In fact, the physical fatigue of junior and senior high schools and the mental fatigue of universities may be the real reasons. Originally, there was only one goal, that is, to enter the university, but after entering the university, no one set a goal, and time and space were free, and they became confused. In detail, there are several main reasons.
There are several reasons for feeling that college is more tired than high school: the interpersonal relationship is complicated.
University is the epitome of society, and interpersonal relationship is much more complicated than high school. When talking to the other party, you should pay attention to the change of tone and mood. This process makes many people deeply tired. In junior high school and senior high school, it was easy for us to make friends. I think you're right. You think I hit it off and people who don't want to make friends just ignore it.
Going to college is not that simple, especially between roommates, who live under the same roof and don't look up at each other. Even if you don't like a person very much, you should talk about the past in your daily life. Even if we get along well, there may be a roll of toilet paper. After a quarrel, you should laugh at each other, behave yourself and pay attention to your abilities and skills in all aspects. How can you not be tired?
Reason 2: There are many things to do.
The task of high school is relatively simple, just bend your head and study. Other problems are handled by teachers and parents, and we don't have to worry about them. Going to college is different. Without the protection of parents and teachers, a person has to deal with many things and take care of his studies at the same time. But who taught them this ability?
Nowadays, college students generally have high IQ and low energy, so it may be easier to learn. But when they encounter other problems, their brains will be blank, that is, they will do nothing every day, can't listen to other people's bad words, and doubt whether their decisions are correct. Some college students also send dirty clothes home, so parents should reflect, not only pay attention to their children's study, but also exercise their children more.
Reason 3: I am confused about the future.
High school may be the most stressful, but the goal is clear, that is, to get into a good university, how to choose a school and major, and teachers and parents will help you choose. But after going to college, you must consider the future. What do you want to be in the future? what do you want to do? What preparations need to be made in advance, etc.
Time and space are also very free. I don't know how to live in college, and I feel very confused. Some students began to indulge themselves, and some worked blindly, exhausted physically and mentally. The result is not as good as they want, and the mood becomes depressed. Where is the way out? This makes many college students exhausted.
Reason four: I lost the motivation to learn.
High school is very busy and full, and my daily life is full and my heart is full of motivation. When I get to college, I believe that the relaxed students in college begin to become lazy, spend their minds on pleasure, eat well, dress well and play well, so that they can spend all their living expenses.
The cost of losing motivation to learn is painful. After four years of comfort, the next few decades will be painful. People who don't make progress will eventually be eliminated by society. If you don't reflect and complain about social injustice, the rest of your life will be more bitter.
These reasons are realistic. It is time for college students to reflect on themselves. If you win one, it may affect your future development. In fact, college life can be easily spent.
How to spend the university easily? Learn professional courses well and get a certificate with high gold content.
I really don't get 60 points in the college exam. To be an excellent person, excellent grades can not only get you a scholarship, but also make your resume shine. Enterprises like people who have been working hard. We should make unremitting efforts to repay every minute of our efforts.
There is a lot of free time, don't waste it. If you get a certificate with high gold content, such as a lawyer's qualification certificate and a teacher's qualification certificate, you know that no amount of skills can overwhelm you. One more certificate, one more way out in the future.
Dealing with interpersonal relationships
During college, you should make friends who are honest and have your own principles, pay attention to methods when dealing with people, and don't be impulsive when you have problems. Although college friends may not be lifelong good friends, they should also handle interpersonal relationships well.
You should also have a good relationship with teachers in all subjects, don't always sit at the back of class, actively cooperate with teachers to ask questions, send greetings on holidays and leave a good impression on teachers, because teachers have many resources, so don't be conceited.
Although college life is very complicated, you may feel tired, but this is life. When you step into the society, you will find that the problems of university are not worth mentioning at all, which is also a good opportunity to improve your comprehensive ability.