Choose the window, choose the scenery outside the window, and choose a mood. But in the journey of life, do we often open the wrong window? If you open the wrong window, the original beautiful things will become dim, and the world will have no beauty in your eyes; If you open the wrong window, the pure feelings between friends will be covered with a layer of dark dust and deteriorate from then on; If you open the wrong window, your mind may be shrouded in dark clouds and wander in the abyss forever. Whenever we reach out to the window, please stop and think: will we open the wrong window? We need to determine whether there is a large area of pure sunshine outside the window. In the process of life, we will always encounter some negative emotions, and these emotions are like darkness. Many times, we can't help but put all our strength into the confrontation with this darkness, and forget how powerless or even ineffective this confrontation is. My friend, darkness itself is not a problem, it is only because of the lack of light. Therefore, we might as well take back the power against darkness and look for sunshine, which may be more valuable and meaningful to us. I heard a story before: there was a little girl whose beloved dog died. She lay on the windowsill sadly, watching the people outside the window bury her puppy, and couldn't help crying. When her grandfather saw this scene, he told the little girl to turn around and open the window behind her. The little girl was stunned by what she saw: the sun was shining in the yard, roses were in full bloom and butterflies were wandering ... Soon, the little girl's mood became clear. I still remember what the old man said to the little girl: "Son, you opened the wrong window!" " "The old man is right, sad and happy; One side is loss, and the other side is hope. Why can't we open the window full of sunshine and hope? And this is just a turn and a hand. On the road of life, we often indulge in the immediate failure, sadness, frustration and pain ... and ignore the pleasant scenery behind us, resulting in more loss and pain. Bacon once said: "All luck is not without worries, and all bad luck is by no means without hope. Professor Wake, a famous professor at Cornell University, made an interesting experiment. First, he put a bottle flat on the table, with the bottom facing the bright side, the bottle mouth open, and then put some bees. I saw them flying towards a bright place in the bottle, but of course they could only hit the bottle wall. After hitting the wall several times, the bee found that it could never fly out of the bottom of the bottle, so it had to accept its fate and not die in the bright bottom of the bottle. Then Professor Wake poured out the bees, still put the bottle as it is and put in a few flies. Before long, they all flew out of the bottle. Why can flies find a way out? It turned out that they insisted on trying many methods, rising or falling, or backlighting or lighting. Once they hit the wall and found that the road was blocked, they immediately changed direction and finally found the bottle mouth and flew out. Humans always boast that they are the cleverest creatures, but why can't we do what flies can do? In life, setbacks and failures are inevitable. Once frustrated, we will be discouraged. Once we fail, we will give up our efforts and always stand in front of the window of setbacks and failures. Then we can only lie at the bottom of the bottle like that bee and accept our fate. So, find the exit of bad luck, open the window behind it, and you will see hope.