2. Pay attention to the weakness of human nature. Human nature has many weaknesses, and everyone has some. It's not that someone is bad, but where is human nature. For example, most people are vain and jealous. You may have a good family, but if you spend money lavishly, others will think you are showing off, even though you used to live like this. What is normal for you may be different for others. There are similar grades and the like, all of which are the same. Actually, this is a normal phenomenon. You need to pay due attention to the feelings of people around you so that it won't be too painful.
If you really have a difficult roommate, don't force yourself. To put it bluntly, everyone happens to live together. Being able to get along is fate. But after all, there are differences between people. If they don't deal with each other, that's it. If you push yourself too hard and think about it every day, then you will feel more and more uncomfortable if you are too sensitive. Just jump out and don't take it too seriously.
4. The human heart is a bottomless pit. Not only for roommates, but also for everyone. If you don't want to be nice to others, others will be nice to you. Don't try to be honest with everyone, but keep the bottom line. Only when you have the right expectations of people will you not be disappointed by your high expectations.
Try not to get involved in other people's emotional problems For example, if your roommate complains about your emotional problems, you will be indignant and others will break up. As a result, the next day, people got back together, and you were embarrassed. Sometimes people just need emotional value when they get along with each other.
6. Do you know what you want to do in college? The most important thing is, of course, study. Learning includes not only the usual classroom study, but also various practices, your professional interests and so on. You should focus on how to improve your real ability. On this premise, other things are not too big. Tolerance is tolerance. Don't care too much.
7. Spend more time with students who study hard and study hard. Learning here also includes all kinds of learning outside the classroom and major. A classmate who usually actively participates in various practices is also studying hard. If you have such classmates in your dormitory, study together and influence each other. Avoid negative interaction with the dormitory, such as not studying. Otherwise, the truth of the world will be known only after entering the society, and it is difficult for people with poor learning ability to be competitive.
Looking back now, among the roommates of universities and graduate students, there are students who started business with me, students who are now doing well in major companies, and students who are about to go public. Everyone has their own growth. Every student, at that time, may have his own personality. Under one roof, there will inevitably be all kinds of bumps, but looking back after many years, in fact, everyone is quite good.
Keep a sincere heart, and of course protect yourself properly, so as to get along well with others.