1, can't find a sweetheart.

It is very distressing to find someone you like on such a big campus. Perhaps it is because my vision is too high that I always want to find an ideal person who conforms to my aesthetic taste, but the reality is often unsatisfactory. There is always a big gap between reality and ideal. Maybe this aspect meets your requirements, but on the other hand it worries you. Maybe I am too introverted to confess to the person I like, so that I miss the opportunity and am unhappy; Perhaps I am too self-abased and worried about being rejected because of poor conditions; Maybe I'm in love, and he has no intention of waiting.

2. The starting point of love is incorrect.

Many college students fall in love on a whim, and regard falling in love as an emotional experience, just to gain temporary spiritual enjoyment, make up for empty hearts and find an emotional sustenance. Some people regard love as a tool to kill time, just to kill their spare time. In college life, we don't have the pressure of high school to fight day and night to get into an ideal university, and our body and mind never relax. We feel that life is so beautiful, but we are also in a boring predicament, so we want to find a partner of the opposite sex. Some people regard love as a practical drill before marriage, just to get that little satisfaction; There are also some students who blindly follow the crowd in love. Seeing that everyone around me is in pairs, it is inevitable that I feel uncomfortable, so I also want to find a heterosexual to satisfy my self-esteem.

3. Friendship and love cannot be correctly distinguished.

No matter in society or on campus, heterosexual communication is a normal social behavior, and it is also a social obstacle for college students. Friendship between the opposite sex is always regarded as love. A pair of friends of the opposite sex are very close and talk about everything, but they mistakenly think that friendship is love and that the other person likes themselves, which leads to obstacles in communication between them and the friendship between them disappears.

4, leading to academic neglect

College is a time to accumulate knowledge, cultivate ability and become a successful person. However, some students think that there is no pressure to further their studies in college, so they put their feelings first, reminisce with each other every day and fantasize about the happy time in the future, but they don't know that the good times of youth have slipped away in fantasy. Missed the best period of perfecting knowledge structure and improving comprehensive ability. As a result, when I was about to graduate, others were busy looking for a job, but I knew nothing about it, even the most basic professional knowledge, and I couldn't find a job at all. Unfortunately, it is too late.

5, the way of love is not correct

In the early days of love, the two stick together every day and can't wait to stay up all night. When the girl has something to do here, the man is busy. Although he is tired, he will not be bored. However, after three or four months, feelings suddenly declined, especially for men. After the novelty, they no longer consider the feelings of girls, and treat their girlfriends indifferently or even bored. However, this makes their girlfriends deeply confused and neglected. As a result, the two will quarrel over a little thing. Boys complain that girls haggle over every ounce, and girls complain that boys are indifferent to themselves, which eventually leads to the breakup of their feelings and their parting ways.

6. The way to express love is uncivilized.

College students in love have improper behavior control, are too intimate, misbehave and behave badly in public places such as teaching buildings, canteens, lakes and playgrounds, and have to avoid them. This is not only disrespectful, but also disgusting, leaving a bad impression on students.

7, premarital sex increased.

In the rapidly developing social environment, people's minds are becoming more and more open, especially the attitude of contemporary college students towards premarital sex has changed greatly. Men support this, but there are still many women who don't particularly agree. Once some girls fall in love, they will trust their partners too much, unable to extricate themselves, and lack the ability to control their feelings. They are often unable to resist the repeated demands of boys, forced to have sex, and even lead to pregnancy and suspension from school, which not only creates psychological and physical obstacles for many girls.

8. It's hard to get out of a lovelorn relationship.

After being lovelorn, you will feel depressed, unhappy, unable to eat, and in a trance, which will lead to decadence and degeneration and affect your normal study and life. There are still many students who destroyed their bodies and even committed suicide by jumping off a building; There are also some students who go astray, get revenge, break the law and die here.