As a head nurse, adjustment is the main thing. Find out what is going on first, and then find a way to go further. If two people have conflicts with boys, I think they are both good faces, and giving enough face is almost the same. Now that you are a girl, I advise you to leave it alone. If it is for other reasons, it should be to give you face if you put down the harsh words and make a good adjustment.
I have a view that boys should let it go and persuade them, but now there is nothing you can do, whether it is the best or not, and it will be a mess if you don't give you face!
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