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Recently, I found an article about a girl who didn't take the college entrance examination. The comments exploded and were divided into two factions.
On the one hand, people who haven't been to college have given concrete examples to prove that it is useless to go to school: they have never been to college, and they have worked hard to have a house and a car for several years, while those college students who have just graduated at the same age still have nothing.
On the other hand, college students fight back: therefore, the difference between going to college and not going to college can be seen at once, and people think that having a house and a car is the winner in life.
College brings not only diplomas, but also work experience sooner or later. People who don't go to college will never understand how wonderful their youth is.
In my opinion, people who go to college have nothing to be proud of. Not every student on campus is responsible for his youth. There are many games to eat, drink and be merry. Korean dramas satirize others, show off their high diplomas and waste their youth.
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Not going to college is not a measure of a person's Excellence, and not going to college does not mean anything.
Some people are seriously biased and are doomed to fail to get into a good university; Some people have their own choices, know what they want to do, and will not take the road that everyone wants to take; There are other economic conditions that do not allow it, so we can't afford it.
Please don't laugh at people who haven't been to college. Maybe the door you walked into easily was her elusive dream.
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I hate people who don't go to school and look down on them.
When I come home from the Chinese New Year holiday, someone always tells me: Why do girls read so many books? Sooner or later, they will get married and have children.
They always ask me if I want to take the postgraduate entrance examination. When I say I haven't thought about it, they will talk endlessly: that is, why do you take the postgraduate entrance examination? It is difficult to find a girl with a high education, and she will be old after a few years of postgraduate study.
In this world, the first person who looks down on a woman is the woman herself. They put men in a noble position, put a low profile and wait for men to get lucky. The measure of a woman's success is whether she married a good man.
A boy who has worked for many years said to me with a cigarette: it's useless to study. It is better to earn money early and get married sooner or later. "We study hard to prevent marrying someone like you", I left angrily.
We don't go to college to get to the top of our lives, but to give ourselves more choices and do what we like, instead of being forced to make a living. Even if we lose our jobs one day, we have our own bottom line and know what we can and cannot do.
Recently, the news that female college students sell their eggs with naked loans often broke out. In my opinion, individual examples cannot represent the whole group of college girls. There are many enterprising, independent and confident girls around us. They study hard, use the professional knowledge they have learned to take part-time jobs, be filial to their parents and not spend money on boys.
I believe that a well-educated girl will never be reduced to selling her body and youth.
What kind of people you are, what kind of people you will meet and what kind of people you will attract. Those boys who study well, have strong ability and are serious prefer simple and excellent girls to "sluts".
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Most scholars don't have much money, and it is difficult to reach the peak of their lives. In ancient times, it was always said that they were poor scholars.
If you want to be a rich man, reading is not a good choice. Look at the rich people in society. They are more businessmen, bosses and artists than so-called scientists, teachers and writers.
When Sa Beining, a gifted scholar of Peking University, fell in love with the International Chapter, she was stopped by her mother, on the grounds that the remuneration difference between them was too great to match.
Yes, no matter how well the talents of Peking University do in CCTV, a year's efforts can't compare with the return of a film with an international chapter, but who can say that Sa Beining has not reached the peak of his life and lived a life envied by countless people?
Zhang Ziyi is indeed richer than most people think, but some people pursue the life of Sa Beining all their lives, not the life of an international seal.
I especially like Bai, Chai Jing and others. They are not short of money, but they are not very rich, but they are doing what they like, and their actual value far exceeds the value of wages.
After reading Chai Jing's Seeing and Bai Shuo, I was deeply impressed by their sense of responsibility and higher vision and foresight. In my heart, their light is far greater than those stars who are not good at acting but have sky-high salaries.
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Then why study?
As a girl, I like reading. If I read more, my appearance will naturally change.
When she is bored, she just sits leisurely all afternoon with a book, which is quiet and beautiful, unlike those girls who swear.
Similarly, the concept of getting married and having children is different. She will be persuasive and enlighten children with truth and stories, instead of swearing and rude instructions.
Girls who study have temperament. In this network age, countless network celebrities have sprung up like mushrooms after rain, but their temperament can't be compared with Dong Qing and Liu Shishi. There are many beautiful people, but few have temperament.
Few people who really read can climb to the top, and few people will fall to the bottom, because the books they have read have already melted into a person's blood and become a part of themselves, which can make her live a life that is not too bad.
Simple teacher work can't earn much money, but it will make a person's spiritual world glow with beautiful light: standing on the favorite podium, facing lovely classmates, and imparting their knowledge to them, so many eyes are a driving force for their persistence. grow
Life is beautiful. If you are with young people, you will always be young. Their wages are not as good as those of online celebrities who earn tens of thousands of dollars a month, but they live so freely and contentedly.
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What kind of life you live is your choice, and you have no right to laugh at others.
Reading is never something to promote. If you like reading, you can read it quietly. Those who show off by reading must have read this book for nothing.
Choosing to go to college is just to give yourself more possibilities in life. If you stand higher, you will see farther. If you look farther, people will not be trapped in a small shadow.
Read more books, and people will not be underestimated. Even if we grow old together in the end, we will grow old gracefully. .......
(The pictures are all selected from the petal net. )
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