The so-called love tragedy not only refers to those couples who love each other in reality but can't get what they want, but also includes those couples who don't love each other in reality but have to be together for various reasons. It is a great tragedy to fall in love but not be together, but isn't it a great tragedy to imprison each other for life without falling in love? There are many kinds of love tragedies written in "Ordinary World", just like the triangle relationship between Gu, Hao Hongmei and He, which imprisons each other's fields and leaves.
Hao Hongmei is a tragedy in her heart, and Gu is a tragedy in her heart. This complex triangular relationship indicates the final outcome of these two feelings in the novel. At first, Sun Shaoping had an ambiguous feeling about this beautiful Hao Hongmei with similar family environment, but when people publicly criticized her as Sun Shaoping's "aunt", she felt "anxious, angry and angry". Hao Hongmei was born in a landlord family and had no good ingredients, so the whole family pinned their hopes on her. She had a plan in mind, knowing that she must find a good family to change the fate of the family. So when Sun Shaoping first approached her, she just felt in the same boat. From beginning to end, she has never had a crush on this man who is as poor as him. As the novel says, "Her closeness to Sun Shaoping is basically a kind of pity-pity for others and letting others pity themselves." After the attack, she was afraid that she could not find a "man with good conditions", so she took the initiative to alienate. Just then, a man she longed for appeared, and he was Gu. However, Gu's family is very famous and has a certain social status, while Hao Hongmei's family is a landlord family. Moreover, after graduating from high school, Hao Hongmei went back to her hometown to become a farmer, went to college and became a graduate student. This naked gap has created another big gap between them. Does the family of classical Yang Min accept Hao Hongmei? The answer is yes, definitely not. Therefore, the relationship between the three of them ended hastily because of family factors and differences between urban and rural areas.
The marriage between Li Xiangqian and Tian Runye can be said to be a political marriage. Their outlook on life and values are different. As the saying goes, "a twisted melon is not sweet", and their combination is also a great tragedy in life. Tian Runye is a "country girl", although she has taken part in the work in the county. Once she has a warm love for a man for the first time, she will sink in, but once this warm hope fails, it will be difficult to get rid of the pain. " She has a stubborn love for Sun Shaoping, and no one can change it. Once the object is not what she wants, everything will be subverted by her. However, Li Xiangqian ignored the importance of two of a kind, thinking that as long as she loves moistening leaves, it is enough. This foolish love will inevitably lead to their misfortune. When two spoony people are together, as long as one of them is not infatuated with the other, this relationship is doomed to be a failed love tragedy.
All kinds of love tragedies in Ordinary World not only reflect the feudal remnants of the society at that time, but also show the pain and helplessness of lovers struggling because of the oppression of reality.