Time is the fastest, most common, most precious and most easily overlooked thing in the world.
Some people ignore the preciousness of time and the meaning of life in pursuit of fame and fortune until the end of their lives, but it will be too late.
Let go of greed and ambition and learn to be content. Maybe we will live a happier life.
There was a female doctor in Fudan who worked hard to pursue her ambition all her life, but died of cancer. It was not until the end of her life that she understood the meaning of life and saw through two things in life.
1978, Yu Juan was born in an ordinary family in Jining, Shandong. As the only child in the family, her parents loved her very much since she was a child, and her life was also worry-free.
Yu Juan was smart and studious since he was a child, and his academic performance has always been among the best. He was admitted to Shanghai Jiaotong University majoring in industrial foreign trade with excellent college entrance examination results.
However, being admitted to Fudan University has always been Yu Juan's dream. For his dream, Yu Juan still studied hard during his college years.
In college, I met a boy named Zhao. Zhao's vitality and childishness are deeply attracted. Zhao Bi is six years older and is excellent in all aspects.
After getting along for a period of time, their goodwill gradually rose, and finally a love relationship was established.
After graduating from college, Yu Juan took the postgraduate entrance examination for the first time and ended in failure.
Later, Yu Juan went to work in a software company, planning to prepare for the postgraduate entrance examination while working.
After graduation, Zhao chose to stay in Shanghai Jiaotong University to teach. Facing Yu Juan's entrance examination for World War II, he chose to support him. He didn't want Yu Juan to leave any regrets.
In 2000, they registered to get married. In order to have a home in Shanghai, they bought a house with a loan.
In July, 20001year, Yu Juan passed World War II and successfully entered the School of Social Studies of Fudan University. In order to master and continue to study, Yu Juan is as busy as a bee every day, looking for topics, writing articles and participating in various community activities.
In 2004, the school gave Yu Juan an opportunity to study in Oslo University. She didn't want to miss this rare opportunity, so she went home to discuss with Zhao. Zhao knew that he would not give up this opportunity and once again supported studying abroad.
After graduating from Fudan University, Yu Juan stayed on as a teacher.
In 2008, Yu Juan gave birth to a son by caesarean section. In order to devote herself to the teaching task better, Yu Juan weaned the child before she was one year old. She wants to be an associate professor in two years.
Facing Yu Juan's "dissatisfaction", God seems to want to play a joke on her.
In September, 2009, Yu Juan often felt back pain, and he couldn't find the reason when he went to the hospital. The doctor just advised her to take a rest at ordinary times.
65438+At the end of February, Yu Juan's backache and Yu Juan became aching all over. She went to the hospital for examination with Zhao. When she went to the hospital, Yu Juan went straight to the emergency room, where she lay for three days and two nights.
But strangely, this time I still didn't find the reason. Experts held a meeting to discuss Yu Juan's illness and invited professors from various departments of the hospital.
20 10, 10, the doctor finally diagnosed the cancer, the cancer cells have spread to the bone marrow, and the bones have turned black, with only more than two years left at most.
Zhao was shocked when he heard the diagnosis from the hospital.
It never occurred to him that Yu Juan would get cancer, and it was terminal. His brain is blank at the moment. Yu Juancai is 3 1 year old, and their child is only 2 years old, which makes her unable to face it.
Zhao knew he couldn't hide it, and finally told the diagnosis result of advanced breast cancer. He wants to face it with her.
But this time, Yu Juan has lost the chance of surgery and can only rely on chemotherapy and drugs to maintain his life.
Twice a day, bone marrow puncture and 14 times of chemotherapy made Yu Juan vomit at least dozens of times a day, and even fainted in pain.
At the same time, the high medical expenses also make them breathless. Inject 25,000 needles every 2 1 day; More than 10 thousand boxes of imported medicine are only enough for one course of treatment.
In order to treat the disease, Zhao sold his new house, and his parents in his hometown also sold his old house. The family could only live in a rented house.
After reading Yu Juan's story on the Internet, many netizens lamented and expressed their views on the meaning of life.
Some netizens said:
"The meaning of life is to know and understand the essence of nature, know yourself clearly, find the best way to live, and realize the reasonable and moderate unity of matter and spirit. Let me tell you a secret. Everyone's life is easy to know people and find people, but it's too difficult to know life and find yourself, just like looking for the sky, but the sky is actually in his heart, and everyone's heart is, gathering into the sea, God's will. "
Some netizens also said:
"Every time I work overtime, I will get the answer in the future. Take your time on the road of life, and don't rush for answers. Love yourself, things will never end, but life is only once. "
The netizen who lamented life said:
"Reminds me of the patient when my husband was in hospital! 32-year-old falling paralyzed! In addition to moving your mouth, it is up to others to take care of it! Hey, life, getting a safe and healthy life is already a sign. "
Everyone's life should not be defined. When we were born, we had our own script. As for how to interpret the plot well, you need to judge and work hard by yourself.
Different scripts have different lives, some are dull, some are warm, some are happy, and some are painful.
But in any case, we should try our best to interpret the play and enrich the plot as much as possible until the end.
20 1 1 In March, Yu Juan listened to a folk "Dr. Yang Shen" who specializes in cancer because of "sudden illness". He received hunger therapy, which aggravated his illness.
In the last days, Yu Juan began to record his anti-cancer dribs and drabs online.
20 1 1 On April 2nd, Yu Juan celebrated her 32nd birthday, which was also her last birthday. That day, she had chemotherapy, but the effect was not good, and even she had severe hypoxia and difficulty breathing.
After 36 hours of rescue, she was finally pulled back from the hands of death, and she wrote on her online account:
"The weather is not very good, the mood is not very bad, the body is not very good, the spirit is not very bad, wish me a happy birthday!"
It was not until the end of her life that Yu Juan understood the meaning of life: how important it is to have a healthy body and accompany her family.
This cancer forced her to let go of everything in the world, and all the noise and glitz were far away from her. Only one mother, wife and daughter have the last attachment and nostalgia for her relatives and homeland.
If she has time, she will spend time with her children, buy a pair of shoes for her parents with the money from buying a car, buy a house less desperately, pursue fame and fortune, be healthy and happy with her loved ones, and live in a humble abode can be very warm.
20 1 19 In the early morning of April 19, Yu Juan still failed to escape the clutches of the disease and passed away with regret.
One month before his death, he was interviewed by Shanghai TV. Yu Juan spoke his three biggest wishes at present:
"Let the son have a mother, the parents have a daughter, and the lover has a wife."
But at the moment, she can no longer realize this seemingly simple wish. We are sad, but we can't change anything.
Yu Juan recorded nearly100000 words from the beginning of recording her life on the network platform to her last regret, all of which were her sighs for life, her regrets for herself and her warnings to the world, with more than 8 million hits.
Yu Juan's friend Zhang Xuesong was deeply shocked by the words on Yu Juan's online platform account.
He made a decision to put all the words into a book and then publish it to warn the world and make more people wake up.
20 1 1 May, this book was first published.
This book tells the story of Yu Juan's short life. She hopes that through her own experience, those who have been deceived will wake up and never experience regret again.
Human life lies not in the length of time, but in the meaning of life.
Don't squander your hard-won time at will, don't disappoint the people around you who love you, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it.
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Today's topic: If it were you, would you choose fame and fortune, or a dull and happy life?