A really smart man knows how to plan his life well, do top-level design well, and invest in himself selectively in some aspects. In the end, every little makes a mickle, success comes naturally, and happiness comes unexpectedly.
Smart men have a wise way to live: they will focus on investing in themselves in the following four aspects, and eventually they will be lucky to come uninvited.
0 1 1, choose a good wife;
Behind every successful man, there is a wife. Moreover, a good marriage will make each other complete and progress, and ultimately benefit the whole extended family.
A really smart person will choose his life partner carefully and often end up with a good wife.
The standard of a good wife is not how amazing her appearance is or how well-off her family is, but how good, virtuous, reasonable, hardworking and kind she is.
Entrepreneur Cao's wife is not highly educated, but she is virtuous and capable, and has become a woman who pays silently behind her back.
Such a woman is the best feng shui in a family, not only can Wangfu, but also Wangfu.
This is what people often say: three generations of good women prosper and three generations of bad women perish.
A good wife and a good husband have few disasters. Even if a woman is beautiful and has a good figure, if she is not virtuous enough, she likes to make trouble and is arrogant, she will bring endless disasters to her family and harm others and herself sooner or later.
Zeng Guofan talked about the standard of children's mate selection in his family letter. He said: I'm afraid that his wife's arrogance and extravagance will disturb my family rules and induce my children to be extravagant.
It can be seen that Zeng Guofan attached importance to women's virtue, because he knew that it would subtly affect the rise and fall of the family. No wonder the Tseng family has flourished to this day.
Therefore, a wise man is good at investing in the future, choosing a virtuous wife, and his life will be full of blessings, and future generations will also benefit.
At the same time, if a man succeeds, he should not abandon his wife!
02 2, read more books and study;
Now is not the time to be bigger than anyone else. A man's good brain is more important than a big man.
Therefore, while destroying the body, men must pay attention to the "spirit of education", read more books and study more on weekdays, save your strength and improve your self-ability.
Because soft power and ability are the foundation for a man to stand in an invincible position in society.
Zeng Guofan once warned his son that there are only two things reliable in the world, one is to enter Germany, and the other is to study.
The acquisition of these two things requires us to study hard and think more. The so-called:
Li Ka-shing once said in Introduction to One Minute:
Before going to bed every night, I still have to read. Knowledge does not determine the increase of wealth, but you have more opportunities, and creating opportunities is the best way!
It can be seen that excellent men are good at investing in their brains, forming a good habit of reading and learning, making continuous progress, seeking innovation and change, and finally getting the pity of the lucky goddess more easily.
03 3. Exercise regularly.
From time to time, we can see a regrettable tragedy: a young and promising man, with a successful academic career and a happy family, passed away with regret because of a major physical problem.
In February this year, the famous singer Zhao Yingjun died of illness at the age of 43, which is a pity.
In May, Zuo Hui, the former chairman of Chain Home, who was worth over 100 billion yuan, and the founder of shell company, died at the age of 50 due to the unexpected deterioration of lung cancer.
Living examples tell us that health is the capital of revolution. If the body can't be preserved, everything will return to zero.
Therefore, if a man wants to develop in the long run, he should look at the problem for a long time, invest more time and energy in his body and exercise regularly.
All the good things in life are attached to the body. If life no longer exists, or people get sick, people's willpower and spirit will be greatly reduced, and they will be unable to do things.
So the ancients said: wealth depends on spirit!
People who are energetic and healthy are more able to withstand all kinds of difficulties and obstacles, laugh at the end, and then feel full of happiness.
04 4. Maintain good interpersonal relationships.
There are several cases of graduating from famous universities around me, but they are mediocre all their lives.
The reason is mostly attributed to one's own personality. They are not good at socializing, they don't like dealing with people, they like to cultivate their self-cultivation behind closed doors, concentrate on reading sage books and go it alone.
However, the ancients have long warned us that it is difficult to achieve great things if we are immune to it!
This is how easy it is to understand. It is difficult for a tree to become a boat, and it is difficult for a tree to become a forest.
Therefore, a really smart man knows how to invest in contacts, is good at maintaining various relationships, is a person with high emotional intelligence, and finally achieves the greatest thing at the least cost.
"Anti-adaptability" says: Take the wisdom of all people, that is, do whatever you want; With the strength of all, it is invincible.
Zeng Guofan also summed up the secret of success: setting everyone's private ownership as one person's public ownership.
It can be seen that people who are good at "governing the people" are more likely to succeed.
No wonder the old saying goes: He who knows others is king; The governor is also a minister.
At the same time, men should also be careful to make friends when socializing. As the saying goes, "the success or failure of a lifetime is related to the merits and demerits of friends."
05 concluding remarks
It never rains but it pours, to err is human! Good luck and destiny can also be planned and designed by ourselves.
Really smart men are good at planning their own lives, and they will focus on "investing in themselves" in the above four aspects:
Choose a good wife, invest in brains, invest in health, and invest in contacts.
When we grasp the main contradiction in life, all the problems will be solved!
Reflections on the monarch-carry forward traditional culture and taste the wisdom of life.
Learn a little every day, make progress every day and encourage you!