0 1 Express your needs generously.

1, straight ball, mullion-let him know.

Tell him directly: I don't want a perfunctory report, but vivid sharing, such as rainbows after rain, friends' help, roadside scenery, and my thoughts. I want specific details, so I don't have to think about what you are doing by imagination. This sharing can give me a sense of security. It also makes me feel involved. I believe that sharing desire is the highest romance. I want to talk to you all the time. I have love to talk about, okay? Many boys don't know what sharing desire is at all, so you should share science with him directly and express your love framework. Let him know that you value it and he will learn for you.

2. Starting from "I", draw closer and cultivate a sense of identity.

If you want him to listen to you, you can use the "unique effect" to make you and me become us. For example, I used to be like this. I don't like sharing my inner world, so I broke up with my ex, but you are different. I'd like to share it with you. Because I want to be with you all the time. Or: actually, I don't know much about sharing desire, and I'm a little sorry like you. Why not search related content together and grow together?

Express your needs generously.

3, first more, then less, first big and then small-highlight your goodness with contrast.

Many girls will find a problem in practice: I expressed my needs, but he didn't respond! Then he will repeat the communication mode of nagging, complaining and accusing. In order to avoid secondary injury, he will cooperate with you reluctantly, but he never takes your words to heart. What shall we do? More before less: I want him to wash the dishes, too. If you let him wash it directly, he may refuse. You can say something like this: Honey, why don't you clean the room later, then take out the garbage, wash the dishes and come back to collect the clothes? He must have asked so many questions at a bad time! Then you say: forget it, I don't want you to be too tired, just wash the dishes, and I'll do the rest ~ this-he will think you are virtuous and painful. I really made a lot of money with you. If it is applied to the desire to share, it can make an unreasonable big request. Can you send the location every 1 hour? Online said this can test whether a man loves me or not. Then you make a small request: but I believe you are a responsible person, and you are so reliable. It seems that this online method is too unreliable, and I don't need it. Tell you what, just let me know when you get to the company, and remember to share something interesting with me ~

03 Cleverly deal with each other's sharing

1, open question and answer-you ask more, he will talk more.

Any coherent and effective communication is equal, just like holding limit and teasing limit in cross talk, both of which are indispensable. In daily life, you can take the initiative to pay attention to his hobbies, such as basketball: which star do you like? How is he? For example, the game: which role do you like? Why? _ There is also a situation of turning passivity into initiative: as long as he actively shares something, a link or an idea with you, don't just send an expression pack or perfunctory. You can use more open-ended questions and answers to guide him to share more, such as "I'm not sure, you can tell me about it." "Have you ever been in this situation before?" Then you can talk in Kan Kan ~

Cleverly respond to each other's sharing.

2, positive feedback-sweet words are good for the line.

If you share with him: Is this manicure good? He said: how like a female ghost, I can't appreciate it. Will you still share it with him? Similarly, only by saying what the other person wants to hear will he be willing to share it with you and love you more. Therefore, you should create a happy sharing atmosphere. As long as he speaks, you should praise him more. "You are so funny." "God, you know this." "How many surprises do you have that I don't know?" A man is a child in front of the woman he loves. As long as you give him a little sweetness, he will be happy. In order to get your praise, his desire to share will become stronger and stronger. In addition, you should give him face and make him feel a sense of accomplishment. Men are eager to be great heroes to save the world and enjoy the worship of others. Even if he is ordinary, don't expose him if you want to point the way. You should say: he is my favorite person, and his ideas are better than those of experts ~

Clever response to each other's sharing.

3, action reinforcement-enlarge the details, let him move.

In fact, men are easier to coax than women, and they don't want much, which is why men like gentle women, even if she is a green tea. Since it is useful, take its essence and discard its dross. Take the road of green tea, so that green tea has no way out! If he says: I like xx, you can pay attention to it, then give it to him on holidays or birthdays, and then hand-write a card (let him read it out to enhance his impression): I remember you said that you like xx, and I keep everything you said in mind. I hope you can share something with me, no matter what it is, I will listen to it, because I want to know you better ~ If he complains that he is too tired at work, you can wait for him to get a massage after work. You should let him know that his sharing will be a surprise and comfort, not neglect and frustration, and then he will be better and better to you.

Learn to create freshness.

1, turn chatting into flirting-let him accept his heart and not share it with others.

If his heart is not on you, no matter what you do or say, he thinks sharing is a false proposition and dispensable. Therefore, it is necessary to cut off the possibility of him talking about S with others from the source. In order to be bored with you, he is eager to share it with you. A woman who knows interest will make men dream. American psychologist Schleberg said that love contains three elements: intimacy, passion and commitment. Only intimacy and commitment, that is, only the love of peers, can not effectively promote the warming of feelings. Learn to use primitive charm to make him infatuated, addicted and sunk. If you exercise, send him a figure photo and ask him: Do you think my legs (or waist) are thinner? You put on makeup, take a nice photo and ask him: Do you think my lipstick is evenly applied? Faced with such an invisible visual impact, he has no mind to share anything with others, just want to meet you as soon as possible.

Learn to create freshness.

2. Have the same time-* * * sharing is also a kind of sharing.

If you learn English and others talk to you about physics, can you listen? I often hear about Bishop Bo, and I am integrated into his hobby. But the circle is different, there is no need to be strong, it is too anti-human. Unless you really accept it, it will be very painful and frustrating, and he will think: Are you perfunctory? So what should we do? Respect and support his hobby, and then help. For example, he plays games and you feed him fruit; He plays basketball, so you wipe his sweat. Of course, there is no shortage of like-minded people around him, but a wife who can give him a harbor when he is tired. People outside can have fun, but you are his home. Instead of cultivating a hobby, it is better to create the same time, such as watching movies, walking and cooking together. In this process of mutual companionship, you shared precious time and cultivated tacit interaction. Even if you don't say anything, it is beautiful.

Learn to create freshness.

3, to change-clothes are not as good as new, people are not as good as old.

Human nature doesn't like long-term peace because it is boring. Mr. Lu Xun said: Love must be constantly renewed, constantly grown and constantly created. No matter how long you are together, don't get used to it. People are lazy, but you can't be lazy, so you can take the initiative and let him hold you in his hand all the time. So, if you are too lazy to dress up, he will meet other little sisters. If you are too lazy to go out and make money, he will think you are worthless. If you are too lazy to study, he will think that you have been regressing. Not only he but also you will look down on yourself. There are also some women who are so sensible that they don't even have to date to make a living. Even if I get married, I will make time for you two. You can plan a trip together and then divide the work. One is doing raiders, the other is booking air tickets, and you two share your views, thoughts and feelings, injecting new vitality into this relationship.