I still love my lover, afraid of missing this relationship because of misunderstanding. You can go to your lover, but don't go to your lover for verification just because of a classmate's words. Whether it's green or not, since the relationship is between two people, we must make it clear in person! What's more, you don't know if you are really betrayed. If not, it would be a pity for you to break up. If it is true, you should make it clear. No, you're sorry. What's so hard to face? Even if you break up, you should tell her with dignity, otherwise others will think that you have been hit hard and dare not face it.
Love needs companionship, and long-distance relationships just lack companionship, so many long-distance relationships end in breaking up, and some girls break up on their own initiative. There may be three reasons why girls choose to end their long-distance relationship:
1, most girls feel insecure. Girls themselves are sensitive and want to have a full sense of security in love. But in long-distance love, men and women live in different environments and meet different people every day. They have no idea what his life is like, and they are afraid that other people will appear around their boyfriends, and their psychology is full of panic. I am full of uncertainty about this relationship, so I will choose to break up.
2. Girls are more likely to feel weak. Establishing relationships for girls means that boyfriends can rely on and accompany them. When encountering setbacks, I hope my boyfriend can accompany me and clean himself up; When in trouble, you can have your boyfriend's unconditional help. But the reality is that the boyfriend is not around for a long time, and a little thing makes girls feel very tired, which will produce the same feeling as having a boyfriend and not having a boyfriend, so they broke up after entanglement.
This woman is worried about the future. If a long-distance relationship lasts for a short time, many girls can accept it because they can still see a future. But in real life, many long-distance lovers will always exist because of work and family factors, and there is no possibility of compromise between them. It is better to let go now than to be more painful in the future.
At the beginning of every long-distance relationship, both sides firmly believe that they can survive the torture of distance alone and go to the end. However, there are many uncontrollable factors in real life, and they will constantly break their illusions through some small things. Long-distance love not only needs to carefully consider the beginning of love, but also needs to carefully maintain the process of love.
Therefore, it is an immature person to listen to the cynicism of classmates when problems arise. Love is love and affection. Don't deny your choice easily. Ask your heart first, and then solve the problem when there is a problem, so that even if there is no good result in the end, there will be no regrets.