The reporter found that although the "marriage prohibition order" for college students has been lifted, not many college students get married, and "trial marriage" and "marriage after graduation" are also common.

According to the survey, some stable college couples are considering getting married after graduation, and some close couples even choose to live together for trial marriage instead of real marriage.

Most people who don't want to get married are male students. Weak economic foundation, afraid of taking responsibility too early, just want to escape from reality and enjoy the fun of husband and wife life. These are the reasons why I don't want to get married.

Live together openly with the blessing of parents.

Venue: South China Normal University

Interviewee: Xiao Chen (pseudonym)

Gender: Female

Age: 22 years old

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Xiao Chen is an experienced "girl", but in the summer when she entered Normal University, she felt that she really met her "the only thrill". Soon after they fell in love, they began to live together.

Economic conditions are the key.

Chen's father is a government official and owns a huge family business. Therefore, Chen's life has always been well-fed, and the living expenses for one semester can reach about 8,000 yuan, which does not include mobile phone recharge fees and tuition fees. Xiao Chen's boyfriend is an on-the-job employee with a fixed income of several thousand yuan per month. In addition, the parents of boyfriends run their own family businesses, so they can be called "golden couples". The stable economy has supported Chen Xiao and her boyfriend, and the open attitude of her boyfriend's parents has also opened a "green card" for their cohabitation. Therefore, Xiao Chen has been living in her boyfriend's house and living a sweet life since her freshman year. Even if the economic conditions are so superior, Chen Xiao and her boyfriend occasionally feel that the money is not enough. Therefore, Chen Xiao always complains to his friends: "Two people spend more than enough of their own money, but I don't know why, when the money is mixed together, they feel that it is not enough. I didn't have to think about buying clothes before, but now I want to eat vegetables. "

"prospective mother-in-law" acts as lubricant

After the sweet love period, the small friction in life makes the couple often quarrel and even break up several times. Xiao Chen is still a student. She didn't want to see her boyfriend socializing outside until late at night. But boyfriends also have their own difficulties: building their own circle of friends and expanding their careers. Xiao Chen often waits for her boyfriend to come back late into the night, and they have a big fight.

Chen Xiao and her boyfriend are both very young. They are always blushing for the trifles in life. Once, they quarreled again because of disagreement. Xiao Chen was very sad and disappointed at her boyfriend's intransigence. "I decided to leave him and start packing by myself." But when Xiao Chen was ready to leave, she was shocked by the kind words of "future mother-in-law". "My future mother-in-law is really good to me. I don't have to do anything at home. When it's time to eat, my mother-in-law will ask me to go downstairs for dinner. I enjoy it every day, and people have gained a lot of weight. My mother-in-law often asks me if I am short of money. If there is anything interesting and delicious, I always think of me first. " Perhaps it was the kindness of her future mother-in-law, or it was still difficult to give up her boyfriend. Xiao Chen finally forgave her boyfriend. "I finally decided to be with him. Everyone has his own way of life. Since you choose to be together, you must learn to adapt and accommodate. "

After graduation, the conditions are favorable to get married.

"We're getting married! Why else do you want to live together? " Chen Xiaojian believes that she and her boyfriend have finally entered the marriage hall. A friend once warned Xiao Chen that her feelings were deteriorating, and Xiao Chen seemed confident: "If two people's feelings are not deep and lasting, even if they get married, they will eventually divorce. Who can guarantee that this relationship will last forever? Don't! As long as we love each other now, I believe there will be results in the future. "

"My boyfriend and I live together is not the same as you think. Some people live together just to try a new way of life, or simply to try. But I'm with my boyfriend to get married in the future. Now that we are familiar with it, isn't it natural to get married in the future? " Chen's boyfriend also said, "We are now putting a lot of energy into how to take care of our living expenses. We all want to create better conditions for each other. This feeling is very good. We divided the money into use and investment and bought a little fund. The two people looked at the ups and downs of the fund and felt very United. "

Xiao Chen thinks that his relationship with her boyfriend is stronger than gold, and with the superior conditions of both families, everything is ready for marriage, except the east wind. You can enter the marriage hall as soon as you graduate.

Cohabitation is to prepare for marriage.

Interview location: Village in the city near Guangdong Polytechnic Normal University.

Interviewee: Xiaokang (a pseudonym)

Gender: male

Age: 23 years old

A technical normal college in Guangzhou

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Sisi, a well-off classmate, rented a house of less than 20 square meters in a village in the city near the school. 400 yuan pays his own monthly rent, water and electricity. According to Xiaokang, he and his girlfriend have lived here for more than half a year. Look at the furnishings in the room: a bed that can accommodate two people, a semi-new computer on the desk, a TV cabinet half a meter high, a 17 inch color TV, several plastic stools, and some small things like drinking fountains, pots and pans.

Xiaokang told reporters that he and Sisi are classmates and Sisi is a lively, cheerful and lovely girl. He has had a crush on Sisi since his freshman year, but he has never had a chance to express himself. Sisi seems to know the mind of a well-off society. They have always been so ambiguous. It was not until the whole class sang K together after the final exam of senior two that Xiaokang finally confided to Sisi through drinking and was accepted by Sisi. This belated love is finally clear.

When asked if he had any plans to get married after graduation, Xiaokang immediately said, "We will definitely get married. We met our parents and our family supported us, otherwise we wouldn't dare to rent a house. Now that college students can get married, it's nothing to live together, so after we met our parents, they didn't object, so we lived together with peace of mind. We are going to get married when we can find a job after graduation. Now living together can take better care of Sisi and make plans for future marriage.