"Not all the past is beautiful, and there are many scars that we want to erase but can't erase."
I always thought that time could erase everything, but I forgot some injuries. Once cast, it is eternal.
The power of language can make or break a person.
And rumors are tantamount to describing the simulated state on false things, which brings endless harm to the parties.
Half-truths and half-truths are more harmful than any verbal violence.
Because this falsehood makes people see the ugliness of human nature.
On the other hand, Guo Caijie is a woman trapped by rumors for 10 years.
Recently, when Guo Caijie was interviewed by a magazine, he talked about the harm caused by past rumors:
"My most uncomfortable thing is that I didn't protect myself at that time.
Once you get this stigma, you will feel that you will stink for life. It's been 10 years, and when I came out, I suddenly dragged me back to that time. The land where I grew up brought me the same environment as a black hole and an abyss. "
What kind of stigma has wronged Guo Caijie for ten years?
In my impression, Guo Caijie was the girl next door when she was young, and Guo Caijie in her thirties was the queen.
Of course, this impression has something to do with her career direction.
Xiao Guo in adolescence is a good girl. She is the second child in the family and grew up under strict education.
That palm-sized face, born since childhood, is exquisite and sweet, and it sounds lovely.
Before her debut, Guo Caijie was a model.
/kloc-When he was 0/9 years old, Guo Caijie took part in a singing contest, won an award and was lucky enough to be liked by a record company.
After entering the entertainment circle, Guo Caijie has been deeply involved in music, and most of her songs are sweet and lyrical.
When he was a singer, Guo Caijie didn't cause a great sensation until he participated in film and television dramas, and his fame grew day by day.
At that time, Guo Caijie had long hair and pretended to be a sister next door. In front of the camera, she used a pair of innocent first love faces to make fans want to stop.
It was not until Jing M.Guo's Tiny Times series that Guo Caijie cut her long hair and played the role of "Gu Li" that she became the queen.
Guli in the play is brave, dare to love and live a sober life.
"Without material love, it is fragmented ..." This sentence has also become a famous saying of Guo Caijie.
Therefore, since her debut, Guo Caijie has always enjoyed a good reputation in her works, but she has been growing and making progress.
In terms of feelings, Guo Caijie is also a completely honest person. The only love he admitted was with Yang Shining.
They talked for four years and broke up because of different plans for the future.
Besides, there are few other scandals in Guo Caijie, and there is no black material to dig up.
But even such a woman who lives seriously can't stand the attack of rumors.
20 1 1 This year is the fourth year of Guo Caijie's debut, and he is wandering on a new stage.
In this year, a netizen claimed to be an intern in a provincial hospital and got to know Show Lo for cauliflower surgery in their hospital.
The so-called cauliflower surgery is a xing disease.
Incredibly, this netizen clearly pointed out that Show Lo's disease was infected by Guo Caijie;
He also said that this disease of Guo's classmates has existed in college and still grows in his mouth.
A series of inexplicable speeches, although out of thin air, have also earned enough topics.
In front of other people's privacy, spectators always play abuse indiscriminately, regardless of the harm of language.
At that time, Guo Caijie was just a newcomer. Faced with these irritating rumors, he didn't defend his rights, let alone protect himself.
In the end, Guo Caijie silently endured these criticisms and bore the blame.
I think, after a long time, everyone will forget;
However, Guo Caijie underestimated the power of rumors.
Since then, as long as there is any movement in Guo Caijie, there are always a few little people talking about cauliflower surgery in the comment area.
Last year, Show Lo and Grace Chow broke up, and Ben had nothing to do with Guo Caijie.
At a loss, Guo Caijie finally chose to defend his rights and sued those ugly comments.
When Show Lo broke up, Guo Caijie stayed up all night explaining the rumor ten years ago:
"I myself, from my debut to the present, have no personal relationship except promoting my itinerary on the show, and I don't know at all."
"Out of nothing, slander, slander, a joke for ten years, let me know at any time!"
However, the rumors spread out are like dirty water spilled, where is it so easy to recover?
This false stigma, Guo Caijie back for ten years, was scolded for ten years, wronged for ten years.
Every time there is a topic about Guo Caijie, there are always several people who will mention this rumor and put her in a dilemma.
Although the parties have been explaining and clarifying these years and taking corresponding measures when necessary, they still can't erase this stain.
Perhaps, the recent explanation still cannot erase this stigma.
As Guo Caijie himself said:
"Once this nickname is touched, it feels stinky for a lifetime."
A girl with a low-key life has to endure a lifetime of stigma because of a rumor fabricated by a netizen. The power of language is evident.
Writer Yu once said:
"Half-truths are much worse than outright rumors. The most poisonous formula in rumors is that there is only one small lie in most truths, and this small place is related to character. "
The internet could have lived in harmony, but there are always some people hiding behind the keyboard and satisfying their own selfish desires with words that hurt others.
Those chilling sentences, each sentence has a temperature, and each paragraph is an indelible scar of the parties.
As a netizen, kindness is the most basic education.
The pressure of public opinion can destroy a person and even ruin the parties.
In the circle, Guo Caijie is not the best, but through hard work, his strength is not lost to anyone.
Aside from her status as a public figure, she is also a weak woman who needs protection, likes appreciation and is trying to live.
Such a woman should not be trapped in pain because of stigma.
Everyone deserves to be respected;
Everyone who respects others is the most cultured.
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