To understand something we don't know, it is necessary for us to understand the problem and show the results in the investigation report. Let's refer to how the investigation report was written. The following is a survey report on love issues I collected for your reference, hoping to help friends in need.
Love, what a beautiful creature. From "My Fair Lady, Gentleman" to "The so-called Iraqis are on the water side"; From talented writers to romantic poets, the world is full of endless hymns and sighs. And college students are in their youth, and they are always full of yearning for beautiful love. However, different college students will have different views on love, that is, different views on love. The concept of love is the concept of mutual admiration and cultivation of love between the opposite sex under the interaction of physiological, psychological and environmental factors. In today's universities, love has become a very normal phenomenon. Moreover, China no longer requires college students to get married, which makes college students' love more "legal". This paper intends to explore the characteristics of college students' love view, as well as the causes and effects through questionnaire survey. In order to guide college students to objectively, calmly and correctly examine their love situation, establish a positive and healthy view of love, and urge them to establish a correct view of love and life.
First, research methods and research objects
1, research methods. This survey adopts the self-made Questionnaire of Contemporary College Students' Views on Love, covering the main contents of college students' views on love and their attitudes towards love, trying to understand college students' views on love objectively, comprehensively and scientifically through this questionnaire.
2. Research object. In this survey, the undergraduate students in the freshmen, sophomores, juniors and seniors of Southwest University were selected for a random sampling survey. In this survey, 80 questionnaires were distributed and 79 questionnaires were collected, with an effective rate of 98.75%.
3. The investigation time is 20xx years 10 month.
Second, the analysis of the survey results
(A) the survey of college freshmen's love view
Twenty freshmen were investigated, including 8 boys and 2 girls/kloc-0. Only four of them have been in love, and only four are in love, so there are not a few people in love. According to the survey, 70% freshmen support college students to fall in love, and only 1 opposes it. Most students said they didn't think about the motivation of falling in love. 60% students didn't care about falling in love, 30% students would find another one, and only 10% students would be heartbroken. The main reason why freshmen fall in love is that 60% people feel lonely and want to find someone. These people have just entered a relaxed university life from the stressful life in high school, and they have no enthusiasm for the college entrance examination. At this time, they thought of the moisture of love rain and dew. In this survey, on the question of which is more important to freshmen, study or love, most people say that study is more important, which shows that freshmen's thoughts are relatively pure. In terms of the success rate of love, 80% of students choose "very small".
(2) Investigation on the love view of sophomores
Sophomore students 19 were investigated, including 8 boys and 8 girls 1 1 person. The following are the characteristics of love views of several sophomores.
1, among the boys and girls who have been in love, two-thirds of the boys think they have an ideal lover, while the girls only have110, which shows that the attitude of boys towards lovers is more practical, and girls are more inclined to idealize.
2. On the question of whether long-distance love and love can last forever, whether boys or girls are optimistic or not, this figure is 50%, which shows that in the sophomore group, some people are more practical about their feelings, while others are more confused about the future, which shows that people at this stage are not mature enough.
As for the share of love time, 60% of girls think that 35% of college life time is enough, and boys generally think that 35%-65% is appropriate. It can be seen that boys' desire for love is stronger than girls', and it also shows that boys' sense of security seems to be smaller than girls' in the case of a large proportion of girls in our school.
(C) Survey of junior high school students' love view
Twenty junior students were investigated, including seven boys and three girls/kloc-0. Most of the students surveyed are already in love, but nearly 60% of them are boys. This may be related to the serious imbalance between men and women in normal schools. Half of the people surveyed said that their lover was not the ideal type. There are 60% people, especially girls, who are very romantic and think they can go with their lovers for life. In other words, girls are optimistic about love.
The survey also shows that junior students are more realistic, with 2 1 7 people saying that they have no online dating experience. For long-distance love, boys are more rational than girls, don't like long-distance love, and think that college students' love will be caused by work. Family and other reasons will not develop into marriage.
Third, college students' love view and existing problems
(A) psychological characteristics of college students in love
1, curious about sex. It is formed by sexual impulses and sexual intimacy requirements caused by physical maturity.
