A person may not be able to change the environment, but the environment will certainly change people. The following is my composition about Zhu Zhechi. Welcome to reading.

How far a person can go depends on who he walks with;

How good a person is depends on who gives him advice;

How successful a person is depends on who he is with.

Because the soil is close to the rose and absorbs its fragrance, it can also give off a rich fragrance and bring the fragrance of the rose to others. In fact, we are the same. What kind of people we get along with, over time, will have the same taste as him, and the so-called similar taste comes from this. In a forum called Creating Wealth, a speaker gave the audience a quiz. Please take out a piece of paper and write down the six people who spend the most time with you, or the six closest friends, and write down their monthly income, and then calculate the average of their monthly income. This average can reflect your personal monthly income. The result of the test surprised everyone.

There is an old saying in China: Those who are near Mexico are black, and those who are near Zhu Zhechi are black. Americans also have a proverb: live with fools and eat and drink all day; Live with the wise and always be diligent in thinking. These two words are actually the same truth: the influence of friends is so great that they can subtly influence and even change your life. How far you can go depends on who you travel with. If you want to fly high, please associate with the eagle and become one of them; If you are with chickens all day, you can't fly very high. Someone once interviewed Bill Gates about the secret of his success. He said: Because there are more successful people working for me. Chen Anzhi's super success theory also mentioned: first work for successful people, then cooperate with successful people, and finally let successful people work for you. The person you associate with is your future. Contact more excellent people, and you will be well influenced by them.

German behaviorist Heinroth found a very interesting phenomenon in the experiment: the newly hatched gosling will instinctively follow its mother at first sight, but if it sees other moving objects at first sight, it will automatically follow. More importantly, once the gosling has formed a following reaction to one object, it can't form a following reaction to other objects, and the formation of this following reaction is irreversible. This phenomenon was later called imprinting effect by another German behaviorist Lorenz. Imprint effect is not uncommon in the human world.

You won't make progress if you mix with people who have drunk too much. Always be with the driller, you will not be practical; Always talk to people who are full of complaints, and you will become full of complaints; Always associate with those rich people, and you will become a mercenary, greedy and forgetful generation.

What kind of friends people divide into groups indicates what kind of future. If your friend is a positive person, you may become a positive person. If you want to be better, your friends must be better than you, because only they can provide you with successful experiences. If you always do the same things with the same people, your growth is obviously limited.

People are circle animals, and everyone has his own interpersonal circle. The difference between us is that some people have a small circle and some people have a big circle; Some circles can be high, and some circles can be low; Some people can run laps, others can't. Some people get rich by circles, while others stick out of circles and accomplish nothing.

No matter how big your circle is, there are usually no more than eight or nine people who really influence you, drive you and influence you, or even fewer. Usually there are only three or four people. Whether your mood is good or bad every day is often only related to these people, and your circle is generally limited by these people.

Therefore, what kind of people to make friends with, what kind of people to form a sphere of influence with, and what kind of people to form a circle with are actually issues worthy of our serious consideration and treatment, even the biggest thing in your life.

There is an old saying in Zhu Zhechi's composition recently: "Born numb, you can't chew your teeth;" White sand is in nirvana, and it is all black with it ",which means that lotus grows in hemp forest and can grow straight without help." And if the white gravel is mixed with dirt, then white will turn black.

A person may not be able to change the environment, but the environment will certainly change people.

If you are in a positive group, you will also be infected, become more diligent, and do your best to complete what you should do; If you are in a lazy group, you will also become lazy, not motivated and addicted to happiness. These are the effects of the environment on people, which are divided into three aspects for students: family, school and society.

In daily life, children's walking pace and standing posture are very similar to their parents. These habitual actions are not inherited, but are influenced by the family environment because they get along with their parents day and night. When I was a child, I spent most of my time with my parents. Family has become the longest living environment, so it has a great influence on people. Until adulthood, people also have considerable attachment to their families, and the concept formed by one's family may never change. When it comes to the influence on students, the family is undoubtedly the biggest.

The second is the school. Campus time is an important stage in a person's life. A good school should have not only an aesthetic environment, but also a humanistic environment. If everything on the school walls, classrooms and bulletin boards can induce and enlighten students, then in the long run, students with good aesthetic taste, scientific and cultural quality and ideological and moral quality will be cultivated. More importantly, teachers are educators and managers of students, and they have the power to set an example for students. A good teacher can infect students through his own example, cultivation and taste. On the contrary, if there are frequent violent incidents in a school and there are no good teachers, then excellent students will not be trained.

