From high school to college, the first thing to change is a reasonable understanding of academic performance. In particular, freshmen and sophomores actually have many courses, probably more than high school. However, we don't want to be excellent in every subject and pursue a super high score. This is the way to look at universities by looking at high school grades. In addition to laying a solid foundation for your major, other minor courses can be put down selectively so as not to fail and pass smoothly. This will save a lot of time.
In the first stage, many freshmen have "club urgency" and "student urgency". It seems that they will not be able to make friends without joining an organization. Actually, it is not like this! For many college students, no organization can persist until the sophomore year. There is no denying that you can see something different in these clubs or student unions, but you should also combine your own personality and schedule. If you use your time more reasonably and effectively, you won't have to bear any burden for it. My view until now is that organizations that students can contact, such as student unions and clubs, are actually only suitable for some people. For example, when I was in college, I just wanted to be a quiet student and was not interested in the student union, so I joined the International Liaison Department as a freshman and quit decisively as a sophomore.
Reasonable participation in social practice and appropriate contact can be done. It is best not to make money from part-time jobs as the main business of your university. Entering university is an opportunity for most people. Under such an opportunity, we should try our best to consume the educational resources of the university itself and accumulate knowledge so that most people can win in the future competition. Making money is what ordinary people should do after leaving campus. They will face the arduous task of how to make money and earn a lot of money for a long time to come. There is no need to spend time doing things that don't belong to this stage in the best college time.
Let's talk about a serious relationship, whether it's your classmates or alumni. Seriously falling in love can definitely bring different colors to your university. Young and ignorant people should have love, friendship, love between teachers and students (although it is increasingly difficult for universities to have love between teachers and students) and all kinds of feelings. Moreover, there are still many feelings around me during college that eventually turn into positive results and move towards happiness. With the purest heart, in the best time, I walked into the most beautiful emotions and finally made a positive result. The process may be ups and downs, but the most beautiful TV series at the moment is this arrangement. The fact is that all this can be achieved in a real university.
Go to the library more often, even if you are a person who doesn't like reading very much, you can try to keep your reading ability. After all, being able to read is a good way for self-adjustment and self-improvement in the future.
Call your parents more and go out to study more. No matter what you are doing, you are not visible to the naked eye like you were in high school. Parents are worried about whether you can adapt to the new environment well, but they are also trying to adapt to the reality that their children grow up and become independent. Understand their hardships.
Make a few close friends, even one. It is true that high school students have the deepest feelings, but college is still an environment where you can make friends. Less utility, more help and warmth. You will be more popular in this way.
Too much, too much. . . . . .
In any case, don't and shouldn't be exhausted in college. Although the youth and ignorance of the age will have the troubles brought by angels, people will be "thin", but looking back on college life, the rest is really.