2. The possessive mentality of wanting to succeed. It is directly related to the special crowd atmosphere where talents, manners and beautiful women gather in colleges and universities. Some male college students stubbornly believe that girls who have no boyfriends after graduation are all left behind by others.
3. Dependence psychology. It is caused by the loneliness of the only child and the habit of others' care and care. Love motivation, which belongs to "emotional sustenance", lacks independent consciousness and self-reliance ability and is easily frustrated.
(B) the problems of contemporary college students' love view
Due to the immaturity of sexual psychology, college students also have inappropriate views on love in love. Showing ideological fluctuation, exclusiveness, impulsiveness and fantasy; At the same time, college students are also influenced by the external environment.
Fourth, establish a reasonable concept of love.
In view of the psychological characteristics and existing problems of college students' love, this paper puts forward the following countermeasures and suggestions to correctly guide college students to establish a correct and reasonable view of love. First of all, schools and society have an unshirkable responsibility to create a good social atmosphere and a healthy and upward environment for college students, and at the same time actively guide college students to establish a correct and reasonable concept of love, so I won't go into details here. The following is mainly about what to do as a college student.
(1) Fully aware that love is bound by laws and regulations.
As contemporary college students, they should have certain legal consciousness and legal concept. From the legal point of view, the revised marriage law has added provisions prohibiting bigamy, and added provisions that husband and wife should be faithful and help each other in the general provisions. In terms of legal responsibility, bigamy should be investigated for criminal responsibility. If one party divorces because of bigamy, the innocent party has the right to claim damages. It is not difficult to see that the national law has increased the punishment for bigamy, with the aim of regulating marriage relations. College students should have a clear understanding of some excessive behaviors in love, and should realize that regulating and restraining their behaviors is not only the requirement of socialist morality, but also the requirement of socialist law.
(B) have a lofty position on love
A person's life is short and colorful, accompanied by affection, friendship and love. But the most important, stable and single-minded emotion is love. No matter where you go, no matter how old you are, only when you are old will your husband and wife be most concerned, and only love will give you unlimited power to accomplish any impossible task. There is no need to blame young college students for their thinking about love, but we must understand love correctly. Love is the most sincere admiration between men and women based on a certain objective material basis and the ideal of living together, and they are eager for each other to become their life partners. The essence of love is to take responsibility and be brave in dedication. True love is based on mutual love, which can make people gain strength and happiness, enrich their lives, promote success and build a harmonious family. The love between Marx and Yan Ni shows their true love. Love is not the whole content of life. As far as short life is concerned, great career and lofty ideal are more meaningful, while love is subordinate. Only when contemporary college students integrate love into their ideals can their careers give real meaning to life and love. It is impossible for young people with impure love motives such as "taking people by money", "judging people by appearances" and "making up for their shortcomings with love" to get true love. It not only defiles love itself, but also violates the basic requirements of morality.
(C) to strengthen the sense of moral responsibility in the process of love
Love is closely related to morality. First of all, there are many lovers together not for future marriage, but for spiritual emptiness. They regard love as a game, and love triangle and multi-angle love arise spontaneously. With the communication between two people, sexual problems began to develop, premarital sexual behavior gradually increased, and the problem of having children before marriage was common, and it was increasing every year. Hotels and daily rental houses outside the university campus emerge in an endless stream. How can such a situation have nothing to do with morality? Secondly, college students can't resist the temptation of money and powerful people. In order to get the life you want to pursue, "making a lot of money" has become the most popular word nowadays. In some entertainment places, college students can be seen everywhere. Believing in monetarism and hedonism has become the latest concept of college students.
Love and college students' moral influence are dual, and positive and noble love has a significant catalytic effect on the formation and development of moral concepts. At the same time, vulgar love makes college students miss or pursue vulgar tastes, and even behave out of line. Therefore, establishing a correct moral love view is the source of college students' career and love.
In short, while being influenced by external factors and surrounding environment, contemporary college students must cultivate their own moral and legal norms and establish a correct view of love, which will help college students to gradually mature and improve their outlook on life and values; It is helpful for college students to deal with the relationship between their studies and love; It is helpful to cultivate college students' healthy psychological environment and reduce unnecessary losses; It is helpful for college students to seek their true love and bloom a happy flower of love.
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