The so-called family, who is repairing his body. Dig out what one loves, hates, fears, regrets and is lazy. Therefore, it is difficult to know that good is evil, and knowing evil is beautiful!

Therefore, there is a saying: "People don't know the evil of children, and people don't know the size of seedlings."

This means that if you don't repair your body, you can't be at home.

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1, Zhi: Same as, right. Bi: biased.

2, sadness: sympathy, pity. "The Book of Songs Xiaoya Hongyan": "Love people, mourn this widow."

3. Oh: Be arrogant and slow down. Laziness: neglect and disrespect.

4, Shuo: This is called big head, extended to big, here means lush.

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The meaning of "Jia is cultivating himself" in the scripture means that ordinary people are often too close to those who are close and concerned about themselves; People who are despised and disgusted by themselves often have the prejudice of excessive contempt and disgust; People who fear and respect themselves often have a prejudice of excessive respect and respect; For those who are sad for sympathy, there is often a tendency to love sympathy too much; People who despise and ignore themselves tend to despise and ignore them too much. Therefore, it is really rare in the world to love a person and understand his disadvantages, and to hate a person and understand his benefits.

Therefore, there is a proverb that says, "No one knows the shortcomings of children and the prosperity of seedlings."

This is called that you can't improve your family without improving your moral cultivation.

Xueersi

Here, the key to self-cultivation is to overcome emotional extremes: to be upright, and then to be upright.

The ladder of further learning of Confucianism begins from the inside out, which is a link in the middle transition. Before that, lattice objects. Knowledge, sincerity and integrity are all carried out by individuals themselves. After that, the family, the country and the world began to deal with the relationship between people, from family to society and from being immune to the world. Of course, its procedure is gradually extrapolated from the inside: first, there are families and families closely related to themselves, and then the country in turn. world

It is precisely because of the family (family, clan) that is closely related to oneself first that it is the first to overcome the problem of emotional selfishness.

People in China often say, "The family has made progress." Americans say, "Home is the kingdom of father, the world of mother and the paradise of children." The Germans said, "There is no difference between a king and a civilian. As long as the family is safe, they are the happiest people. "

The French put it better: "for Adam, heaven is his home;" However, for Adam's descendants, home is their paradise. " (Voltaire)

Home is an eternal topic. Only through learning and tempering can each of us improve our moral cultivation and form a truly fair and just social environment, and we will benefit from it.

In essence, people tend to protect their weaknesses, few people know his shortcomings to children, and they think their children are good in any way; People also envy others, always feel how well others live, and their own "crops" always grow better than their own; It shows that people will not manage their families well after they have selfishness.

Strengthening self-cultivation lies in ourselves, in our yearning for good virtues, and in our conscious tempering of our words and deeds.

To sum up, self-cultivation is to improve one's self-cultivation, which is actually a process of pursuing internal and external unity, that is, to improve one's self-cultivation in morality, talent and other aspects through continuous efforts and study, so as to coordinate and unify with the external environment and realize the unity of individual, part and whole; Tidying up the family is to build a good family environment. In fact, it is starting from the overall interests of our society, starting from me and starting from the local, and creating a harmonious and stable social environment.