China table tennis has an example:
As we all know, Deng Yaping and Qiao Hong are two top table tennis players in the world. Qiao Hong "debuted" earlier, ranking first, but with the appearance of Deng Yaping, she ranked second until she retired. People often feel sorry for Qiao Hong: "Without Deng Yaping, all the world champions in recent years are yours?" But Qiao Hong always smiled and said, "If it weren't for her, I wouldn't be under pressure every day to improve my skills, and my level would be much worse than now." I think if someone asks Deng Yaping, her answer must be similar. Yes, it doesn't really matter whether you win or lose. What matters is what you think is really valuable. As the saying goes, if you have something, you will lose, and if you have something, you will lose. Although Qiao Hong has lost the glorious title of "No.1 in the world", she has a hard-won friendship with Deng Yaping.
Some people want more things because of greed, but now they have lost everything. In fact, sometimes giving up is also a kind of beauty.
There is a story: an old man accidentally dropped the new shoes he just bought from the window on the high-speed rail, and everyone around him felt sorry. Unexpectedly, the old man immediately threw the second shoe out of the window. This move is even more surprising. The old man explained, "No matter how expensive this shoe is, it's useless to me, but if anyone can find a pair of shoes, maybe he can wear it!" " "
Yes, be good at seeing value from losses. Since it is useless to keep disabled people, it is better to help others, even if it means giving up something.
The process of giving up is also the whole process of giving up. We take what we need and what suits our own development; It is not a burden, but an obstacle to progress. It is said that giving up is a kind of beauty, because only giving up will know how to have it, and only giving up will cherish it.