If so, congratulations! I also hope that when you make a plan, you will put it into action. Don't make plans every time high school starts, it will be over in a few days.
If not, please think carefully about how to spend the rest of your college time. Do you want to continue to muddle through these precious four years, and then find a job when you graduate? Or from now on, start to cultivate your core competitiveness again and lay a good foundation for finding a job in the future, so don't panic?
Next, I will tell you with my own history of blood and tears, why do you want to study hard in college?
Students, is this sentence familiar? In our high school, there is always a teacher who will tell us the above sentence with a convincing attitude.
I am no exception. I still remember that every time my head teacher complained about too much homework during the holiday, he sincerely gave an example of a niece, telling us how easy it was to go to college, skip classes, fall in love, travel and enjoy a depressed life.
Naive, we were brainwashed by the class teacher and willingly accepted his destruction. By the way, my brain was successfully implanted by this sentence. I really believe in the image drawn by the head teacher, without ambition or enterprise.
When I came to the university, I just wanted to say, boy, too young and too simple!
The university is so special, it is not easy at all!
Freshman, full of courses, and evening self-study, shuttling all day in various campuses, classrooms, a person tired of walking. It is rare to attend various school meetings and volunteer activities on weekends. How much time do you really have for yourself?
In the sophomore year, compared with the freshman year, there are fewer courses and fewer required courses. However, do you think you can realize your dream if you want to skip class, you can realize your dream if you want to fall in love, and you can go wherever you want? Clever students invented the method of roll call. Few teachers will call the roll in every class, but people in the student union will definitely call the roll faithfully.
During this period, there will be various clubs, student union activities and competitions in the school.
So, in fact, the real college life is not easy at all.
Since childhood, our learning method has always been passive learning. We are used to the teacher explaining every knowledge point in detail and instilling it in our minds.
Apart from learning hegemony, students with average qualifications simply don't know what active learning is. The most important thing is that this kind of education makes us not know the importance of active learning to exercise our thinking, build a knowledge system and form values.
So when it comes to the relaxed learning atmosphere in universities, except for a few people, most people learn in the same way as high school, passively accepting the contents of teachers' classes. I usually study hard in the last month before the exam, and I will do surprise training.
Therefore, some people joked that although the scum only got 60 points in the exam, he completed all the courses in only one month. Top student, on the other hand, took a semester to complete. Scum has higher learning efficiency than bully.
But what the dregs don't know is that top student has achieved better professional results than the dregs through gradual study at ordinary times, successfully built their own knowledge system, and most importantly, developed the most important self-discipline ability by controlling their active learning.
The sign of an adult's maturity is not the age of 18, but the person's self-discipline ability, that is, whether he can restrain himself from doing anything at any time.
I am surprised that in the eyes of our parents and society, on the one hand, intellectuals are highly respected and admired. For example, a village will celebrate the only person who has been admitted to a university with gongs and drums; On the one hand, they despise scholars extremely, and always say that it is useless to go to college, and xxx who doesn't go to college is still good.
I don't want to discuss whether the values of our society are wrong, but since we are already under such values, we should think about what to do.
For the concept of mixed diploma, in fact, subconsciously it means belittling diploma. If students from ordinary colleges and universities want to go to the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen with their diplomas after graduation, the huge competitive pressure will make them even ineligible for the first interview. If you are a student in a key university, the severe employment situation makes it impossible for everyone to find an ideal job.
If you still think that the diploma is not important, then I will tell you my experience after I dropped out of school 1 year.
I dropped out of school last year because my family suffered great economic losses. As an only child, I want to do something for my family, so I decided to drop out of school first. I want to drop out of school directly, because I think it's useless to study anyway.
Then, I began to go out and look for a job. I thought it was easy for people who went to college to find jobs. But the experience of failed interviews again and again tells me that without a college degree, there is no college degree. Who cares if you drop out of school or not? Even if you don't have a diploma, it means that you don't even have a stepping stone to many companies. What's more, the average social education has improved, and many jobs even need higher education.
So, what can I do?
After a year, I have done a lot of work that I can do without education, all of which are low-paid and boring without technical content.
Later, I wrote to ask Uncle Nana Ogawa if I made a mistake in this decision. He told me that without education, I can only engage in service industry or manufacturing industry. Although I entered the society earlier than my classmates, due to the limitation of platform and opportunity, it may take me 65,438+00 years to achieve what others can achieve in four years.
In this way, I suddenly realized that I made this choice only because I wanted to escape from the university that needed me to study hard.
Don't think that four years of college is a depressing time owed to you by family, school and society, which can be used for profligacy and willfulness. The quality of the world is conserved. You live comfortably now, and you will have to pay twice the price in the future to regret why you did it.
It doesn't matter if you don't work hard now. When life slaps you hard, you should remember that you deserve it.
No one is an exception, and neither are you.