you need two of a kind first, and then you can develop a kind of * * * knowledge in years. A new family begins when the habit of being born in a family leads to another tacit understanding.
Marriage years always use an invisible knife to divide sincere love into pieces, change roses into vegetables, and change sweet words into ups and downs. In the collision of pots and pans, in the crying of children, there is another love for you for 10 thousand years.
When love meets marriage, it is no longer a person's business. Love words are gradually replaced by fireworks. The comfort of family atmosphere is more important than the pleasure in love.
Marriage needs a cornerstone, a family with material security, and a family with the same goals as husband and wife. Two people should work together, tolerate each other, understand each other and encourage each other. Face contradictions and live the life you want.
Contradiction is the key to the continuation of the plot.
The contradiction between He Jia and Luo Jia is the result of cognitive deviation after being in different social status, and this balance can only be stabilized after transposition. After returning to his family, Beckham was laid off and opened a restaurant to save the Luo family. It is the contradiction of family status that has been solved, so what about their love?
The contradiction between Chunsheng and Beckham is first the difference in income, and then the difference in living habits. They all tried to resolve the conflict. Beckham never complained that Chunsheng had no income to support his family. Chunsheng gave up his career in order to take care of the children and support Beckham's career. In fact, love has sublimated again, but this is far from enough.
What excites us in plays and novels is the seeds planted by playwrights or writers.
The initial seed of the family is the engagement of Lao He and Lao Luo's children in the world of ice and snow. Can two fiery hearts germinate seeds? CSI: The seeds of death tremble with fear. Beckham was admitted to the university and Chunsheng was admitted to the technical secondary school. The seeds of their marriage may not sprout. But with Lao Luo, the seeds will sprout. 2 1 century, how do parents dominate their children's marriage? Lao Luo is very helpless. Even if he holds an important position, it can't be reversed, and he can only walk away with a grudge.
A gorgeous turn, Beckham's marriage with his mother was not accepted, and his marriage with Chunsheng made Luo Beckham out of the shadows. Ma Xiaolong's first taste of the sweetness of the fruit of love doomed the beginning of tragedy.
Ma Xiaolong's parents were a tragedy, and Ma Xiaolong was sad from beginning to end. Even if you are congenial to Beckham, you can't escape the curse of this world. The more Beckham loves him, the worse his fate will be. Some love is like a moth, which will eventually disappear, not forever, but a regret of life.
God will not leave regrets for life in spring. After waiting for more than 20 years, he will be happier even if he wins the beauty. The appearance of Ding Xiaoman seems to shake their marriage step by step, but the essence is to make the ordinary person He Chunsheng step by step towards happiness. Chunsheng's career progressed step by step in Beckham's suspicion of his affair with Ding Xiaoman. When Chunsheng's career moves towards spring, it seems that the spring of Beckham's marriage has also come. A kind of intoxication, Beckham's love for Chunsheng has been sublimated after his transformation. This is love in marriage, and many people can't go this far. The dog blood in the plot is torture. Can the love in our marriage stand the storm in summer?
Beckham's hug with Chunsheng is not sweet talk, but Chunsheng's divorce. Does love always end in tragedy? It's not that Chunsheng's heart has changed. He is a grateful person, and he wants to leave his perfect love to Beckham.
In the words of Da Zhou, Luo Xiaobei is a woman that every man wants to hug when he sees her. Even in the saddest time, she is beautiful and moving, and God is sympathetic.
Chunsheng is the embodiment of millions of people with conscience. He left Luo Xiaobei temporarily to repay him. In order to repay Ding Xiaoman, Xiaoding once broke his kidney and was lonely. Love in marriage made Beckham desperate. When Chunsheng's kidney source does not match Xiaoding's, Beckham is willing to give Ding Xiaoman a healthy kidney. Tears streaming down her face, for the sake of affection after the sublimation of love!
Luo Xiaobei faces the sea. She walked out of the bondage of family and appreciated her husband's selflessness. Marriage is happy even without a hug, with a tacit understanding and mutual understanding.
Novels freeze the story with words, movies show the audience pictures, and TV plays bring the perfect image of people in real life to life, stimulate your deep understanding of life under the catalysis of contradictions, and then eulogize the beauty of the world with seeds, so that we can walk out of a family and have a real life.