A person has to contact all kinds of students in his life, among which several social environments are the most extensive. After entering the society, the colleagues, friends and bosses you meet may have a great influence on people. However, as a high school student, the time spent in contact with society is too short after all, even if society has an influence on it, it is difficult to become a climate. However, it is not completely non-existent. All kinds of movies and cartoons are being accepted by students of all ages, which requires students to identify and watch them themselves.

The environment has created a changeable war era and a peaceful era of birds and flowers. Times make heroes, and the influence of environment on people is far-reaching. People should also make greater efforts to adapt to the environment.

I have been thinking about a question for three hours since I was near Zhu Zhechi's composition, and that is, what does it mean to be near Zhu Zhechi? Gradually I grew up and seemed to understand a little profound meaning. ...

I love playing. When I was a child, I was king of the children at home. Before that, I was timid and introverted. It was not until that day that I opened my heart and found my lost self. I like to sit quietly on the steps of the outdoor basketball court and watch boys my age sweat profusely on the court. Once upon a time, I dreamed that I could really compete on the court and enjoy the joy of success and the feeling of failure without being discouraged, but I was timid and afraid of being rejected. Maybe I can only be a small audience under the stage and always be a foil to others!

I sighed and thought about this indisputable fact ... Suddenly the basketball rolled to my feet, and the children on the court shouted at me: "Hey! Dude, how about throwing the ball? " I hesitated, but I picked it up and threw it out, but the ball didn't cross the guardrail, hit it and bounced back heavily. At the same time, the children on the court laughed, which sounded to me like a sword cutting my heart. When I was about to run away like a defeated dog, I heard a voice "Hey! Rookie, want to play basketball? I teach you? " From then on, I learned to play basketball. I have friends, and I have learned how to communicate with others. More importantly, I am cheerful. Perhaps, it is the phrase "I teach you" that breaks the barrier between me and the world and the ice between me and everyone, but I know that because of him, I can sing my favorite songs loudly and learn my favorite basketball moves to make me say things that I dare not say at ordinary times. Maybe this is near Zhu Zhechi! Can change a person's strength.

As time goes by and the environment changes, everyone will not remain the same. With hardworking people, you will not be lazy, with brave people, you will not be weak, and with cheerful people, you will not be closed. This is the power near Zhu Zhechi, which can affect the success or failure of life.

My four best friends, a lawyer, invited me to dinner as a party treat. I also know the client. We used to eat food stalls together. Chen Jianmei and Chen Jianmei are good friends. They used to work together. Now we don't work together, but we are busy, but there is a divorced woman with a common child.

When we had dinner together in August, Wu Shuo wanted to ask her friend to help with the lawsuit. I thought she was just talking and didn't take it seriously. I didn't expect her to be serious this time. There is no need to go to court for divorce, he has already taken care of it himself. Now Wu is in an awkward position. The child should be raised by the man, but the child always follows the woman. The woman pays for the children, but she has no custody. Next, her wish is to change custody and let the man pay alimony. In this way, in fact, no matter how much money is spent on children, the man will not only pay the bill, but also ask the woman for support. The world is big and ubiquitous, which must be prevented.

I didn't say what would happen in the future, but Wu is determined to fight this lawsuit now. So, don't hesitate to spend money and invite someone to do this. Of course, there is no problem with friend Li. He said he could handle the case.

Yao and so on. Yao is the driver of the Municipal Finance Bureau. This time, there was a "great earthquake" in Xiangyang financial system, and many officials fled one after another. It doesn't seem to make any difference to him. Maybe he is good at avoiding these questions, or he doesn't get involved in accounting affairs at all. Who knows, anyway, he is drinking with us at the moment, so he is definitely not guilty. Actually, getting caught is very simple. I was giving orders just now, and someone will take me away soon. Just now I was calculating how much money I had. In the blink of an eye, money flew like an eagle until I couldn't see it.

