Everyone has a different understanding of the definition of filial piety, but someone can let you know instantly that he must be very filial. He is Liu. 12 years ago, Liu went to college behind his mother's back. This news caused a heated discussion.
At the age of 4, Liu began to live alone with his mother. /kloc-at the age of 0/0, his mother suffered from mental illness, leaving Liu alone to bear the burden of the family.
Despite the difficult conditions, Liu did not give up his studies. He got good grades and was successfully admitted to a high school in another county.
The school is too far from home, so Liu can't ignore her mother. Liu doesn't have much money on him, so he can only rent a pigsty from a local farmer as a temporary residence for his mother and son.
In 2008, Liu failed the first college entrance examination. He wants to repeat, but no school wants it. He finally found a private school. Liu knelt down to the headmaster five times and got a chance to repeat.
In the second college entrance examination, Liu was admitted to Linyi University in Shandong Province. He decided to take his mother to Shandong.
Liu explained "A sheep kneels on its chest" and "Western Western jackdaw feeds back" with practical actions, and his filial piety touched many people.
After the news of "going to college behind my mother's back" sparked a heated discussion, people from all walks of life wanted to donate money to Liu, but he refused, except for the dormitory arrangement in the school.
Liu is also outstanding in the university and has served as a student union cadre. After graduating from college, many companies stole olive branches from him, but he chose to go home and go back to the place where he was born with his mother.
After returning home, he became a middle school teacher. He tried his best to help students in similar situations, and he did succeed, helping many students get out of the mountains and enter universities.
Because of Liu's good ethics, he was also selected as "a good teacher in China", won the "May 4th Medal of Chinese Youth" and was named as a moral model.
Liu's strength is far behind, and his family environment has a great influence on him.
Therefore, the influence of family on children is far-reaching, and it will even change their future development. So, what will a good environment bring to children?
The first is mentality.
Family education is not only material, but also family atmosphere is very important. If parents have good feelings, children will be more optimistic, more confident when they encounter things, more confident in their own abilities and more motivated to learn.
Second, the probability of success will be greater.
After all, Liu is in the minority. Without a good family environment, most children can hardly succeed. A good family environment can shape a good outlook on life, and children will live a positive life.
Under the supervision of parents, children who grow up in a good family will have a greater chance of success.
Family environment is important, but how can families educate their children?
First, you can not deliberately cultivate children's sense of responsibility for life. Everyone has responsibilities and obligations, even if he is still young, he should bear his own responsibilities.
In ordinary trivial matters, parents can cultivate their children, let them bear their own responsibilities and understand their responsibilities. In this way, when they encounter something in the future, they will not escape, but can bear their own responsibilities.
Second, the most important thing in education is to let children receive as much education as possible. The higher the educational level, the better the children's cultural literacy will be. People will be divided into groups, children's cultural literacy will be good, and his friends' cultural literacy will not be bad.
Third, the cultivation of emotional ability. When children can think from each other's perspective, the more they know, the more they can understand the joys and sorrows. * * * Emotional ability will also make children care about others and form good moral quality.
Children's education needs the efforts of families and the edification of schools. There are many factors behind a child's success, which need help from many sides.