First: You must have a goal and know what you want, because knowing this is always the first step to make a good decision. On the other hand, when you don't know what you want, you won't be so firm. Instead, you will follow the crowd and your ability to judge right and wrong will be weakened. You always feel that life has no direction. And when you know what you want, your heart is firm and unshakable, and you know what you should and should not do. In short, there is nothing wrong with asking yourself what you want.

Second: don't deny your own advantages because of your own small shortcomings. Think more about how to expand your advantages and cultivate your core competitiveness. In short, don't be influenced by small things, be good at analyzing yourself.

Third: keep a normal heart. There is a good saying: get it calmly and lose it indifferently. Doing things with a normal mind often leads to good results, but you can take risks more bravely without making more plans. Focus on the matter itself and don't care too much about gains and losses.

Fourth: Failure is the mother of success. When we fail, we should face it bravely and don't deny ourselves easily. We should have the courage to learn from failure and stand up again. Accumulate more experience before you start, and you will have unexpected good results.

Fifth, manage your emotions: don't be a slave to your emotions at any time, don't let all actions be subject to your emotions, but control your emotions in turn. Learn to manage your emotions and make your life more calm. In fact, slowly, you will find that besides the basic material needs, the most important thing is your mentality and mood. But as long as you keep a normal heart, don't lose heart and don't give up, you can always see the rainbow after the storm.

Sixth: always be gentle and upward. It is not easy to do this, but I believe you can do it. Find the gentle and enterprising self in the university, and believe that he can bring you unlimited strength.