20 12 winter, I don't remember whether it was 165438+ October or 65438+ February. I only remember that Beijing just started to melt after heavy snow, and the weather was very cold. I'm too cold at home to go out. A strange phone number suddenly reached my mobile phone and told me that he wanted to live in short rent (he had just been working in short rent for five months). His tone of voice is a little strange, but he doesn't want to be received. But the rent of the house is greater than his own preference, so he made an appointment to meet him at the house on Tsinghua East Road at three o'clock in the afternoon. At three o'clock, I saw Xiao P downstairs: thin figure, thin face slightly pale, about 170 in height, wearing a thin brown matte coat, wearing a Versace headband around her waist and Gucci bean shoes on her feet. His body contracted in the cold, which made him thinner ... I wore a thick down jacket and watched him wear a thin one. The house was still satisfactory, so I chose the second bedroom of the second room, paid a deposit and said that I would come and live in the afternoon. When asked about him, I only remember that he said to start a business in Zhongguancun. This is the first time we have met.
When Xiao P first checked in, he planned to stay for a few days before leaving. I don't know why, his date has been pushed back and forth, and finally he simply pays the rent on a monthly basis and plans to stay for a long time for several months, because his entrepreneurial project has also started. At that time, we were just renting a house, and we saw his girlfriend come to live once or twice. Once, I talked to him about starting a business when I was free. As a grassroots entrepreneur, I have a natural topic with him, and we have a good chat. So he told me some of his entrepreneurial projects without reservation. He said that he was working on an online supermarket for college students (O2O was not on fire at that time) and described many scenes, which felt very good. At that time, I actually said to him for the first time: "I know where the goods you want to buy online are, and I can help you ask." So I found the boss of the wholesale department where I bought things at that time. He gave Xiao P his phone number to contact them, and I never got involved again. This is the first time I have offered to help, and I think entrepreneurs should help each other, not to mention these small things. I didn't think much at that time. What makes me mean is that I am very proud and happy about my practice and I am very happy to help others.
After helping him find the goods he bought for the first time, he spent money pushing food, drinks and other goods in the living room. One day, I couldn't stand it anymore, so I offered to help sort out the goods. After Xiao P knew it, he thanked me very much and insisted on giving me several bags of change as a thank you. I didn't accept his kindness. Later, he asked me how to find a part-time job for college students, how much part-time salary for college students and so on. I told him everything I knew and introduced some part-time college students I knew to him. After the leaflets were distributed, I saw his busyness. He delivered the goods personally and opened up the market personally, which made me feel the same way, because that's how I started my business. With the help of time and time again, Xiao P and I gradually got to know each other. He told me about his hometown in Jiangxi-Ganjiang; He talked about how he sold Gannan navel oranges in three northeastern provinces and how he sold navel oranges all over the ship. He told me about raising money to build a factory in his hometown and showed me photos of his factory. Talk about how he walked step by step to the point where he is now down and out; Even he told me about his private life and all kinds of emotional entanglements with his ex-wife ... When it comes to sadness, he can't help crying, but I deeply sympathize and understand. Speaking of excitement, I am also very excited. I yearn for his Jianghu life. In the process of listening to him talk about himself, I also broadened my horizons and learned a lot, so I believed what he said. From then on, I began to treat Xiao P as a friend, and friends on the road to starting a business together supported each other and made progress together. At this time, Xiao P was very real, but he showed me the real good side and covered up his real dark side. At that time, I was deeply attracted by his experience and had no doubts or doubts about him. As long as he has any requirements, as long as I can help him, I will try my best to help him. At that time, I told myself, "Helping him is helping myself."
Xiao P's college students' online project is going on tepidly. When he sent his project plan to the marketing director of a famous software company through contacts, Xiao P got his support. I don't know exactly how to do it. The marketing director disapproved of his continuing to run the online supermarket project, but strongly advised him to continue his own Gannan navel orange project and give him the greatest help. In order to invite the director to dinner, he borrowed 3000 yuan from me for the first time and returned it to me quickly. What really turned the corner was a purchase and sale agreement that he signed with a group buying website and required a deposit of 20,000 yuan. He still asked me for money. I was a little hesitant at that time, because this 20 thousand yuan was also my own turnover expenses. I lent him the money out of trust, and I didn't ask him for any debts. It is trust. With the help of this 20 thousand yuan, the "shake" lucky draw planned by him in cooperation with famous software companies was successfully launched, bringing amazing pre-orders; Group buying also went online, and his Gannan navel orange sold nearly one million pre-sales in just 1 month. With this money, he tried to go to Beijing TV station to expose the false dyeing problem of Gannan navel orange, which further made his Gannan navel orange project an instant hit. At that time, he often said, "Thanks to your 20 thousand yuan, I had a chance." "Thank you for helping me in my most difficult time." Every time he said this, his eyes would turn red, and he was very grateful. My reaction was "don't mention it, don't mention it, good brothers don't say so." At that time, I began to regard him as a brother.
