First, you must know what girls generally like to eat before eating, so that you can order the corresponding dishes immediately when you go to the canteen. In this way, you set up a gentle and considerate image in her mind, and you are in a dominant position without being abrupt. I'm sure the girls will like this meal, too. They won't feel embarrassed and get along well.

Second, we should control the rhythm when eating. The rhythm here not only refers to the speed of eating, but also relates to the atmosphere when eating. Think about it. If you are a girl, the boy who is eating with you is sitting opposite you, eating silently with his head down, or playing with his mobile phone while eating, then the atmosphere will be very embarrassing. You can't leave the girls alone, you should always pay attention to the situation on the girls' side.

So the best rhythm of eating is: take a bite and then look up. When the girl is talking, politely watch her chew her mouth, then speak, and then expect the girl's answer. At this time, you can watch her pick up food or drink. Don't look at her when chewing, so it won't make the atmosphere so depressing, and it can also give girls a very comfortable rhythm. Most importantly, try not to give girls anything at the first meal. Some girls don't like being given food.

Thirdly, when it comes to paying the bill, I suggest that boys who have just met should take the initiative to pay the bill. Although spending money may not catch up with girls, spending money will never catch up with girls. Girl, whether you care about her or value her often depends on how much you are willing to pay for her. Moreover, China has traditionally paid attention to reciprocity. There are many good girls. If you invite her to dinner, she will feel guilty. Maybe next time she will take the initiative to invite you, so that in the long run, you will get acquainted.

Fourth, prepare paper towels before eating to make girls think that you are a thoughtful person.