Yao is very clever. This time I went out to eat and brought "Xiaomi". According to their performance, it can be seen that section chief Yao has been in contact with her for many years. Unfortunately, she is also a divorced woman with a little girl. Yao doesn't seem to mind her bringing a girl to get married, and she is considerate of his little honey. His little honey is still young. She is probably Yao's daughter. However, this phenomenon of too many wives is very common in today's society, so it is not surprising to see more. Yao's point of view is that children should be disciplined. If children make mistakes, they should be given a long memory, otherwise they will continue to make mistakes again and again. This afternoon is definitely dangerous for children, which is not conducive to the formation of children's healthy personality and the growth of children. I can't bear to punish children too much, but I will teach them anyway. This is a task entrusted to me by God and must be completed. Yao's theory has certain scientific truth, but it is a bit scary and a bit like "fascism". Absolute things don't exist. If children want to follow the right path, they must master their psychology, be their friends, enter their hearts, enter their world, understand their real needs and make some targeted plans. Be reasonable to children, especially children who grow up day by day, and be more patient. Children's eyes are discerning, and they are also monitoring their parents' words and deeds. How can you be upright if you are not upright? Children's growth is inseparable from their parents' choices. If you make the right choice, you can go on easily. As long as you stick to it and use the right method, you can reach the peak of glory.

There are differences between men and women, and disciplining children is no exception. Generally speaking, girls are obedient, especially when they are young. Boys are naughty, pointing east and west, and west and east. Just don't play by the rules. I can't help it After Yao's divorce, he raised his daughter, who was basically an adult. I don't want to go out and become a typical "house girl". A good family and a good family, because of the different environment, have created different people. I have to admit that people are similar in appearance, but their inner and spiritual pursuits are quite different. Then, people are unequal. Just like ten fingers are different in length, they can't all be the same length. There are hundreds of people, all kinds of people. Yao means to make children obey by force. I want to question: if you are a foster son, it is not impossible to slap occasionally, but how can you fight for your daughter? Unless this daughter is not her own. Force is never the best way to solve the problem. Force can only make people yield on the outside, but they are not convinced on the inside. Between countries, between people, force can only make people compromise temporarily, and it is impossible to take it orally like Meng Huo.

Therefore, children should be disciplined according to different ages, different skin colors and different genders. Of course, everyone makes mistakes, and I am no exception. I also need to improve my personal quality and ability, and I also need to teach others and guide others how to do it. We exchange parenting experiences together, and there are some interactions. As the saying goes, those who are pro-Zhu Zhechi are pro-ink, which is true. When I think of the Chinese test questions in the college entrance examination, I always write my composition on this topic. I remember writing the title "Those who are near Zhu are not necessarily red, and those who are near Mo are not necessarily black". Looking back now, I made a low-level mistake. Why should I be like others? The idea didn't bring me any benefits in the end. Therefore, the invention has certain limitations and considerable danger. If you are not completely sure, you'd better not buy things you don't need. No matter how beautiful you are, you should overcome greed, live a comfortable life, and not be bound by envy and jealousy. It doesn't mean anything to tell yourself that failure once a day. The second failure, well, find out the reason and start all over again. No big deal.

Try n times and you still can't, and don't give up. Hope comes unexpectedly, don't give up easily.

Yao's suggestion is reasonable, but we should take its essence and discard its dross. Learn from each other's strengths and use them for me.

It is a fact that people who are close to Zhu Zhechi are close to ink. I want to do what pleases God and accept God according to his standards. Among the many choices, I have to be careful and handle them carefully, including dressing and eating. I have to choose. If I choose correctly, I will get God's blessing. If I choose wrong, I will try to correct it. Don't blindly follow popular things or singers, don't worship idols, don't watch movies and TV programs that shouldn't be watched, don't be jealous, don't be arrogant, don't do shy and shameful things, love justice and pursue truth.

At a dinner party, five people divorced, but not many people ate. It is chilling to think about the bad social atmosphere and its far-reaching influence. I live and work in this society, I live and breathe in this world. If I want to avoid the poison of bad atmosphere, I have to hold on to God, listen to him and act according to his will. Be humble and self-controlled, be cautious everywhere, love and care for your family, and discipline your children with love, so that they can take the right path and become good children of God. Although it is difficult to establish a Christian family, being a good person and reaching the standard of being a good Christian can influence some people to attract them to the Lord God. This life is enough, no regrets.