20 12 12 in February, Xiao P saw my wallet and insisted on giving him Palada wallet. At his urging, I accepted. After that, he gave me one Gucci belt after another and a Burberry shirt ... Faced with these small gifts, I lost my resistance and I began to trust him absolutely. I was the first person to help him solve any problems. At first, he said, "He is willing to give me a 0/0% stake in/kloc", and I said, "I don't want to help you, I just want to help you". However, with the passage of time, my initial psychology of simply trying to help him has gradually turned into an expectation and an abominable selfishness. Because in 20 13 years, I always wanted to expand the scale of my business in short rent, but it has been difficult to expand the scale due to the problem of funds. Knowing the difficulties of starting a business, he promised to lend me 300,000 yuan to help me expand the scale and let me have a place to live in the future. I am heavily in debt because my ex-girlfriend broke up and started her own business. At that time, I was very eager to have the opportunity to turn over and earn money with my short rent project and prove to others that I could succeed. With the expectation of future success and his empty promise, I lost myself. That deadly desire made me have unlimited support and trust in Xiao P, so it is natural to be cheated. I deserve to be cheated. Who says he is greedy?
With the success and busyness of Xiao P, he left the rental house and moved to Wangjing Youlehui in Chaoyang District, where he no longer met frequently. He registered the company, rented a big office in Wangjing SOHO, hired employees, opened a fruit branch in Chaoyang Joy City, and the APP was launched. His career looks great. Although I am far away, he will often invite me to dinner and talk to him about the recent situation. In his office, he told me that someone wanted to vote for him, and someone gave him more than 300,000 start-up funds ... During this period, he called 300,000 to my account and asked me to use it, but it was transferred to him intact on the grounds that the funds were urgently needed within two days. I suddenly feel that we are not as close as before, and he is becoming less and less familiar with himself. In this way, in the second half of 20 13, Xiao P suddenly began to borrow money from himself. I'll book him a plane ticket and a train ticket later ... I remember the craziest time, I went to an upscale club 1 1 at night and paid him 20 thousand yuan. Even so, he consciously returned the used money to me in time. At that time, I was like a lamb without any resistance, letting him boss me around, because I still had that selfish desire for success in my heart. It is said that he should have made money at 20 13, but I don't know where his money went. I seem to be used to borrowing money from him, without any doubt.
After 20 14, Xiao P started a new round of borrowing money, and I gave it to him as always. One difference is that he seems to be paying back money more and more slowly. I lent him 65438+ million back and forth, which is also my own working capital. The gap is getting bigger and bigger, so I have to ask him for money. When I asked for money, he told me to wait and urged me, but I couldn't see the money returned. At that time, the content of the call was to borrow money for money, nothing else. In March of 20 14, he suddenly called me and told me that he was moving back to my place. He can't rent his old place, so I guess he's in trouble again. When I was moved, I comforted him and said, "It's okay, the difficulties will pass, and my money will not be returned in a hurry." I still trusted him at that time. I can borrow money from my own project, so I can tide over the difficulties. It was not until the opening scene appeared that I realized that he had run away. I left unguarded and never saw him again.
I don't know when Xiao P ran away. When I went home to pack his things, I only found what he couldn't take away. There are also some famous brands of bicycles, bags and watches. I spent the whole morning packing and sealing his clothes. I also called him personally and texted him that I would deal with his luxury goods in order to recover the loss. As a result, when I appraised his luxury goods, I was told that they were all fake, and I realized that everything he had sent before was fake. When he called me again, I told him that I had evaluated all his luxuries. As a result, at first he said that they were all true, and later he changed his mind and said that there was a Gucci bag that was true. At that moment, I knew his true colors. In fact, he lied to me from the beginning. It is hateful and ridiculous that I didn't notice it at all. Similarly, there are more than a dozen employees who have been pitted. They have learned from his employees that he went to Macau to gamble and other scandals. Maybe gambling is the last straw to crush him. He gambled before. He said he resigned, but he finally slapped himself in the face. What's more, I actually believed him! ! The rivers and mountains may change, but not one's essential nature Maybe he is talking about people like him, and I am talking about people like me.
Xiao P, who has been missing for more than a year, contacted me on WeChat in June, 20 16, telling me that he started his business project again, but he didn't mention the money. He contacted me to ask if his things were still there, and I told him that his clothes were still there. So he told me his mother's address and asked me to send him all the rest after I finished processing it. After sending things, I silently blacked him out and deleted all his information. I don't know this man anymore!
Xiao P's experience made him deeply reflect. From greedy for small profits to eager for success, I was brought into the pit by my own greed, and I fell very painful and painful, and the pain is still dull. But greater comfort comes from the understanding and support of family and friends. When I told my parents and classmates and friends about my experience of being cheated, they didn't blame me or let me down, but gave me the greatest support in the most difficult time. I am very grateful to them. Such a storm has made me know more about human nature and who my true friends are. For two years, I thank Xiao P for giving me a lesson. I also hope that this lesson can make more people who are eager for success take the road of the future cautiously. * * * Encourage!